Today

I’ve been going back and forth with this blog post today. This next week, I was going to be writing about positive Pride posts, and I want to continue to do that. So this is going to be only post I write that doesn’t have anything to do with Pride.

As odd as this is going to sound, I don’t think that my brain has the capacity to understand how I feel about this.

I see people of other Faiths, starting to become distressed. As they see their country, turning into a Christian extremist state. What about them? What about the other Faiths in America? They don’t follow the same rules as Christianity. I wish I could find the video, there is a young impassioned woman out there, who rightly said “I don’t follow your Christian Faith, what about my rules for my body? You want to believe in your Faith, fine, but you do not get to dictate my body. Why do I have to live by your rules, that I don’t even believe in?!”

I felt ashamed to say that I had not even thought about the other Faiths in America. What about them? Why do they have to follow the rules of ANOTHER Faith?

These “decisions” being made are not being for the American people, they’re just not.

And ANY political member, that is not in America and publicly says that overturning #RoeVsWade is a good thing. They need to be kicked out of their office, like, today.

There has been bits and pieces of good news, like:

But generally I can’t think of what to say. And I apoligise, because usually I can’t shut up!

Get it together ladies!

You know if us white cis straight women could get over ourselves, we could probably actually run the world.

In one day, this is what I saw. The first being a bunch of middle aged white women, with “I stand with Ukraine” in the profile pictures, attacking a 17 year old girl. For what? Speaking about her admiration of Nicola Sturgeon, you know the Scottish Female Prime Minister.

Then another bunch of white woman, going on about how Amber Heard’s editorial piece, was her not moving on. You know where she didn’t even talk about Depp? Just talked about her experience in society, and how she was treated in the aftermath. They just skipped over the whole you know, Depp suing people left right and centre for calling him a wife beater, and losing.

So as I pointed out too them. “So, a 60 year old man, decided to “move on”, by LITERALLY years later, suing Heard, when she didn’t say his name. Instead of letting Heard say her piece and “letting go” Decided instead, in a public court case, humiliating himself, his children and his other ex-wife Vanessa Paradis. That’s how you ‘move on’, is it? Public humiliation of your family”.

I will be talking about TERFs a little bit later. They have been particular horrible during Pride this month, they need a whole post for themselves.

World Fairy Day

One of the lovest days of the years.

A fairy is a type of mythical being or legendary creature found in the folklore of multiple European cultures, a form of spirit, often described as metaphysical, supernatural, or preternatural.

What kind of Fairies are there?

Myths and Folklore WikiFairy

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The term “fairy” has an ancient etymology. Originating from the Proto-Indo-European “*bha-,” meaning “to speak, tell, or say,” it later developed into the Latin “fata,” meaning “the Fates.”[2] From the Latin developed the Old French terms “fae,” meaning “fairy,” and “faerie,” meaning “land of fairies, meeting of fairies; enchantment, magic, witchcraft, and sorcery.

In modern times, the terms “fairie, faerie, fae, or fay,” can all be used in place of “fairy,” to describe fairies.

How to Celebrate Fairy Day

Have a tea party, remember to put out the milk and cakes! Pity if they were to be late and you had to eat that all by yourself, lol.

Put on a movie

Consider: LotR, Peter Pan, Snow White, Labyrinth,

Build a fairy garden

I am hoping to do this, even though my backyard is not that huge.

Dress up the pets

Read a fairy tale

Thursday Theories : Abuse ; The True Hollywood Story

Okay, I think I’ve had enough of trying to convince “grown ups” to stop endorsing abusers, lol. So this is going to be my last post about this for a while. I’m over it, I am sure you are all over it too.

I have seriously gone off of “Hollywood” lately, there are few that I have respect for anymore. The ones that I do talk about what they KNOW. I think that’s a HUGE note to take.

Right, so the reason for this post today. Is that Deppford Wives are under the impression that because Depp “got off”, in America, at least, with what happened with too Heard, that means 1) He’s not abusive and 2) he has never has been. Now when you read my post about Hindsight earlier this week. I point out the flaws, not specifically that individual moment, but generally.

When you actually look back at what Depp has gotten off with. Yeah, he’s an A-Star wanker. But Depp is not alone.

Now I know some things we can only say that they allegedly took place. Like Brad Pitt hitting his child, allegedly happened. I am pretty sure that it did happen, but I don’t think he’s a rotten person because of it. That case is coming up too, and I’ve already seen the media trying portray Brad as the only wounded party.

Remember how they ALL blamed Jolie for what happened between Pitt and Aniston? Instead of Pitt.

Not Cool.

Which brings me to the case of Chris Brown, one of the things that made me lose my mind during the whole Heard v Depp thing, was this. I legitimately saw grown women say “I don’t follow Depp blindly, it’s just that Heard didn’t look as beaten up as Rihanna did, so I don’t believe she got hit”. Which is obviously gross for a lot of different reasons. But what happened to Chris Brown again? Oh, that’s right nothing. When Rihanna forgave CB, everyone was like “we should too”. Here’s the thing, Chris Brown, didn’t stop at Rihanna. He kept harassing and being violent, he’s had at least AVO’s against him SINCE Rihanna. All the while, even before Rihanna forgave him, STILL winning music awards.

