Watch Your Words

I found out yesterday that one of my brothers closest friends passed away, by their own means. The anti-lgbt was too much for them too handle anymore. You probably wont hear about him on the news or any media outlet. He was just another soul lost in the world.

I’m pretty tired of it really. How many more are going to lose their lives, because bad witches speak. Because bad witches wont shut up. Because bad witches wont think of others, only themselves.

I came off of Twitter, because I couldn’t handle the stupidity anymore. People are REALLY dying though because of the anti-lgb and the anti-trans hate. People are REALLY dying. Real Human Beings are dying, because bad witch lady has an “opinion”. And she wont shut up.

I only know about three of them.

One of the last things that happened to me was someone tried to “bait me” with using the Hogwarts Legacy game. I’ll tell you what I said too them. “Go ahead, waste your money on a game that isn’t even in the top 20 in the first month its out. Thank you for proving, once again, what a weak, cowardly and quiet frankly, pathetic generation we are”.

I never met my brothers friend, but that doesn’t mean his loss is any less than Brianna Ghey’s or Eden Knights. People are actually dying from the bitch who I wont name. I don’t want your forgiveness, when I get mad about her. My anger is completely justified. I don’t understand how people can keep justifying her.

For Brianna, Eden and Liam ❤


A little tired, America, a little tired…

It seems every time I see the news, America has made another protection for guns. Not in any safe or pro-active way though. Nope, it seems some Judges and Politicians want to make guns easier to get and more unsafe to use.

Judge blocks California law requiring safety features for handguns

Too me, I don’t see how it affects the 2A, at all. Well regulated, also means safety. The guns are not being taken away, they’re being more efficiently well regulated. Too be safer to use.

Fight Me! Haha

Since leaving Twitter, I haven’t had a single stupid “debate” and I kind of miss it. Only because, all the stupid people on there made me feel smart =D

So, here are some of…what I think anyway, are some of more unpopular opinions. As the sentence suggests, that are only opinions!

  • Pineapple on pizza is great!
  • Rowling is a lazy writer, who stole HP from another female author…And she does nothing for women’s rights!
  • Everyone should stop writing that Nat Barr “destroyed” Harry and Meghan with what she said. They don’t even know who she is!Haha
  • Potato Chips are better than chocolate!
  • Harry Potter merchandise is way to expensive.
  • I like soapies =/ lol
  • But, don’t like romance “comedies”. They are the worst!
  • Dentists are overpaid, and don’t work enough hours to justify it.
  • Brad Pitts looks are over rated. Even before the child abuse.
  • I have an instant distain for any streamer playing Hogwarts Legacy.
  • Wedding photographers are WAYYYY to expensive.
  • There are not enough songs about being unpopular. This is supposed to be a silly post, and all the songs about being unpopular are far to depressing.

New Week, New Me and New You Too =D

Oh my goodness people! Two days off of Twitter, and I got more accomplished over the weekend then I have in the last month, lol.

I came off on the Friday, mainly because, finding out that I had an infection in my tooth and I have to go back twice to get it properly fixed. Kind of depressed me. Its not just the dentist and the work needed done there, its my wedding in November. So it’s just one more extra BIG cost.

Apart from that it’s actually be really good. I got a lot of gardening done. I got a lot of wedding organising done. Too the point it seems like buying a new camera and playing with it, would be much cheaper and a better idea than hiring a photographer, outright. I reckon we could totally do it! I really wanted more “professional” photos for both of our Grandma’s, but neither may be able to make it by November anyway.

Thanks to St Pattys Day, I have an entire new focus on a wedding dress. Get something in a simple Boho/Celtic/Renaissance style and then dress it up. As my therapist reminded me though, I can have more than one dress, but with the costs at the moment. I still have time to really decide.

I am also just not replying to toxic family members at the moment. It’s actually all going really good. If they do reply, I either delete the message, or put into a folder to be dealt with later.

My mindset is just completely changed. I’m focusing back on my “website” that I was trying to startup last year. That wasn’t really Twitters fault. It was more what I can use a website for?

The most fun news, apart from the wedding and the gardening. I started to write a book. At the moment I know what I want it to be about. I was mainly inspired to write about what I think a “real” woman is. It’s a total pet hate of mine, that people (transphobes) will call biological women, like myself, “real”. Too me, we are all real. What even is a real woman?! I feel like it’s something I can write about from my own experiences. At the moment it’s just sporadic writing, lol

World Story-Telling Day

World Storytelling Day is a global celebration of the art of oral storytelling. It is celebrated every year on the March equinox, on (or near) March 20.

We could sit here all day talking what makes a story, a story. Whether it be a modern creation or life lessons that have been passed on through generation to generation.

Today I want you to think about YOUR story. I’m having one of those silly “moments”. What is your story? Is it a good story, is it a drama or a comedy? Is your story about yourself, about others, your communities, or all three?…Did that rhyme?

What is your story.

Clearly you don’t have to tell me your story, but just take a moment to think about it. Think about one of those prompts, like “what would the title of your autobiography be?”.

