In a world of people talking at each other, rather than too and with each other. I am constantly laughing at the people who say too me “I hope you’re happy to be so self-righteous” or as my mother yelled at me “SORRY WE CANT ALL BE PERFECT LIKE YOU, LAUREN”. Everything is like “fine” with my mum by the way, she keeps saying things that I’ve said, but I haven’t. For example, she keeps saying too me “I know how you wanted to do everything yourself”. I have NEVER said this. Not knowing what to do for the wedding, is not the same as not wanting people to help. She used to have a go and say that people kept asking her about the wedding and she had nothing to tell them and I’m like “And?. Tell them nothings been decided yet”. Me not having everything ready to go the moment my partner proposed, means nothing.
I don’t for a moment, think that I’m either self righteous or perfect. I just believe that spreading fear about life saving pet/animal medications is unnecessary, especially when a Vet is the one asking you not too. I don’t think I’m perfect because I think that my mother has no rights over my wedding, and that its insane to me that my immediate family actually think they do have rights over my wedding and expected me too change everything for my brother, who didn’t have the respect to say anything to anyone.
I was inspired to write this after I said to a TERF, again, was going on about how you can’t change biological sex “Can you pretty pretty please, tell us what a woman is, without reducing us to our ovaries'”. Instead of getting a sensible answer, all I got was “You believe that people can pick and choose what sex parts they want”.
Yep, that is exactly what I said, I believe that people are Mr Potato Head’s, picking and changing what our body parts are.