Maybe, the reason kids don’t know who they are, is because we…the adults…keep denying who they are.
Can I just start this one by saying that I think I’m getting the title of this completely mixed up every week … Haha!
Patience is a virtue…
Remember, that not all Heroes wear capes, but they always wear masks! lol … I know, I know…It’s too late too vote, but I thought I’d share =D
My great grand father has this on his grave head stone…My great grand father was also the one who was the reason, I was the only Year 12 to understand Shakespeare =D I truly believe that being true to yourself, is one of the hardest and most rewarding things you can do. I believe the greatest thing you’ll ever learn is how to love yourself.
I have decided that every Wednesday I am going to post a sane, thoughtful and actually kind post. They will come from anyway. What I’m hoping to achieve with it. Is to give some kind of sanity to this world, that it is SORELY lacking. The first is going to be from my own mother. However, I’m going to rephrase it to a current topic.
My mum always says “How do you know someone’s staring at you, unless you’re staring at them”
I have been using this a lot lately with the transphobic crowd, as they been obsessing over other people’s bodies in the change room. I keep asking them how do you know what someone else’s body looks like, and why are you encouraging your children to stare? It’s a bit of a weird thing for them to complain about, even the times, I have gone into changing rooms. There has always been a couple of showers, changing areas, plenty of space to change privately … Even so, I have never once stared at someone else’s body in a change room, to make any judgements.
*Possibly getting the NBN today…POSSIBLY,lol…They tried to put in a couple of weeks ago, and something was wrong. So I wont be online much today. I don’t really know what’s going to happen.*
One of the hardest things about being in a relationship (especially a new one) is trying to ‘decipher’ and decode your partners quirks and habits. It’s probably one of the biggest messages that I can say when you are single. You NEED to find out what makes you happy, what behaviour are you willing to put up with and you NEED to stick with it.
One of the hardest lessons that I’ve learnt throughout every single relationship, and in all honesty I mean friendships and family. The hardest thing in any relationship is to feel wanted. I can honestly say that every partner that I’ve had, they never wanted to be around me. They always seemed to prefer the company of their friends, even if they were bad-mouthing those friends (which should also be a clue). Even with my “friends” I have had friends who have dumped me for other people…Hence why “friends” are in quotation marks. I no longer consider them friends.
When you are single, you think there’s this whole world that you are missing out on. I was always good at being single personally. You have to figure you out, I cannot stress this one enough. My current relationship is tough for me because I have so many insecurities, I’ve had to deal with a lot on my own in the past. I am not used for asking for help, I am more used to being upset and crying it out on my own.
Before you get into a relationship do things on your own. Reconnect with yourself. The major reason I am doing alright now is because I know that I’m fine, my current partner is not my other ex-partners, he is a whole other human being and has never given me a reason to doubt him.
So I have started a new Blog Challenge! Share Your World! The questions are asked every single Monday, but I will be posting mine on Thursday.
Pleas click the picture below to take you the original Blog post of “Share Your World” blog challenge!
What type of music relaxes you the most or do you prefer silence?
This is kind of a “little from column A and a little from column B” answer. I have moods where I need the music to distract myself, but I also have the times where I need the silence. I have found a type of music though recently (literally this week) where I can listen to the music at any-time … Look up David Arkenstone, you wont be disappointed!
Show us a two of your favorites photographs? Explain why they are your favorite. If you are not a photographer, think of a two favorite scenes in your life and tell us about them.
This is more a of a screenshot of a live safari feed that I watch. If you read my Blog, you will already know how much I love this Safari feed. This one just reminds me of how little baby elephants truly are. How anyone could want to kill such a sweet thing, is beyond me.
What is your favorite tradition? (family tradition, church tradition, whatever)
Christmas…I LOVE Christmas and over the years we have changed some and improved others. One of my favourite traditions though is when the adults have our secret santa presents. My Grandfather passed a few years ago and one of his “things” was to wrap presents in newspaper, and since he passed every Christmas the adults wrap their secret Santa presents in newspaper. One of the reasons its my favourite is because we live all over the country, we swap newspapers to wrap the presents in and spend most of the day trying to guess who is whose “Secret Santa”.
If you could go back and talk to yourself at age 18 what advice would you give yourself? Or if you are younger than 25 what words of wisdom would you like to tell yourself at age 50?
Keep up with the travelling, but work towards becoming a Librarian earlier. If you have to work full time and study at the same time…DO IT!
Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?
My partner not making me feel guilty about wanting to spend some alone time, because I was stressed out about an assignment due this week. I am looking forward to NOT having to make another public presentation…Ever Again!lol
Three Guesses what this Blog post is about!
I got the text…The text that you don’t see coming…You’ve moved on so far it doesn’t enter your brain that when you feel your phone vibrate there is no warning sound…No loud alarm…No warning before you swipe to say “DO NOT OPEN UP THIS PHONE UNTIL YOU ARE READY!”
So I am going to make him suffer…”All this I am so sorry stuff” So he should be! He can wait until tomorrow!