Blame

When my parents split up, it wasn’t them splitting up that made things worse. It was all the adults reactions to my parents splitting up. When my parents split up, about 100% of the adults told me that I had to support my Mum and that I had to take her side. Now I don’t know if you know…That is just a no no. You NEVER tell a child to take any parents side.

  1. The children, living under the roof, are more likely to know than you what’s been going on. I know my can be Dad is shit, but I still love him.
  2. Children probably still love both their parents.
  3. The children don’t break up with their parents.

With my own situation because people kept telling me that I HAD to take my Mums side. I literally felt like I had no one to talk about my Dad and what he was going through. I was 12 when my parents split up and apart from being bullied two years before hand. I had never experienced anything bad before. Too suddenly become the parent and have to take care of one, while the other was really revelling in the attention and loving it, ignoring our pain. Was hard.

Too make matters worse, I had no ask me if I was alright. So at 12, my mum’s ignoring me, my Dad is telling me if I don’t tell my Mum he loves her, he’ll kill himself and no one is asking me how I’m coping. I’m still sure that’s the whole reason to this DAY, I can’t ask for help,lol.

 

Squads

For those who don’t know what a Squad is, other than  a sport reference, the other kind of squad. A “Squad” can also be true for a celebrity as well. Generally meaning any kind of celebrity can have a “squad” that pretty much, any time the “chosen” celebrity gets attacked or something similar, they will usually jump in … They are generally really NAAAAAAAAAAAAAASTY!

They also have an issue if their celebrity is on a show like lip sync battles and someone may like both celebrities…Apparently that is a big “No No”. Below is a very good example of that:

Personal Note: I really LOVE Chrissy Teigen

I think squads are some of the most toxic people I have ever seen in my life. I recently got triggered by some who think there’s only one artist on the planet,ever, whose written about their personal situations in a song…I doubt their intelligence as a human being if they truly believe that.

I am so glad that I didn’t get into that kind of “issue”. I always had my favourites, but I wan’t naive either. They are human, they are going to make mistakes, they are not perfect. I used to like Tom Cruise, I had a huge crush on him, but over the years, he is just too crazy and the whole Scientology thing was a huge turn off. Even Orlando Bloom, I think he is such a gorgeous looking guy, but there’s always just been that little something that put me off, but I can’t put my finger on it…If that makes sense.

What about yourselves, are you part of a celebrity squad? Do you know anyone who is apart of a squad? Have you ever encountered a squad before?