So I got “dog-piled” by TERFs the other day, what was my offense?
I explained that cis isn’t offensive, and how it’s just descriptive. I ended up having to mute the conversation because I seriously worried about these people’s mental health.
And as for the “well I find cis offensive”
Being cis, is a subset for men and women. It’s not a sex specific thing. It’s a simple description, that you acknowledge that that is the body you were born in. Being trans, simply means you don’t. So again, cis isn’t “oppressed” related, it’s just simply, I acknowledge this body I was born into too.
I literally do not know how to make it more simple, lol
Why do I know I am one, because according to Allison Bailey, a lawyer suing Stonewall for saying they “made” people talk about her badly, knows she is a lesbian. In fact, Allison Bailey is a dirty TERF.
Alison Bailey, went into this court case saying that she doesn’t wish to be called a cis woman, despite her actually being one. But she is allowed too call trans women “men”. Unless they have a REALLY thick judge, or an extremely biased one. I can’t see this succeeding.
The fact that these people are SO close to getting it. Guess what Bailey, trans people know they’re women/men too.
I don’t interact much with Allison Bailey after she blocked me, when I told her how much she could help women with that money. But you know, I’m even more annoyed after seeing that crap that is coming from her. She didn’t want to spend the money to actually help women, for this?
In good news though for trans youth and Gillick. Keira Bell’s appeal to the Supreme Court has failed, due to her “case” having no basis in Law. What KB and her little fan group did was at first, successfully, STOPPED medical help to trans youth in the UK. Everyone was in shock, we all thought it was a slam dunk. The appeal to overturn the first trial was won, so KB took it to the SC. Where it has now ultimately failed.
So KB won, then lost on appeal, and lost with the SC. Still, transphobes think she’s still “won”, because she got to take it too court. If you’ve got money you can take a lot to court. It doesn’t mean you’ve won anything. I think every single transphobic court case had crowdfunding. During the COVID pandemic, people like Bailey, Bell have been crowdfunding from mainly middle age people, their money.
I think the last few days have really shown how terrible things are.
Let’s get some things off our chests.
I am having a really good time telling people to sod off. You should all try it.
I personally am over the whole having to be polite to people, lol. Like REALLY over it. We were talking about how actual feminists want body autonomy where as TERFs say they want it, but what they really want is too control, like the patriarchy.
This male decided to butt his nose in and started complaining about how come we don’t fight against male circumcision’s. Then started to whine about how we didn’t protect the people who choose not to get the “experimental vaccines” and were treated like there was something wrong with them.
One, males started male circumcisions, you stop it. People who can get pregnant, are about to lose their rights for their bodies. He seriously wants us to drop that, so we fight against something that the patriarchy started themselves. Sod off. Go do it yourself. Two, people could choose to have the vaccine or not. The vaccine for COVID. You know, that virus that’s STILL going around killing people and leaving people with long term effects.
Abortions and trying to protect yourself from a virus, are two VERY different situations.
I want to put this in here, because the last couple of weeks my Thursday Theories have been quiet serious, with good reason. Let’s have a bit of a giggle instead!
Before I met my current partner, I was pretty much always perpetually single. I had long term relationships, but in my life I’ve only had 2 serious relationships. One was VERY long distance and the other, well I might as well have been single. Over all I’ve dated only 4 guys in my life, including my current partner. Between in relationships, I was probably single for at least a year or two inbetween.
So I spent a bit of being single, and I am relatively attractive, if I do say so myself.
However, what I want to write about…There was a guy, that one of the last time’s I spoke too him and he said, and I quote “We are going to end up having sleeping together”.
It was SUCH an awkward moment, like I kept trying to remind myself of a time where I “encouraged” him. As a human being, he was perfectly fine, well … not really … if I’m honest … For someone who was very into heavy metal, he was very judgmental. By that I mean, all the people I know into heavy metal, are quiet assured of themselves people. They’re great! Not one single sexual thought about him, lol
What happened to him? A couple of months later he unfriended me, lol
We had been friends for a while, and so I was highly disappointed in him. This has sort of happened a few times too me. Because I am one of those people who, when I have a crush, you know. So I’ve been asked out on a few dates and not realised it was a date.
Like this one guy, I was just talking about how I hadn’t been Museum for ages and he said, he hadn’t either. So we agreed to go one time, we did and I realised as he walked up too me that he thought it was a date. When he realised that I realised he thought it was a date, it got very awkward.
After that, he unfriended me too. But I started to notice that he was adding me whenever he had a girlfriend. Then when they inevitably broke up, he’d unfriend me again. At first I thought he was embarrassed, but I started to realise this was a “thing” of his.
