I don’t want COVIDiots too die…You can’t learn anything when you’re dead.

I DO mourn when they die from COVID, because I am BETTER than them.

Also when someone dies, what do they learn? Nothing. They are GONE, they can’t learn anything when they’re dead.

I watched my Grandfather die slowly and scarily from emphysema, trust me. You don’t want that death on your worst enemy.

The amount of anti-vaxers video’s I have seen, where they are pleading with people to get the vaccinations, as they die. Yes, it is incredibly annoying and completely selfish of them. But, again, you can’t learn anything when you are dead. They have family and friends, who probably were telling them to get vaccinated. But between Trump, the media misinformation, Johnson, Morrison, Fox “News”.

It’s why I’m against the death penalty. Too be fair though, there are some people on this planet who deserve it and have actually asked for it, BUT, that is a small minority and they still have family and friends who love them. Some people are just plain psychopaths. But the way I feel about say Rosemary West a FEMALE abuser, rapist and murderer, is different from COVIDiots.

Just a reminder as well, that CHILDREN, toddlers and babies…Youth…Have died from COVID, the majority had unvaccinated parents. Do not wish and do not not mourn a COVID death. Honestly, Joe Rogan could die from COVID, I would still be sad. It’s an unnecessary death.

Do it because YOU are better than them!

I love this man, lol…This isn’t just about America either, this is for every single individual one of us.

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Thursday FACTS – Transgender History (Pt1) Let’s start at the beginning…

I feel like I am constantly having to do this, and I shouldn’t have too. But you know, if other people with much more powerful and bigger platforms wont, I will.

First though, some lovely music, by the wonderful Billy Porter with “back up” singing by the Pose actors.

The ironic parts

One thing I have noticed about TERFs, especially is that they are really into Yoga and mediation, both of which come from Hinduism. Now, if you know much Hinduism. In Hinduism, there are diverse approaches to God and gender. Many Hindus focus upon impersonal Absolute (Brahman) which is genderless. Other Hindu traditions conceive God as androgynous (both female and male), alternatively as either male or female, while cherishing gender henotheism, that is without denying the existence of other Gods in either gender.

Also the God of Yoga, is Shiva, who is MALE. Yoga does not come from a female Goddess. The is just one of the things that happens, when you don’t know what you’re talking about. Personally, I LOVE being able to tell TERFs this. What I don’t tell them though the use of icons is not restricted to male forms. It takes various forms and shapes. The Shaivites and Vaishnavites worship God in non-anthropomorphic, symbolic male-female images as well, such as the lingayoni and Saligram respectively. In their literature, the principle of God’s true nature as sexless.

Basically, Hinduism (which was only given it’s English definition recently), doesn’t have a “dogma”. Hindu beliefs are vast and diverse, and thus Hinduism is often referred to as a family of religions rather than a single religion. Which is probably why a lot of their Gods, sex and gender are swappable.

Sumerian and Akkadian texts from 4500 years ago document transgender or transvestite priests known as gala and by other names. A grave of a possibly transgender person in Europe has been identified from 4500 years ago, and likely depictions occur in art around the Mediterranean from 9000 to 3700 years ago.

Wikipedia – Transgender History

How long has the Hindu religion been around for?

Hinduism is the world’s oldest religion, according to many scholars, dating back more than 4,000 years. Hinduism is the third-largest religion behind Christianity and Islam. Roughly 95 percent of the world’s Hindus live in India.

Witches and Transgender.

Now TERFS LOVE to appropriate Witches and their lives for their transphobia. Why? Because a woman author wrote about magic, that’s it. This is why you will find a lot of ACTUAL Witch communities, accept trans people. Witches, generally, “uprise” against the patriarchy. Witches have always been persecuted for being women who are “different” not part of the “norm”. Or COURSE, trans people and witches can relate to one another.

TERFS are honestly more to be the type of women, who do this…TERFs are more likely to be the Abigail Williams of Salem, rather than the women she “helped” be burned, hanged and tortured to death.

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Photographer explores rituals and traditions of Romania’s modern witches

“Although many would say it’s just a coincidence, this really did happen,” Romanian photographer Virginia Lupu wrote to me shortly after, recalling the incident. Lupu, previously known for her images of transgender Romanians, has befriended the witches and captured them in intimate photographs.

Alina Cohen, Updated 28th October 2020

Romania has had Witches for CENTURIES, and the Romanian people truly believe in their powers as well. If you want a curse, they’ll do it and it might just be coincidence, but it does seem to work, lol.

Some VERY Ancient History:

Ancient Egypt had third gender categories, including for eunuchs. In the Tale of Two Brothers (from 3200 years ago), Bata removes his penis and tells his wife “I am a woman just like you”; (before his body is restored) .MutSekhmet and other goddesses are sometimes represented androgynously, with erect penises, and Anat wears clothes of both men and women.