Which then leads me to CK Louis who admitted that he had sexually colleagues, what happened too him? He won a Grammy. Top female comedians came out as saying “Yeah, that one hurt”.

Which takes me back to Depp. This week, video came out of his defending Roman Polanski. Roman Polanski couldn’t collect his award that he won after he fled America. Because he is running from the Law, what did he do? He raped a minor.

The only person who has taken any responsibility for his actions, even yes, before he was ultimately punished, has been Will Smith. Throughout Hollywood’s history. Oh, and Harvey Weinstein? He’s kept all his awards.

Kevin Spacey still making films.

My Dad

I was “inspired” to write this after the past weekend. If you’ve been reading my posts for a while, you’ll probably know what I’ve been having issues with my Dad, pretty much the entire year so far. I’m nearly 40 and he’s been doing this since I was at least, 12. I just don’t care anymore.

Seeing the Father’s Day posts over the weekend, was so sweet! It made me quiet angry with my own father. People who are my age, at lot of them, have already lost their fathers. My Dad is probably the biggest reason, why lately, my patience with others has been pretty much been nil. If you want to be a hateful person (like a transphobe) do it on your own time, don’t be wasting other people’s times and lives.

You don’t have that right.

Grow up, be an actual adult.

Grains of Salt

I have heard this expression twice now in cases where it should be alarming and a LOT more serious too people.

The first time was those Republican mothers, when the Brett Kavanaugh case, and they said “what boy hasn’t committed sexual assaulted, it’s what they do”.

Oh, okay then.

The second has been with Depp, and his little sociopaths’ stan’s saying “He was just venting to a friend” I don’t know how much you know about the case. These “just venting” text to his friend Paul Bettany, who I’ve also gone off of. Where horrific and quiet frankly, those texts should have been enough. It’s that whole “it’s just locker room” talk mentality. I’m going to post a couple of these texts, word for word. And tell me if you think they should be taken with a “grain of salt”.

“Let’s drown her before we burn her!!! I will f— her burnt corpse afterwards to make sure she’s dead.”

 “Hopefully that c—‘s rotting corpse is decomposing in the f—–g trunk of a Honda Civic!!”

Depp’s testimony in mind in which he denied knowledge of texts that were presented, including a message about sex with a woman that read: “I NEED. I WANT. I TAKE.” 

Too be an abuser, you don’t need to physically touch someone. I hope we all understand this. Again, this is a safe space. In my life I have dealt with a lot of emotional and mental abuse. Mainly from my Dad, so believe me when I say that what Depp has said IS abusive, and, quietly frankly is psychopathic. Depp, Kavanaugh, Trump are ALL abusers, in powers of positions, No matter what their little stan’s say.

The sad thing is the majority of people who support these abusers, are white middle-aged straight women.

The most important sign that the victims of these “men” are, in fact, victims. Is the fact, that once again, I don’t mind talking about. The actual professionals, the people who run abuse centers, most, if not all of the women who started #MeToo have spoken OUT about what Depp has done. They have spoken AGAINST, Depp, Trump, Kavanaugh etc. I think THEY might be onto something. Not these “women” who leave out information and just plain lie about things.

We’re in 2022 people, grow up!

How many more “grains of salt” are you willingly to give these “men”? Surely by NOW they should be running out.

And one more time, just because Trump, Kavanaugh and Depp continue to get away with their behaviour, except for those two times Depp was legally called a wife beater. Does not mean, they are good people. That is the whole point of power.

That heatwave!

Well, as an Australia, I think I am qualified to talk about this.

I’ve been noticing that a lot of people overseas, are talking about heat waves. Aren’t they just the WORST! I don’t mind Summer, but those heat waves are worse than cold. I can’t write about snow, my state doesn’t get it. Or at least, I’ve never seen it.

I’ve got some advice for you. Mainly, how I “cope” with out putting on an air-conditioner. My mum likes to say that we don’t work full time to not have the heating/air con on. But it’s also considering your bills and your energy use. Which, I’m sure you all know, can end up costing a lot. Then you start thinking “Well I didn’t really need it on then”.

Writing about air conditioning though, DON’T put it on to the point of freezing in your house either. Put it in on so your cool, not freezing. The amount of times my body has nearly collapsed, from going to somewhere freezing in an office building, to outside into a heat wave and my body cannot cope with that well. I don’t know why people do that either, it will make you sick. You’re putting your body into instant extremes.

