Can we not

I am not really looking forward to this week. The only good thing about working part time, is that when you’re sick like I was last week, still kind of am. When you’re sick and you work part time, if you take a couple/few days off, you can make up for it on other days. I could also take the leave, but we only have only a little over a month left on this contract.

Luckily, I thought that on the Friday I had to get my root canal finished off, but that’s next Friday. If I knew that the contract was continuing, longer than just over a month I would have taken another day to recuperate.

So, I was a bit quiet over this weekend, still have the sniffles. Since it’s becoming Winter here, if I don’t have to go out into the cold when I’m sick, I don’t wanna, lol.

Which meant that I spent a lot of time of the computer…and reading of course!

I don’t get how people actually function these days. There was some good news that KJK has been temporarily banned, I was clearly happy about this. When I wrote about it a TERF replied to me “Darling it ain’t going to last, and you know why. We never lose.” But what are transphobes winning at?

  • Abortions rights are being lost, left, right and center
  • There’s a video that went viral of a cis woman being chucked out of the women’s, by male police officers. Reported by a transphobes for not looking like a man. Happened in Texas, of course.
  • The hate toward the entire gay community is rising. The gay community that includes women.
  • During COVID, domestic violence rose, which most, if not all transphobes never once mentioned. There’s no indication that it’s settled.
  • Book Banning. Which seems to be affecting women mostly, because women are mostly Librarians.
  • The trans gener banning in sports is now starting to affect cis women of colour (as is usual).

The irony is KJK actually said she thought it’d be a good idea if men were in women’s bathrooms, with guns. That is really the only “thing” they’ve “won” at. Since that’s what happened.

I need a holiday from transphobes, lol


Bee Kind

Too the Younger Generations

Too The Older Generations

And all the generations inbetween.

It’s not competition, which generation is more right or wrong.

Who had it harder?

Living is hard.

Life is hard.

Some find it hard to get up,

Some find it hard to sleep.

Some people have roast beef,

and some have none. (take those two sentences as literal or metaphorical as you want).

The sun rises and fall every day,

as so does the moon.

The birds will always flutter, the fish will always swim.

Still, each human generation born, is another generation grown.

Where am I going with this?

I do not know…

Too the Younger Generations

Too The Older Generations

And all the generations inbetween.

Be kind to the old, and be kind to the young.

Imagine if we knew that no one has it easier or worse,

that from the moment we are “created”, the turmoil of living begins.

So close…

I nearly…NEARLY wrote a negative post, it is literally in my trash file as I write this.

I told myself “no” don’t focus on the negative.

About to do it again, lol

I am actually at work while I write this, I am trying to distract myself. The worst thing about data entry, you sit and have a lot of time to think. It can absolutely troublesome.

I think a lot of it has to do with the unbelievably though that people are just *this* dumb. I keep have to keep rereading people’s tweets and then having to reread my tweets to make sure they make sense. Honestly, while Musk is there it wont get any better. Social Media is always, but Twitter is just stupid now.

I am all for Freedom of Speech, especially against Governments. But the amount of times I’ve told people “Look, you don’t have to tweet every thought that springs into your head” It’s become tiresome, quiet honestly.

Why do people feel the need to do that? ESPICALLY those people who for reasons known only too them. Tweet something that they apparently have no interest in, or have a “fight” in. And it always a bad take on something, or just completely wrong.

Welcome to my mind.

What is the point?

I was going to write a whole post about this. It’s just really simple though. Apart from maybe some tourism, which fine. Is it worth it? You’ve got a “family” that will do everything they can, to protect a pedophile, but not their own son, because the media don’t like that his partner is black and American?

Its insanity.

What do you all think?

So while I am sitting here, still thinking. I think that I like this article.

Rihanna’s post-baby body shouldn’t be up for debate – whether you’re praising her or not

Nicole Vassell Thu, 18 August 2022 at 1:27 am

I just honestly happened to come by this, and I read it. It is quiet a good read and a good thought, as well. It is good to see people defending Rihanna over the trolls, but to also keep in mind, we don’t actually know what she thinks about her body.

I think the reason why I like this article so much is because we tend to forget that celebrities are, in fact, real people. No more of the years where we can pressure celebrities to do what we want them to do, think and feel how we want them too. No more Judy Garland distressing demise.

I am lucky

I am very lucky to be able to read a lot of the bloggers on here. One such blogger is very very…VERY “with it”.


Truth is only harsh if you’re unable to face it-Stewart Stafford.

The one from this list that really caught my eye, was number 31 and the one that I wish to talk about today.