The Nuba peoples of Sudan (including the Otoro NubaNyimaTiraKrongo, and Mesakin), have traditional roles for male-assigned people who dress and live as women and may marry men, which have been seen as transgender roles. However, trans people face discrimination in the modern Sudanese state, and cross-dressing is illegal.

North America

Prior to western contact, some Native American tribes had third-gender roles, like the Diné (Navajo) nádleehi and the Zuni lhamana. European anthropologists usually referred to these people as berdaches, which Indigenous people have always considered an offensive slur. In 1990, some Indigenous North Americans, largely in academia, adopted the pan-Indian neologism two-spirit, as an attempt to organize inter-tribally. Though acceptance of this term in traditional Native communities which already have their own terms for such people has been limited, it has generally met with more acceptance than the slur it replaced.

There is archaeological evidence that trans- or third-gender individuals existed in California 2500 years ago at rates comparable to those at which they exist among indigenous peoples there in the modern era, and archaeological and ethnographic evidence suggests third-gender categories may be of great antiquity in North America overall; suggests they may go back to the first migrations of people from eastern Asia and Siberia over 10,000 years ago.

Doesn’t really sound like being trans is just a modern “fad”. In FACT, sounds like trans people, in some language or another have been around before even Christianity. 10,000 years ago. Doesn’t sound really that recent to me…How about you?

However, sexuality has been quite repressed in Indigenous culture since colonisation.

“Colonisation, in a sense, silenced that kind of expression and behaviours,” said Troy-Anthony.

Troy-Anthony also told The Hook Up that Aboriginal people suppressed or hid their sexuality as a survival mechanism after Christianisation and colonisation.

What do you do?

You know what “grinds my gears”? When people allow bigotry on their page, and like with COVID. Say people should be allowed to have Freedoms to express their opinions, without me “insulting them”. So basically allow people in any circumstance, to spread misinformation about people or a group of people, but I’m not allowed to rightly call them out on it?

The last couple of years, I have been constantly shocked with people that I once respected, just come out with these horrible decisions and words. Recently I liked a comment about (roughly) how COVID has really brought out how important quality relationships are. It’s so true!

Be an ally or don’t. The choice is YOURS.

THIS IS THE PROBLEM WITH THE WORLD TODAY! I am SO TIRED OF SEEING BIGOTS GET AWAY WITH THEIR SHIT OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN…If you have the power to stop that shit…STOP IT!

NTA

NTA = Not the Asshole.

Now for something a little “lighter”.

I don’t have a reddit account, but on reddit a lot of these kind of topics come up a lot and the “audience” let you know if they think you’re the “a-hole” or not. Why have I chosen this story? Although it’s not specifically about dating, it is about a situation between two exes.

Personally, I don’t think sister/ex-wife is the a-hole. But I have been in a similar situation, I have been a last minute wedding invite, because the original person never RSVPED. My ex was there with his new girlfriend. I went because we did have a lot of mutual friends in common, and I ended up sitting with them, while my ex was punished. So it suited me fine, haha. In all honestly though, if that person had contacted them and he could have gone, I would have not gone.

There is no reason to not un-invited people who ARE a-holes. Especially to your family, and if you don’t even know the people that well.

What do you all think of back up invitees?

I personally have no problem with them, or being one. You should always be careful though about having them, I feel you should be honest with them. You should also consider does that back up have an ex attending, do they get along? Do they have a partner, do you invite them too? Oh, it is not an easy thing these wedding lists.

Why transphobia?

It’s simple, just like all bigotries and all hate. It’s just allowed and people don’t care enough. It’s not really complicated, lol

As examples, the BBC has become extremely anti-trans, as well we as the Tory Government, the Charity Commission and OFM. Just recently the Times in the UK had to do two retractions where they accused trans women of raping more people than cis males. As well as a report about how “women can’t be charged with rape in the UK”, when they can. Twitter does literally nothing, as well as Facebook. And I’ve seen people on here with large, loud and powerful platforms simply look over it.

The US Republicans have literally used Rowlings own words to create anti-trans Laws. But you know, Rowling is having no impact. In fact, the current UK Tory Government keeps increasing the “discussion” time to ban conversion therapy. MOST people want it banned outright, but they’re waiting for an excuse to make sure they can have a loop hole with trans people.

The majority of women support trans women, but you wouldn’t know that when you listen to media, and watch people with the power to stop, not stopping it.

And if I see you NOT being an Ally. I’m coming for you, and your little dog too, and I am going to keep your dog, haha

Now I am not big into the big conspiracy theories. There have been rumours that a lot of the leads of transphobe’s are racists too. All this current transphobia, happened around the time that BLM and of George Floyds death, and then I remembered yeah. There were a lot of BLM marches, in the UK especially, where a lot of transphobes were confronting black cis woman and the white women were trying to shout them down about trans people.

