Online Dating

So I did it…Last night I joined an online dating site.

So far it’s been a nervous wrecking process and I have absolutely no idea what I’m suppose to do.  I’ve got quiet a few responses and just a little while ago the guy who I was initially interested in and the reason why I joined the site in the first place, said he was interested in talking to me! The funny thing was I had been waiting and waiting to hear from him and I knew that he was constantly looking at my profile, but he wasn’t saying anything!

I haven’t tried online dating for many years and it assumes me greatly that it feels exactly the same as if I was at a party. You know that feeling…There is that one person whose eye catches your fancies, but the entire night it’s every other person whose actually coming up and talking to you, and you and the person you are actually interested in, just make eye contact and then they’re gone.

It’s also quiet an intimidating process. In my past when I’ve rejected a guy they haven’t always responded well, so I really life in fear of having to reject anyone. Luckily with this particular site though (as a friend whose used this site told me) if you do reject them, they make it so they can’t contact you again, to stop them hassling you I guess.

Now if you excuse me I have to think of some funny and witty reply to reply to his guy with…Ah, the pressure!


4 thoughts on “Online Dating

  1. I have to applaud you for joining a dating site…and wish you luck. I signed up with one, but I think its too soon for me. Frankly I’m not sure how to “approach” anyone. Most of what people write is so brief and simply say “just ask”…so I have no idea what to say after “hello”. Anyway, its frustrating…and I’m having a bad day. Wishing you the best from across the seas.

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    1. It’s going alright (apart from a couple of people who are a bit older than I’d like, asking if I want a ‘sugar daddy” -.-)
      The couple of guys I am speaking to I was completely honest and said that I have no idea what I am doing and they seemed to be under the same feelings too,lol
      I am actually surprised that I am enjoying it as much as I am, because I thought that it would take me forever to be interested in dating after my last relationship and how that turned into a disaster…So we’ll see if I am still feeling the same in a months time,lol.


    1. So far, so good! =D Sometimes I do not enjoy being single, than after some of the relationships I’ve had I do enjoy being single,lol…I am sure though once I’ve found my one I’ll be happy again,lol

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