Here is my list:

  • Prepare for a blackout. – Put some those ice blocks you put into picnic baskets, wrapping them up in a tea towel can help you feel cool. Make sure all torches are charged. If you prefer candles, make sure you know where the candles and matches are. Considering purchasing “light candles” the ones where you put batteries in and you can turn them of and off, different colours with a controller.
  • If you’re by yourself, close all the curtains/blinds. Anything that lets sun in, cover it up. Generally during the day you can still get enough light into a house to see, you just want to stop a lot of sun coming in.
  • Have a cool shower before bed. Again, not freezing, just enough to cool down.
  • Sometimes, I will dampen or wet a hand towel and put it on my head. I find that if I’m cool as I fall asleep, I will fall asleep well.
  • See how you can put a timer on your air con or fan. It’s the same with the damp towel, if I’m cool as I fall asleep, I will fall asleep. Sometimes I find that just having air moving helps as well.
  • If you’re in your house, go nude! If you can only do it when you’re by yourself, go nude then.
  • Buy a big dress or also known as a “moo moo” to wear around the house. If you wear it out as well, cool. Just something big and breezy around the house, can make you feel cool. But if you have to answer the door, then you’ve got something to wear.
  • Drinking is a bit harder, because people love their coffees and cups of tea. So we forget to drink water. I’ve also started to see that a lot of people don’t “like” water. But we need it. So flavour up your water. There are lot of ways to infuse your water with fruits, and all sorts of things. So no excuse to not drink water!
  • Talking about water, make sure you always have at least two bottles of water in the fridge. I don’t care if you infuse with them with something. But if you have a gathering, you will NEED water. Doesn’t matter if you don’t like water, I can guarantee a majority of your guests will drink water. Also though, when you open the fridge, that will remind you to drink water.

Hindsight

Hindsight is 20/20.

How many times have we heard that one before? Is it because we always hear about that with abuse cases? Someone said something to me yesterday, “someone doesn’t become abusive overnight” No they don’t, but in every single case of abuse I’ve ever seen. When the family and friends look back, yep, they realise things.

Most of the time, people don’t want to see it. The people who can see it, usually become cut off, since the victim always cut off those people.

No one becomes abusive overnight, but if you actually LOOK and LISTEN, it’s more than likely the case, it’s always been there. I can’t honestly think of a case I’ve heard of or seen, where if you actually PAY ATTENTION, the signs are not there. They always are. Abuse victims very rarely will yell out “I’M BEING ABUSED”. But they are there, IF you pay attention.

Rowling is another one. When you actually look BACK, you can see how problematic issues have followed her for literal YEARS. And it’s always “I didn’t mean it like that” or she’d threaten to sue people. You can’t even make a joke about the things she has said, without her threatening to sue you. One of her charities was started with Baroness Nicholson, who isn’t just anti-LGBTQIA, she’s also anti-abortion.

In China, they took all the homosexual “moments” out in FB, two lines were cut, that was it. Not really gay representation, lol.

Speaking of which, my Mum has NOW finally decided to go to the Doctors, after months of random coughing. She has had trouble breathing, so NOW is taking a PCR test to go to the Drs -.- Do you know how long I’ve been telling her to get it checked out for?

Celebrity Worship

There is two reasons why I writing about this topic.

One, I am now content with the FACT that Depp has pretty much only got other celebrities, a lot of them abusive themselves, on his side. While Heard has got the experts. Including the woman who coined the term DARVO. I don’t care if Robert Downey Jr had a face time with Depp to congratulate Depp. Jr literally went to comfort Chris Pratt when he was “named” the worst Chris (he totally is by the way). Apparently it made Pratt cry, nawwww, the poor baby. His support when Brie Larson (she plays Captain Marvel) received death and rape threats, for being a “difficult” woman. Not a word.

And then I saw this…

I don’t like the Kardashians/Jenner, and I am FURIOUS!

A lot of people are like “it’s” just a dress get over it. It’s not JUST a dress though, is it? Less than a month after she sang in that dress, Monroe was dead.

Even in DEATH Monroe was used for publicity, and Kim Kardashian disrespected Marilyn Monroe. It’s not “just” a dress.

I am happy to say that while I might enjoy an actor, if they turn out too be rotten. That’s it for me. I don’t make excuses, I don’t try to play with the truth. I’m like that’s it. Like three of my biggest crushes in the world are Orlando Bloom, Idris Elba, Matt Smith and Tom Hiddleston. So far they have been pretty “okay” lol. OB, did say a few years ago about JD, but again, that was a few years ago and who knows what he actually thinks now. If he comes out NOW and says the same things, that’s it.

I got plenty of other crushes. I’d be sad, but I wouldn’t make excuses. Do you know what I mean?

Like Dave Chappelle, up until recently, I would have called a comedy genius, but now…I’m like, he’s past it…SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much.

As for Rowan Atkinsons comments about “cancel culture” NO, Rowan Atkinson, if we wanted to be offended all the time, we would listen to politicians all the time. I don’t know what is happening in the land of “celebrity” but it’s definitely losing it’s allure.

And what was with Jennifer Aniston the other day? She was talking about how fed up she is with “celebrity” that’s famous for doing nothing. She mentioned Paris Hilton, which maybe fair enough. Depending how you look at things. She also mentioned Monica Lewinsky. Now, I don’t think for a second that Monica Lewinsky even wanted to be a “celebrity”. But Miss Monica Lewinsky is an EXTREMELY good spoke person when it comes to anti-bullying. Like if you actually PAY ATTENTION, Monica Lewinsky has actually done more for society than Jennifer Anniston. Who has contributed a hair style? Sitting there allowing her female friends to drag Angelina Jolie through the mud, and NOT her ex-husband?