You know I don’t the transphobes took a day off on Christmas or New Years.
Me being a cis woman, is not an attack.
I know that I have written about this before, we are ALL subsets. Women and Men. According to bigots, correctly or accurately describing people as who they are, makes us “loons”. We are ALL subsets. I wouldn’t call myself a black woman or an Asian woman, neither would I call myself a tall woman. Cis and trans is SO simple, it’s not complicated, it’s not difficult. It is not rocket science, #cisandtranswomenAREjustwomen. We’re ALL “just” women.
For the matters of debate though, we need to know who we’re talking with. As I said before I would not call myself a black woman, because even medically health wise. I have done the research, and black women are much more likely to get a heart attack, than me. I get so tired of explaining this. Apart from it being racially wrong. Black, Asian and White women all have developed differently, we are all women, but we’re all different too…
I actually said to one woman. “You are a subset of women, because you are a stupid woman.” It felt good, lol
They were all like “Yeah, you’ve too be really careful with your language with these people, the Ukraine flag and pronouns in the bio, with purple hair”. Yes, because describing people with the correct terms, which they even acknowledged is in Latin, make us loons, and them not stupid, AT ALL. I did remind them we can call them trans, if they’d like too. Since you know, they think we’re the stupid ones.
Stop misrepresenting us as “weak little things” It’s demeaning and not right.
If you’re a pregnant person, why are you risking yourself becoming arrested? Stop USING your baby as a way to get out of crime. It’s disgusting’s it’s beneath us. If you want to fight for something, or commit a crime. Know that you have the potential to be arrested! This isn’t THAT difficult.
A couple of years ago, we had two “mothers” get off with nearly killing two ambulance workers. Because, they’re “mothers”.
It was disgusting, and there was such a public outcry. One of them had to retire, and the other ambulance driver has PTSD.
It’s pathetic ladies, it truly is.
We also had an anti-vaxxer, arrested for organizing an dis-information parade. All of them outrage “She’s pregnant” SO WHAT! She knew perfectly well what might happen. Didn’t stop her. She doesn’t care about her baby, or others lives. I do, so so what. There were a LOT of children used here by their parents to not be “arrested” at the dis-information parades. It was pretty gross.
Don’t do the crime, if you don’t want to do the time. We’re in 2022 ladies, you want equal rights? That includes being charged with a crime, if you commit one. Pregnant or mother
I don’t see a lot of these people saying new Fathers should be let out of jail. Why is that?
I choose, when/if I become pregnant, I will not be participating in any protests. Even if I choose to be peaceful at a protest, there’s no guarantee that one, the police, in all their power, arrest me, because I would be an easy target. Two, it wouldn’t turn violent. You can’t guarantee that, that although YOU maybe peaceful, that it would stay that way.
I admit it, I don’t get it. Too an extent, I understand and I do not understand, Trump and racism and general bigotry.
I guess I don’t understand transphobia because cis women and trans people tend to go through the same things, at the same time. We have so much in common with each other. Mainly that we are “kicked down” by the patriarchy. So why are these, mainly women, trying to kick both trans and cis people down?
Like Trumps an idiot, whose only in it for himself. Racists, are scared of their own shadows. And yet, transphobia makes no sense, except if maybe you’re a white man who is a bigot, like Trump. I get Trump’s transphobia, it’s Trump. I don’t get these “grown” women who are so hateful towards the trans community. We have walked side by side for many centuries with them. I REALLY don’t get why transphobic women are SO hateful towards trans supportive cis women.
Older religions than Christianity did, Witches do, a lot of matriarchal societies do.
Its something that will continue to bug me. It’s also why I keep saying that women cannot have nice things, we cannot rise against the Patriarchy.
*big sigh* So yesterday, Rowling didn’t just let the mask slip, she went full Emperor naked. She harassed Nicola Sturgeon, the female Prime Minister of Scotland. She also spent the day harassing women, including accounts that had 300 or less followers.
