Me and my high standards

When you grow up, you learn that sometimes, you don’t have to be team anyone. Quote – Me =D

Do you know how often I laugh to myself because I think too myself how open-minded I am, but I have incredibly high standards. Not just for myself, but for others as well.

I can totally not agree with someone, but if it’s something lame like “I believe Depp, not sorry”, I’m cutting you off. I believe that Depp texted to one his friends that he wanted to burn Amber and stuff her in his trunk, because he did exactly like that. You believe what, that he’s a horrible human being? He is.

Paul Bettany: having Johnny Depp texts read aloud in libel trial was ‘an unpleasant feeling’

83 Times Johnny Depp Lied Under Cross-Examination

Also this:

In texts Depp, 57, had described women as “sluts” and “fat ugly whores”. In one he said he would “smack the ugly cunt around” after asking whether a “worthless hooker” had arrived. In another, he described his former partner Vanessa Paradis as a “withering cunt”. Vanessa Paradis is the MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN.

How idiotic do you have to be to ignore that? Why are people this dumb when it comes to celebrity? He’s lost TWO court cases now, because he IS an abuser. Yes Amber Heard did it, BUT SO DID HE.

Seriously, what is WRONG with you to ignore that?

One message, sent in 2013, made lewd reference to Heard’s “beaver”, and discussed her murder by “burning” or “drowning”.

Although I have high standards, I have them for a good reason. When you IGNORE something so obviously horrible and troubled, what else do you ignore? So yeah, I have no problem with cutting people of like that. I guess I don’t have high standards, I just have normal standards, because I’m a decent human being.

Kind of funny, I started to write this one, and the next day I saw this article. You can sign up for free.

Why do people blindly support Johnny Depp? I’ll tell you whyCharlotte Proudman

I can tell you why though, people are stupid. I literally have seen someone write “Because Heard wasn’t beaten up as badly Rihanna, I don’t believe her. But I don’t follow Depp blindly”. That’s sick. Depp has lost twice already, he has now being SUING people LONGER than he even knew Heard for. He is STILL trying to control everything. If people do not pull him up on his behaviour, he will end up like Prince, M.J. Elvis, ALL of them. Their therapists have said that there was mutual abuse.

Why am I highlighting words and sentences, because people are not paying attention.

Have some standards people.

I can’t believe I HAVE to write this. Imagine Depp was talking about your daughter like that. Depp’s own children have to hear what their Father called their Mother, because he wants to control everything. Would you really be okay with that, if that was your daughter, mother, sister, Aunt, grandmother he was saying that he wanted to burn alive, like a witch. Calling her a whore. A LOT of you seem to be alright with that. That’s scary. So get yourself some standards.

And saying all this, I will still be watching Depp and Heard films. I enjoy a lot of them. I just hope Depp let’s it go and starts to move, healthily, with his life.

Thursday Theories – TERFs and their VERY low standards

*VERY long post incoming*

So I am sure by now you have heard of the Women’s March and the vigil’s for Sarah Everard.

WELL…Again TERFs and Gender Criticals are making it all about them…AGAIN. I actually couldn’t believe that I had to argue with a group of grown ups. Who complained that because of a sign saying that TERFS were not welcomed, they left! They were scared off by ONE sign. They couldn’t put the prejudices aside for the violent way a young woman died, at the hands of the police, because of a sign. Not only did they leave because of the sign, but the way they BRAGGED about it too! Like, they were proud that they were scared of by ONE sign.

Then “Reclaim the Streets” was “rude” to a TERF, as they were demanding to know that RTS weren’t giving their money to men ie transwomen, and two weeks later they’re STILL going on about how “rude” they are. Not one person complaining has Sarah Everard mentioned anywhere on their profile.

Watching two women being called “brave” because they’re talking together on Spotify, about how much they hate trans people and they’re just protecting the “rights” of children, by not speaking to a single person who is trans, or even a actual health professional. Is a REALLY low standard to have when it comes to “bravery”. I wonder if they would call two men talking about women to “protect their rights” with no women or a single health professional for women there “brave”. Nope. So what’s the difference? Where, in their world is talking about people who are not even there “brave” in their world? I reported that podcast. Whether or not anything will happen, I don’t know.