Gender critical’ activists with ‘I heart JK Rowling’ banner mock Black Lives Matter protesters in ugly confrontation

‘Gender critical’ activists brand Black Lives Matter supporters ‘misogynists’ and tell them to ‘f**k off’.

I am not even going to get into Rowling’s anti-semantic and her own lazy racism, it’s all there for everyone to see. So again, it’s not ever just ONE bigotry. There was always something else there. A lot of TERF’s, as an example, hate sex workers and surrogacy. One, they don’t want to make it safer for the world’s oldest profession, they just keep having a go at the WOMEN who are sex workers, instead of the people around them. Two, even though, especially in the western world, a lot of women CHOOSE to be surrogates, TERFs hate it.

I’m not giving in to the conspiracy, it just that you cannot be a bigot without being a bigot somewhere else as well. Although transphobic people will SAY that they’re against Johnson, Trump, right wingers Christian fundaments. Show me a transphobe and I WILL show you someone who wants to control other’s bodies. It’s just what they do.

A little lesson about “mainstream” for the bigots out there.

EVERYTHING in this world, this is accepted NOW. Once had to become mainstream for it be currently accepted as the “norm”.

This isn’t rocket science, it’s simple logic and facts. Like, I can’t believe that I have to write a blog post, because idiots out there don’t understand that we all once, whatever group we’re in currently in now. Had to become mainstream, in order for the world to PROGRESS forward. Except for white men, even saying that though, being white started off as a mutation, did you know that?

When something becomes mainstream, it simply means the MAJORITY of people are now accepting that group. Which IS progression, it IS progressive as a society. Heck, some people out there, including other women, don’t like that it’s become mainstream for women to have a career AND a family.

Mainstream is also representative of the times, and one should look to the younger generation to see what’s “hip and cool” lol. As I mentioned before, even these days, some people thinking that women working and having families isn’t okay. That started to become more mainstream during the War years. When young women, wives and mothers had to start working while the men were away. Before that it was, in fact, mainstream for women to stay at home.

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One reason, and one reason only…Some facts about heart attacks.

This is going to be a LOT for a lot of you on a Monday morning. But it is a serious subject and should never be a versus subject.


ANY time, you make a SERIOUS health condition, that you cannot catch, about a group of other people. You are transphobic, you are racist etc.

Of COURSE trans people tell their doctor’s their biological sex,. You can’t CATCH heart attacks. There’s only two people who NEED to know your biological sex, yourself and your doctor. Jesus Christ STOP using transphobia and using it to take away from real life health situations! Heart attacks are a serious health condition and NO ONE should use them as a way to have a go at anyone.

Women and men are absolutely told what symptoms to look out for. I know about women’s atypical symptoms, if you don’t, that is purely on you. We’re in 2022 now, there are a lot of foundations, health and medical services that are specifically about heart conditions, and no excuse to not inform yourself. You don’t need to be told. You can also ask questions. Heck, I was sent to the ER a couple of years because I could feel my muscle stiffening from the cholesterol medication I’m on. I knew I wasn’t having a heart attack, but they sent me anyway. I was only 35. So again, it’s on you, the individual to find out.

As for women, we tend to not listen to our bodies as well…Anyone ever heard of man flu?lol…We all know when your man has got it, lol.

As I said before you cannot catch a heart attack. However, if you chose to get irrationally angry over your bigotries, then you will probably give yourself one. Including decided to tell people that you can’t “identify” your gender with an heart attack. Which is what Silver Apple “Queen” goes on to suggest. But you know, she doesn’t “hate” trans people, she just continually attacks them, brings them up, spreads misinformation about them in nearly every single post and comment and gets completely irrationally upset over them.

If you take anything away from this post. Whatever you chose to do with your health. Never EVER listen to someone who has a clear bias against an individual or a group of people. Myself, I am currently on medication that helps lower my cholesterol. I have a family history of high cholesterol. Although only my Dad has ever had a triple bypass on both sides of my family, that can be contributed to his alcoholism. I would rather just be safe.

Here are some FACTS:

Transgender men and women may have higher heart attack risk

Even after adjusting for cardiovascular risk factors such as age, high blood pressure, diabetes and lack of exercise, transgender men (who were born biologically female but now identify as male) had more than four times the rate of heart attack as cisgender women (who were born biologically female and identify as female) – 7.2 percent compared with 3.1 percent. Transgender men also had more than twice the rate of heart attack as cisgender men (who were born biologically male and identify as male).

Transgender women (who were born biologically male and identify as female) had more than twice the rate of heart attack as cisgender women. There was no significant difference in heart attack rates for transgender women and cisgender men.