In the meanwhile…Good things actually did happen!
Look up Gender Pay Gap Bot for a start, lol
A working group produced a groundbreaking report for a Misogyny Bill for Scotland.
Before I start this, I clearly include ALL women in this.
Each year IWD is given a theme, which often relates to contemporary events, trends and struggles. This year the focus is on ‘breaking the bias‘. Which is so cool, and I do wonder if it has something to do with the hatred that the trans community has been experiencing.
Also, I freaking just hate Rowling. Not even sorry, I just hate her. She gives women every a bad name.
What I would like to know is, who are your inspirational women? #IWD2022
I would say that I am inspired by a lot of the women in my family. In all honesty (mainly my mums side). My great grandfather, missed a part of her leg from polio, but not one ever considered her disabled. She had a child out of wedlock and never pretended her was her “younger” brother. My grandmother taught me about Reiki, Tarot meditation. She travelled overseas and backpacked by herself, in her 50’s and helped people with AIDS/HIV. My mum, brought up my brother and I with pretty much no help from my Dad.
Every other I admire, is just a little bit extra.
And I know myself doing “Twitter” isn’t enough.
Also I got my booster done, and I am doing well! My arm hurts like a …
I ask this question, because it’s coming up more and more in relation to Rowling, and what HAS she actually done.
Well, not that much actually.
Recently she donated some money to a women’s center, because of COVID. It’s only taken her over two years to remember there’s a COVID virus, I guess spreading all that bigotry makes you forget things like a global virus for more than two years.
The biggest reason this has been being brought up, is because in hindsight she hasn’t really done anything for women. Even when it comes to women or men in her own life, unless they agree with her, of course. She actually blocked Stephen King for saying that trans women are women.
One person, brought up that she donated a million dollars to somewhere “womanly” lol. When we started to break it down though, it was no different to someone working full time for us ordinary folk, donating $40 to a charity a month. SHE’S A FREAKING BILLIONARIE PEOPLE!
The woman could have a chain of domestic and rape center’s for just females, but no, she just let’s her minions continue to harass them instead. That’s not very “for women” is it? You can by the way, you can have female and male only domestic and rape crisis center’s. Too credit them two transphobic people have tried to raise money for female centre’s, for some reason (like I really don’t know why) other transphobic people shout them down. That whole thing is just odd.
So, on here a list of some of the issues that have come up:
Sending Marilyn Manson a huge bunch of red roses around the time he was starting to be accused of abuse.
Rowling’s studio sacked a pregnant actor, for being pregnant. The actor sued and won. Rowling was silent.
The ONLY thing Rowling said about Depp was that she didn’t choose to hire him…What does that even mean?
Kevin Guthrie, an actor on Fantastic Beasts was arrested and jailed for sexual assault. Rowling was silent.
She has yet to say anything about the racism that “Cho Chang” actress Katie Leung faced, with Rowling’s own lazy racism.
Her big hero Magdalen Berns, isn’t just anti-trans. Burns was also anti (and very openly) semantic as well. She was also VERY degrading to women who did not agree with her. She was just a terrible human being.
When I think of someone, say, Dr Ford. The Dr who stood up to her attacker. She knew that she would most likely lose, but she still fronted up and talked. She stood up to her attacker who was about to be made a Supreme Court Judge and has a HUGE power over the control of other’s bodies. Unlike Rowling who talks about her attacks from cis males, and yet blames trans people.
This is going to be a LOT for a lot of you on a Monday morning. But it is a serious subject and should never be a versus subject.
ANY time, you make a SERIOUS health condition, that you cannot catch, about a group of other people. You are transphobic, you are racist etc.
Of COURSE trans people tell their doctor’s their biological sex,. You can’t CATCH heart attacks. There’s only two people who NEED to know your biological sex, yourself and your doctor. Jesus Christ STOP using transphobia and using it to take away from real life health situations! Heart attacks are a serious health condition and NO ONE should use them as a way to have a go at anyone.