Imagine having a go at a small company, because they post a picture of a diary with drawn bums and different underwear on those bums. Calling it not feminist, when it actually subtly is. Then calling me pathetic, when I make a joke about how they’re just jelly they’re bum doesn’t look as good, lol. Then of course they started with the whole misogyny thing, when I pointed out they’re getting upset over a pencil drawing of bums with underwear, and calling me pathetic for a joke. They seem upset. Then they said I was going on about it, as I had to point out. They were the ones who chose to bring it to everyone’s attention. You’re calling a joke pathetic. And when I say to actually LOOK at the drawing, instead of reacting, LOOK AT IT. I’m a misogynists’ -.- They blocked me, lol.

You know it’s just a funny thing to me, that these “women” compare themselves to the same struggles that suffragettes and “witches” faced. So much not are TERFs nearly ANYWHERE near that level that “witches” and suffragettes faced. Even the racists suffragettes.

Now, I come to the Queen of the TERFs. I don’t know how much of you have seen her tweets. That are completely transphobic, but I’ve only just begun to realise how they show how little of a self esteem Rowling has to has. Not only are her tweets and “report” transphobic. There’s one sentence in one tweet, that should be a clue to everyone how she actually views women and herself.

“Dress how you want….Have sex with whoever will have you”

Do NOT HAVE SEX WITH WHO’LL EVER HAVE YOU. How much more lower standards can you get than that? I can’t begin to tell you, how much not to do this. The only person who wins out of that is person who you had sex with. YOU WILL HATE YOURSELF. Which might explain as well quiet a few things about Rowling herself.

HAVE SOME STANDARDS WOMAN! For women and men EVERYWHERE…Have some set standards for yourself and stick to it. Also though having standards for yourself, will also help to stop yourself … I don’t know … If you want to fight for women and girls, if you want to really help us. You wont be scared off by a sign. You wouldn’t tell women to sleep with whoever. You wouldn’t block women asking how the money you’re grabbing from women during a global pandemic is for “sex based rights” when you’re court case is because someone said something “mean” about you.

Okay, I guess this isn’t really a “theory” so much as a fact. I’m “starting” to suspect that these women don’t actually care about women, and just want to hate trans women more.

Why I hate TERFs & GCs. I’m a cis white straight woman. Comes with a LOT of privilege even though I’ve been the victim of violence. TERFs are so engrossed in their HATRED of trans people, who’ve never harmed them. They IGNORE the voices of Brittany Higgins, Patsy Stevenson, Who ARE out there, right now. Trying to stop violence against women, and not on Twitter complaining how “gross” the trans community is. They disrespect the deaths of #DanaMartin #NaomiHersi #MheldoyBruno #stopviolenceagainstwomen

Interesting little tidbit. Since I’ve been a trans ally on Twitter, I have been more abused by women and men, more than I have in the entirety of my life.

Oh, the Irony

*Just to warn…This is a bit of a “trigger” topic, please read with care <3*

I was reading Tweets yesterday about the various of groups of people who helped fight with our ANZAC Troops. One group being Muslim soldiers…Oh the controversy…There was one Tweet that sound ridiculous to me though. Where a “man” asked if the Muslim woman condoned the rape and beating of women

Now this is why it struck me…

No, the woman did not condone that behaviour…BUT…I find it slightly hilarious that this seems to be the biggest excuse why Muslims are “bad people”…I’m sorry, Us as a Western Society are so great at not raping and beating our women? Us, as a Western Society, are great at protecting at these women and also our gay community? Brock Turner anyone? Or how great we are at protecting people who are innocent? How great we are at protecting Women’s Health because it doesn’t sit well with a certain group of people? Planned Parenthood Defunded (So much for the “Land of the Free”)… I wonder how many times this guy has called a woman a liar as soon as she said “Rape” … Or condemned someone for staying with an abusive partner?

I think some people need to seriously sit down and have a long hard look at themselves before they start condemning another country, because really, are we that far off?

Also if you are affected by any of the issues please contact the following helplines:

SASS – Sexual Assault Support Services (Australia-National Helplines) (2015)

RAINN  – Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network (United States Directory) (2016)