Life is a mystery and you are not alone.7 billion people are living it without a clue about what happens next.

It reminded me that even with all my own stuff, there are other people out there, probably feeling very similar to how I am feeling right now. That we are just trying to muddle through, in our own ways. Some being more toxic than others, and then some trying help more than others.

Honestly, it makes me feel better than not everyone has got it together. Sometimes I feel like I do and that I do not. It feels weirdly comforting that we don’t all have it together. Some days we do and some days we don’t. I now know even people who don’t like me, do not have their stuff together. I signed onto LinkedIn the other day, after not being on it for months, I was bored during COVID. I discovered that my ex-best friend had looked at my profile, only three days prior.

That was funny. One that she couldn’t help her (she blocked me on FB) but also LinkedIn is a professional/working website. So it’s not an Insta or FB. The most exciting thing that’s on there, is…well, not much honestly. It’s a professional website, I’m not going to be putting my petty dramas on there, lol. I am not going to put if I’m married, or have children. I didn’t go and look at hers, because I don’t need too. It was just funny you know? lol

In my opinion…

So, as I will warn you. This is based only on my own thoughts, and life experience. It does not mean in any way, that this is fact.

K? lol

For myself, there is only left, right and extreme. Except in cases of Politicians, they are all so sus and they are totally playing a game.

I was talking to a friend whose also has been targeted on Twitter. On a really old account of theirs, she saw another trans person who has targeted her as well, defend herself…again. It’s ridiculous, this person runs a “network” and yet, they pick and choose which trans people they’ll protect and keep safe. Which does not include any trans person who works in the justice system.

Any who, they were saying that they keep getting targeted because people don’t like their “hard left” views. You know, it can’t possibly be because they’re just not a nice person.

I will be honest here, I have yet to meet a “hard left” person, whose a nice and decent person. Because they’re not nice people. There are as bad as the “easy” Right. Which is why I say there is only ‘left, right and extreme”. Hard Left, as far as I’m concerned is the same as the Right. They are (every time I’ve dealt with them), arrogant, they think their way is the ONLY way, they are only willing to accept you if you comply with their way of thinking, they take no responsibility for their actions. Who else does that sound like? lol

That’s not “Left” on any planet, lol

Ernest Hemingway

Technically, Hemingway’s birthday is on the 21st. However, there is not wrong time really to write about such an amazing writer, with such an interesting life. I have a few of my favourite quotes of his below.

“There is no friend as loyal as a book.”

“I love sleep. My life has the tendency to fall apart when I’m awake, you know?”

“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.”

“The world breaks everyone, and afterward, many are strong at the broken places.”

Of all the writers/authors out there, I have read none of Hemingway’s books (haha). But I know a lot of his quotes, and I am fascinated by the man himself. I am sure his books are completely wonderful, I just never read them. I don’t think he was even *required* school reading.

What did Hemingway win the Nobel Prize for?

The Nobel Prize in Literature 1954 was awarded to Ernest Miller Hemingway “for his mastery of the art of narrative, most recently demonstrated in The Old Man and the Sea, and for the influence that he has exerted on contemporary style.”


Over last week I read two stories that made me go…

One was Joe Rogan saying that he would never interview Trump, even though he was asked to several times. Right so, the guy who agrees with all Trump Supporters and is all for Trumps ideas, doesn’t support Trump, himself?

Then there was Kim Kardashian, who was lamenting who she was always the “under dog” and how she was fine with that. Personally, I’m still waiting for her apology to Taylor Swift.

Aren’t celebrities odd.

Not so exciting

For one second, I was thrilled that Boris Johnson is resigning. Then I thought of all the “replacements” and they are all pretty much just as bad, or worse than Johnson.

Even though I’m Australian, I was really looking forward to Johnson being voted out by the British people.

I have friends and family in the UK (again, I am first generation Australian). I haven’t seen a positive post. I’ve been fighting along my trans friends in the UK, and each Tory is just that slightly be worse than the last. Even the politicians who had family come to the UK to escape persecution. Are horribly racist. Honestly, it’d be the same if Trump had resign. There’s no one really good or great. They’re all either equally horrible or worse.

They’re all homophobic, transphobic, racist. Most of them voted AGAINST feeding UK children, it was so bad, a footballer did it instead. Like I wrote, like Trumps Republican’s.

Marcus Rashford: Feeding Britain’s Children – inside his campaign to tackle child hunger

There are no celebrations, because it could get worse for the UK (if that’s possible). Reach out to your British family and friends ❤ ❤ ❤