My cousins partner’s passed away suddenly about a week ago now. It’s shook my family up a little bit. I met her a few times, she seemed completely lovely. She was about my mums age, so I think its hit my Aunt and my Mum a lot. They knew her a lot better than I did.
What I want to write about today, is do you think you’re prepared? If you were too pass today, apart from being dead and not being able to do anything. Would you be able to pass happily? I don’t want you to get too depressed about this. There’s a Golden Girl episode were they talk about if they’re really prepared or not.
It’s not a happy topic. All I’ve got, so far, are songs I’d like played.
I think I’ve written about this before? Always something to think about from time to time.
I don’t need a new year new me, I am doing really well =D Why mess with perfection, haha
It’s so nice to be free. This is going to be long, because it’s been a long year, haha
Well, if you hadn’t been paying attention this year. I have been “standing with” and for trans rights. I have few close female friends, because I know how horrible women can be. Especially white women! Like, when you think about it. Be honest, when a woman has bullied you, harassed you, lied about you, backstabbed, wants to be an wanna be mean girls…They’re always white. It’s just a fact of life. We white women need so to do SO much better! Someone really important said “Until we are all coffee coloured, there’ll be no peace”.
I want to give a big shout to the trans community. I have learnt SO much because of you. I have learnt when to speak, when to listen, like actually listen. When to keep my emotions together. How to help without the use of social media. You have helped keep my ego in check.
Do you all realise how wonderful Science is? Like turn off the tv and go research some Science! I swear once you start understand, you understand.
Here are some facts I learnt this and some that I already know, guess ~.^
Trans women can breast feed
The trans community HAVE existed since before Christianity. Just were given different names, obviously.
Human Beings are DEFINITELY more than their reproductive organs.
JKRowling is just a terrible human being.
Being cis or trans isn’t that complicated. You are one or the other, or you are non-binary. Here’s the best thing, you get to decide for yourself! Your body, your choice!
Being a bigot will cost you everything, being kind costs nothing. It just makes sense.
Pronouns are quiet simple
Being hard, doesn’t mean you’re not soft and unkind.
Everyone needs to find something that they can honestly believe in, that comes at no harm to others or yourself.
Everyone claiming to have been cancelled, have been more vocal than ever before. Unless you die, “being cancelled” is just fake news.
There are always people who support love more than hate. It voted Trump out! Now let love vote Morrison out, but you know through voting.
A virus doesn’t care about “my body my choice” It’s a virus. It does not care about your body or your choices.
Some people just never really leave high school.
Pose should have been the new “Sex and the City”.
I have an AMAZING family!
Things I have achieved and done this year.
Started streaming, and my goodness I LOVE it! I’ve managed to find myself a really sweet and kind community. Although I am not a licensed therapist (and I remind people of this frequently). The discussions we have, have been awesome! And I’ve only had to block two people for being crude =D
I LOVE my new job! Oh my god, the people are awesome, the work…while repetitive, is so interesting! And we all get along, even though we may not always agree. I think I’ve found what I’m supposed to do…Well, you know, until I win the lottery, haha!
I did the famous Leonard family “over catering” haha.
Been blocked by a lot of transphobes, hahahaha =D
Lost the cat, but it’s really his achievement that he came back…Hahahaa
I don’t want to get to deep into this for very clear reasons. She has been the biggest inspiration in my life. I am sure that if she was of “sound mind”, she’d tell me not get upset about her situation and keep living! This is why you LIVE every single moment of the day. Grow BEYOND high school.
And remember loving yourself, IS freeing. I feel so sorry for those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They don’t love anyone or anything. It’s true. It must be lonely.
So as part of my thinking more positive week, I wanted to post a couple of Blogs and say thank you to a couple of people who I think don’t think get thanked as often as they should. People you probably might not even think of when you want to thank someone.
Chemist – I would to say a BIG thank you to my local Chemist. Over the last couple of years my health has been up and down and all over the place. As someone who is not used to be sick this much, it’s very frustrating and my last two “big” illnesses have been not life threatening in any way, but they are annoying and have made life more difficult for myself. When I’ve gone to my Doctors to get help, when I’ve had enough. They either would not listen to what I thought the problem was or they didn’t think it was debilitating enough, to really help me. My last illness, they stuffed up the test results and because I was sick, I couldn’t really get there and then got three completely different answers about what I could do. Which made my anxiety worse.
The reason I wanted to say a big thank you to my Chemist is because they’ve actually helped me. They gave me things to make the pain and anxiety lessen. Little bit by little bit everything has slowly gotten better. If I had been left with the Doctor, I would have had to fight everything alone and never probably found what was wrong with me. It really has made me distrust Doctors a lot, although I will still go. I will probably ask my Chemist for a second opinion as well.
I’ve wanted to say Thank you to my Chemist for a long time and I want to send them something to say Thank you, but I have no idea what I want to send them? Any ideas? What would be appropriate?
Have you done something you truly want to do today?
Kind of…I’m sort of charge of organising a girls weekend this weekend (By sort-of I mean, I’m organising it all, even though there are two other people in charge). So I am organising and booking in where were eating and everything. I have been wanting to have a girls night for a really long time…Except everyone’s been annoying me,lol.
What can you help the world with?
I think sometimes just lending an ear can really help someone’s day. Even at work we have a lot of age range and backgrounds who have so many different stories to tell us.
If life was ‘just a bowl of cherries’… which fruit other than a cherry would you be..?
Oh I love these questions, I think that I would honestly be a granny smith apple (they’re the green apples). I think I would be a granny smith apple because granny apples taste very sour to people who don’t like them, even though they’re just being who they were born to be. People who like granny smith apples REALLY love them, while they’re being who they were born to be.
Quotes List: At least three of your favorite quotes?
“To thine ownself be true” William Shakespeare…Probably my favourite of all time!
“Never make fun of what someone is passionate about … It might be the only thing that gets them up on the morning” … I feel like I heard someone else it, but I can’t find who said…Maybe it was just me.
We’re all stories in the end…Just make it a good one, hey?” My favourite Doctor =D