Then there was one that ended up being a setup. Like people, do NOT do that if you like either person. I got left alone with someone I was not attracted too again, and not reasonable way to get out of it. I was left alone with a drunk angry “little” man. Who literally slammed his glass on the table when I didn’t want to continue the night.
Too the #Right, before you try to “#debate” someone. Make sure that the person you’re debating, really doesn’t care about being called “mindless sheep” or “woke” or “leftist”. Because I don’t, lol. By showing all that you’ve got are right buzzwords, you lack any originality and show us the “sheep” you are. Especially if you can’t even come up with anything original, or intelligent or informative.
My name is Lauren. Today I was reminded why I would have made a good therapist. I was also reminded though, why I’m not as popular. Do I care? No. Do I care when someone says “You should be more like that girl” Yes…I am only human after all. Do I want to be like that girl? Oh, hell to the no. I will never be popular (god knows why, I am fantastic) I will always be passed over for that other girl. I will never be the favourite. But I am Lauren.
And never underestimate what sheep are capable of.
Oh my goodness, why can boys be so gross sometimes! My partner (as an example) sometimes, to try and gross me out, will lift up the cats butts, while I’m patting the cat, as my partner is holding him. This last time though, the cat farted … right into my face! Then a couple of minutes later my partner farted. While he apoligised for his, I had to run to the coffee that we have for guests and sniff that stuff up!
Then I thought “Hey! Let’s write a fun blog post about these situations!”
This post will definitely take your minds off the world!
PLEASE comment below, when was the GROSSIEST you have ever been grossed out!
I want to be running to that toilet, lol
If you are actually sick today, please do not read or feel like you have to comment. Although sometimes, being sick, actually helps me to feel better. But you know yourself, better than I do!
What will finally break the Internet? Do you believe it can be broken at all?
I don’t know if this is breaking the internet as such, but I think once Trump is out of the WH…God willing, this November. I think it’ll be quiet on the internet…Not totally silent, but I think people are going to want to take a loooooooooooong break!
What are some ‘red flags’ to watch out for in daily life? (take it as you want)
This is more a phobia of mine, than a red flag. I always freak out a little bit whenever, a huge nameless van parks up next too me. I don’t even care whose driving, whenever a big nameless van parks up next to me, I freak out a little inside…Too much SVU, I think,lol
Anyone who can’t stop saying how nice they are.
Anyone who says that they don’t hate Transpeople, they just…you know…want them all gone…But they TOTALLY don’t hate them,lol
Anyone who doesn’t like animals.
*7/8/2020* I’m so sorry I didn’t finish it! Everything from here is the finishing touches*
What’s the silliest thing someone has argued with you about?
I don’t think this is really an argument, mainly because they all blocked me before I could say anything. But the silliest argument I have ever found myself was with my ex friends. Where they started off with “I debated whether or not to bring this up on new years eve…But you’re a horrible person and I don’t like the way you’ve treated me the last couple of years”. Then she blocked me. I just know that it was the narcissistic part of her was like “Would I really want to be told I’m a horrible person on new years” Personally I don’t think there’s a GOOD day to say that to someone.
What’s the strangest thing you’ve found lying on the ground / side of the road?
What can you break even if you don’t touch it? (yes there is a real answer to this. I’ll reveal it in the next week sometime. Still, answer how you would like – no right or wrong answer)
Is it a heart? That seems to easy! It’s a heart, isn’t it?
What’s the most useful thing you own?
I have no idea,lol…My handbag I suppose? I can put a lot of things in there. People make fun of me, whenever I get a new handbag. Others always pay me out and call my bags the “Mary Poppins” bag.
What’s The Silliest Reason You’ve Ever Gotten Into A Fight With Someone Over?
Steak. We were supposed to get Chinese food, but my brother wanted chilly steaks. I can’t eat chilli, never have. Anyways, because he’s the Prince, we had to have the steak. I was struggling to eat it, because I can’t eat chilli…BOTH my mum and my brother called me fake! So I said “Yes, I’m fake. I have, in fact, been able to eat chilli my whole life. When I was born I said to myself that I’m going to fake my whole life, not being able to eat chilli, just for this moment”. Everyone made sure he was okay -.-
If You Were A Snake, How Long Would You Want To Be? No, size does not matter. 😛
I would want to be a long python. Probably because I’m short and they are long,lol.
Gratitude and/or uplifting? Please share. We can all use some of those.
That #IrunwithMaud is trending worldwide. We are all connected.