Thursday Theories – The dumbest timeline

I wrote a blog a couple of days ago, about the big reason I was coming off of Twitter. What I’m writing about today, are the “stupider” reasons why I had to come off.

  • Apparently people cannot change sex, but women can create fetuses/babies all by ourselves. Humans are asexual apparently.
  • Someone want to remind Kate Forbes and Ash Regan teams. They’re not fighting an political opponent, you’re fighting Humza Haroon Yousaf, whose part of your party. Whoever wins, will be leader of the SNP. You will be leader of the party you’re attacking.
  • Transphobes insisting that most women follow KJK with her thoughts, when drowned out throughout her entire Australian “tour”.
  • Transphobe and Homophobe “social media” vigilante and then crying “victim” when people ‘ hit back’.
  • Rowling constantly telling people “they don’t understand the book” Like Harry Potter is SO deep…Tolkien Fans be like…

National Panda Day! (I assume in China)

And just like the Koala, it is just Panda…Not Panda Bear!

Believe it or not: A group of pandas is called an embarrassment, a cupboard or a bamboo. There is very little scientific backing or origin of this name as it may have started and been popularized online though.

13 Panda Facts That Will Make You Love Them Even More ; Story by Beth Dreher, Claire Nowak • Jan 24, Readers Digest

Did you know? That Pandas were considered endangered due to over farming of their most favourite food, bamboo. As well as roughly half of the infants being accidentally crushed by their mothers.

It is also is one of the few in the world whose natural inhabitant status was able to gain a UNESCO World Heritage Site designation. The Sichuan Giant Panda Sanctuaries, located in the southwest province of Sichuan and covering seven natural reserves, were inscribed onto the World Heritage List in 2006.[134][135][136]

They are also one of the hardest animals to detect if they are pregnant or not.

They are also one of the silliest animals, haha

So it begins…

I FINALLY got around to getting something to start the Garden with.

I know I should be saving for the Wedding, but it’s just a day. However, too me, I would much rather up do the home, and make the backyard my little “sanctuary”. I want to make my home, a home.

I am kind of enjoying planning my wedding. But planning my home, is much more happier and much more meditative. Mainly because my partner doesn’t care to much of what I do. My entire life my “safest” space has been my bedroom, but now I have to share it…with a man…woooooooooooo, lol.

I need a quiet space, one I can run too when I need too. The biggest challenge will be to make it mosquito repellant. They love to suck my blood! Haha.

There are 8 billion people on the planet

Trigger Warning : Suicide

So I an deactivating my Twitter in about 24 hours. I just came across this topic, that out of all, really just made me mentally tired.

When people don’t want to take responsibility for their hate, and help to create a suicidal person even more so. You have to be a sociopath. If you want to get involved with complete strangers, be an adult and take some responsibility. Brianna Gheys murderers were charged with a hate crime and now it’s coming out that Eden Knight was sent back to Saudi Arabi, and forcibly made to detransition.

Not a single TERF has shown any compassion for either girl.

I saw a post though, where a TERF was saying that people placing the blame on them, was manipulative and emotional abuse. And they don’t have to put up with it. I told them they do and then blocked them. I couldn’t even be bothered dealing with them. What also made me angry was a twit saying because she choose not to commit suicide, that means it’s a choice.

There are 8 billion people on this planet.

If you have a trigger about suicide, now is a good time to turn away.

Suicide rates increased 30% between 2000–2018, and declined in 2019 and 2020. Suicide is a leading cause of death in the United States,3 with 45,979 deaths in 2020. This is about one death every 11 minutes.3 The number of people who think about or attempt suicide is even higher. In 2020, an estimated 12.2 million American adults seriously thought about suicide, 3.2 million planned a suicide attempt, and 1.2 million attempted suicide.4

Facts About Suicide – The CDC

  • 8.6 Australians die every day by suicide. That’s more than double the road toll (ABS, 2022).
  • 75% of those who take their own life are male (ABS, 2022).
  • An unknown number of Australians attempt suicide every year, with some estimates suggesting this figure may be over 65,000 (Slade et al, 2009).

Data and statistics – Lifeline, Australia

  • 115 people die by suicide in the UK every week – with 75% of those deaths being male (ONS)
  • 1 in 5 people have suicidal thoughts (NHS Digital)
  • 1 in 14 people self-harm (NHS Digital)
  • 1 in 15 people attempt suicide (NHS Digital)

Champion Health, UK – Suicidal thoughts statistics: 2023

When I was younger…so much younger than today. I did have a dark thought at one moment in time. I was very angry and very alone in the world. Luckily for me, I had a dog. S I can sit here and say that I made a choice to not do anything. But was I being suicidal? Probably not. Because I know choosing suicide is not a choice. I was an overly emotional teenager. However, its why we do have to be careful with them. Listen to them, properly.

Suicide is not a choice.

I know it’s a horrible thing to talk/write about. But we have to…not “normalise” it, but, more be open to having difficult conversations with loved ones. If you don’t know how, be honest and go get help together.

Again, there are 8 billion people on this planet. You “choosing” to not commit suicide, isn’t the same for the other 8 billion people on this planet.