I will point out as well. Even though trans gender/sexual people have been around since before Christianity. It is because of right wing patriarchal religions, that we know so little about trans gender science, medical and health. Heck, the Nazi’s actually burnt down the first LGBTQIA friendly Science and Health center. That is fact by the way, a lot of the older religions and older matriarchal societies have a third gender or sex. In fact, a lot of female Witch societies accept transgender people in their group. I am going to deeper into that on Thursday.

Women will tend tend to have more atypical symptoms, than typical

What is the difference between typical and atypical symptoms?

Atypical pain (women) is frequently defined as epigastric or back pain or pain that is described as burning, stabbing, or characteristic of indigestion. Typical symptoms (men) usually include chest, arm, or jaw pain described as dull, heavy, tight, or crushing.

This is one of the reasons that heart attacks in women tend to go undiagnosed. I am going to praise ALL women here, our bodies can handle a LOT. Whether or not you have children, or have menstruation, or even have the big boobs, a big menopause or a little one. I think I can safely speak for ALL women, when I say these are just what our bodies on a daily basis, lol.

  • Heart attacks are a horrible health condition. I made a joke above about the man flu, but men do tend to… not exaggerate…It’s a kind of weird “societal” thing, that’s not exactly a society thing. You would think, if you listened to society, that women would be the ones who don’t “work through” a heart attack, and men would not. Yet, its one of the situations that is the opposite. This is why I’m like gender stereotypes are so stupid, lol.

Dear ALL women, please start listening to your bodies more. It’s YOUR body, do not rely on others to take care of it for you. You have one body, listen to it and take care of yourself.

Now, if you excuse me. I am going to go throw up. Due to my mental health issues, talking about things like heart attacks, suicides and serious health conditions, tends to put myself really on edge. Basically I think I’m going to “get it”. But this is an important topic, that needs to be taken seriously and not made to be a versus issue.

Your health, your responsibility.

White “Allyship”

I am SICK of my race, and I am sick of my skin colour. White people just SUCK. We are the worst group of people to EVERYONE. Even when we call ourselves “allies” so few of us are actually allies to others.

The amount of names, the amount of times I have had rape AND death threats given to me BY transphobes and mostly FEMALE. Just to see these bigots have their words spread, not questioned, not called out on it. Just to have my “insults” deleted. Oh no the poor white female transphobe, how will she feel about my insults? Her poor little feelings, oh the poor baby. Gotta protect the transphobes people.

That’s not being ally. I have been involved with trans rights now, for nearly two years. Believe me when I say, when trans people see that you do NOTHING about bigotry on YOUR page. They will NOT consider you to be an ally, in fact, they are more likely to think you’re transphobic yourself. That is the truth. And stop talking about them, like you care, because you don’t.

Transphobes literally don’t want trans people to EXIST. So if you think for a second that I give a FUCK about their feelings, or indeed any “person” who allows transphobia to flourish and spread on their page. I don’t give a FUCK about your feelings. You are NO different to me, then the people who don’t care about spreading COVID.

And bloody hell, NO ONE want’s an “ally”, that will SIT ON THEIR HANDS and allow bigotry to flourish. You stamp that shit out. Can you imagine doing that to a POC? Just sit there and say nothing while some bigot spreads lies and misinformation about POC? No course you wouldn’t, so why is it okay to do NOTHING for trans people? Either you don’t actually care (in which case, stop talking about them) or you are transphobic. It’s that simple.

Don’t EVER EVER EVER call yourself an ally, if you’re not willingly to actually fight for that group. And stop sucking so god damn much white people!

What I’d like and what I need

I realised yesterday, that since Travie went missing. I have not had a chance to sit and relax, to have a break. Even the day…early morning…he came back, everyone want to know everything. Which is obviously really sweet, but we all needed a sleep.

I honestly answered the door and the phone, the first time, to well wishes like this…

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And I just looked worse and worse throughout the day, lol. You have to remember, Travie came back at 4:30 in the morning.

My “problem” is, I love to stream, blog and generally be awake at work.

I just haven’t had anytime to do anything. I love my work, but we only get public holidays off. So all Christmas I’ve been working, too come back to my partners house, with nothing cleaned, the cat sick everywhere AND NO DINNER COOKED! Luckily, I have been “killing it” at work since my work neighbour has been upstairs and I’m downstairs. But again, that makes me tired, lol.

Data Entry is surprisingly tiring work! lol

So I guess, in about a month. I’m going to see if I can take a week off work. Of course, when everyone else is back at work, haha!

Too be fair to my partner, the cat’s sick makes him sick…BUT…The dishes weren’t done and there were more than two days of dishes, because I had been at my mum’s home. AND STILL NO DINNER! The sick was in the laundry, nowhere near the kitchen. Honestly, I wanted to cry.

But you know, life keeps moving. Also, I refuse to do the dishes out of principal.

They’ll get done tomorrow morning, lol