Women and men are absolutely told what symptoms to look out for. I know about women’s atypical symptoms, if you don’t, that is purely on you. We’re in 2022 now, there are a lot of foundations, health and medical services that are specifically about heart conditions, and no excuse to not inform yourself. You don’t need to be told. You can also ask questions. Heck, I was sent to the ER a couple of years because I could feel my muscle stiffening from the cholesterol medication I’m on. I knew I wasn’t having a heart attack, but they sent me anyway. I was only 35. So again, it’s on you, the individual to find out.
As for women, we tend to not listen to our bodies as well…Anyone ever heard of man flu?lol…We all know when your man has got it, lol.
As I said before you cannot catch a heart attack. However, if you chose to get irrationally angry over your bigotries, then you will probably give yourself one. Including decided to tell people that you can’t “identify” your gender with an heart attack. Which is what Silver Apple “Queen” goes on to suggest. But you know, she doesn’t “hate” trans people, she just continually attacks them, brings them up, spreads misinformation about them in nearly every single post and comment and gets completely irrationally upset over them.
If you take anything away from this post. Whatever you chose to do with your health. Never EVER listen to someone who has a clear bias against an individual or a group of people. Myself, I am currently on medication that helps lower my cholesterol. I have a family history of high cholesterol. Although only my Dad has ever had a triple bypass on both sides of my family, that can be contributed to his alcoholism. I would rather just be safe.
Even after adjusting for cardiovascular risk factors such as age, high blood pressure, diabetes and lack of exercise, transgender men (who were born biologically female but now identify as male) had more than four times the rate of heart attack as cisgender women (who were born biologically female and identify as female) – 7.2 percent compared with 3.1 percent. Transgender men also had more than twice the rate of heart attack as cisgender men (who were born biologically male and identify as male).
Transgender women (who were born biologically male and identify as female) had more than twice the rate of heart attack as cisgender women. There was no significant difference in heart attack rates for transgender women and cisgender men.
I will point out as well. Even though trans gender/sexual people have been around since before Christianity. It is because of right wing patriarchal religions, that we know so little about trans gender science, medical and health. Heck, the Nazi’s actually burnt down the first LGBTQIA friendly Science and Health center. That is fact by the way, a lot of the older religions and older matriarchal societies have a third gender or sex. In fact, a lot of female Witch societies accept transgender people in their group. I am going to deeper into that on Thursday.
Women will tend tend to have more atypical symptoms, than typical
What is the difference between typical and atypical symptoms?
Atypical pain (women) is frequently defined as epigastric or back pain or pain that is described as burning, stabbing, or characteristic of indigestion. Typical symptoms (men) usually include chest, arm, or jaw pain described as dull, heavy, tight, or crushing.
This is one of the reasons that heart attacks in women tend to go undiagnosed. I am going to praise ALL women here, our bodies can handle a LOT. Whether or not you have children, or have menstruation, or even have the big boobs, a big menopause or a little one. I think I can safely speak for ALL women, when I say these are just what our bodies on a daily basis, lol.
Heart attacks are a horrible health condition. I made a joke above about the man flu, but men do tend to… not exaggerate…It’s a kind of weird “societal” thing, that’s not exactly a society thing. You would think, if you listened to society, that women would be the ones who don’t “work through” a heart attack, and men would not. Yet, its one of the situations that is the opposite. This is why I’m like gender stereotypes are so stupid, lol.
Dear ALL women, please start listening to your bodies more. It’s YOUR body, do not rely on others to take care of it for you. You have one body, listen to it and take care of yourself.
Now, if you excuse me. I am going to go throw up. Due to my mental health issues, talking about things like heart attacks, suicides and serious health conditions, tends to put myself really on edge. Basically I think I’m going to “get it”. But this is an important topic, that needs to be taken seriously and not made to be a versus issue.