My Dad

I was “inspired” to write this after the past weekend. If you’ve been reading my posts for a while, you’ll probably know what I’ve been having issues with my Dad, pretty much the entire year so far. I’m nearly 40 and he’s been doing this since I was at least, 12. I just don’t care anymore.

Seeing the Father’s Day posts over the weekend, was so sweet! It made me quiet angry with my own father. People who are my age, at lot of them, have already lost their fathers. My Dad is probably the biggest reason, why lately, my patience with others has been pretty much been nil. If you want to be a hateful person (like a transphobe) do it on your own time, don’t be wasting other people’s times and lives.

You don’t have that right.

Grow up, be an actual adult.

Read the words I write

Okay, one more time. People are NOT getting this. Johnny Depp has been found guilty TWICE, in a court of Law, of wife beating. He IS an abuser.

Again, this does not mean, Amber Heard is NOT an abuser. This is isn’t, one cancels the other out. They’re BOTH abusers and they BOTH have been abused.

If you can NOT understand that concept, do NOT talk about it.

This is NOT a case, that will say whether or not Depp is not an abuser. He has already been found GUILTY of being an abuser, TWICE. We all KNOW that Heard abused as well. If you can’t understand the basics of mutual abuse. This is NOT a television show, where you get to determine anything. Everything has already been determined.

Also, Johnny Depp is not going to sleep with you.

This is the last time I am writing about this.

This is not a television episode of Law and Order, this is real life folks. For the love of God, please think about this from a point of view that doesn’t involve you having sex with Johnny Depp. Think about how Vanessa Paradis, the mother of his children was thinking when his text came out as calling her an “extortionist French cunt”, or heck, think about his kids!. He must have known that was coming out. Think about how you would feel if someone you loved, had texted about setting you alight, and burning you alive. Jesus, think about that poor dog, as he shoved it’s head out the window!

This isn’t “hearsay” this is WHY he WAS found guilty, twice, of being a wife beater.

I actually do fear for JD’s life. I think he’s going to go the way of Michael Jackson, Prince, Brittany Murphy. Dying, way before they should have, dying because no one would tell them no.

As it was said in court. Depp was the one turning (or not in some cases) up to work drunk, high, not prepared and not professional, choosing to sue people over fulfilling his contracts. That has nothing to do with Heard, she’s not his keeper. Quiet frankly, she was right in what she said. That she stood up for abuse survivors and she was abused again, by the culture. She was absolutely right. Quiet frankly, there’s a lot of people proving her right.

It’s one of the reasons I don’t want to talk/write about this anymore. No matter the outcome, he’s already established as a wife beater. Depp and Heard are pretty toxic, but I do think that Heard, while not coming out of this smelling of roses. She does appear to be only one who is trying to live a life. Reminder, as well, Depp is the one continuing this. He is STILL trying to control the narrative, and lot of people are letting him.

Those weird moments

I think one of the weirdest moments, that I have encountered this year and indeed over the last few years. Is the “Rights” mindset of wanting to “protect” themselves from the Government.

Except in most cases, the current “Leading” Governments, are ON their side.

Trump

Johnson

Morrison

Are not “Leftist’s” or “Liberal” or Democrats, by any stretch of the imagination.

They are all very much Right Wing Conservatives Christians. Who are very much on the Right side.

TERFs saying that they didn’t write the rule that women can’t “rape” under UK Law, that’s just the “rules”. Yet, TRA’s didn’t write the rules that trans women can go into women’s prison, and trans men can go into men’s prisons. Under UK Law, that’s just the Law.

When a women TERF says in one post “Protect all Women” and then in the next literal post, slut shame a lingerie female model, and say that’s the lingerie model is encouraging penis photos.

No more talking

I am so OVER the hard right, saying that “Liberals” and the Left want to silence the Right. They don’t want to silence anyone, they just want people to think about others. Think about the consequences of what their words and actions have done and do do. I’ve said it once, I will say it again, America’s arrogance that they’re the greatest country and full of the greatest people, there’s no problem with America, will be it’s downfall. By voting Trump, by the PEOPLE…That has been proven to be true.

Here in Australia, we are a good country, but it would be arrogant of myself to say we are the greatest, we simply are not. We’re better than America though =P

Education is key to where a country is.

American education 2020: A tragically unreported catastrophe

America WAS a great country, not so much now.

YOU CAN NEVER FIX A PROBLEM IF YOU CAN’T ACKNOWLEDGE IT.

Also, I apologise, I was putting up my Christmas Tree last night, so I was not talking, lol

Emmett Till is what happens when a white woman is “offended”

What Rowling is doing, hasn’t got just Trump vibes all over it…It’s got Carolyn Bryant all over her too.

Who is Carolyn Bryant you may ask.

Emmett Louis Till (July 25, 1941 – August 28, 1955) was a 14-year-old African American who was lynched in Mississippi in 1955, after being accused of offending a white woman in her family’s grocery store. The brutality of his murder and the fact that his killers were acquitted drew attention to the long history of violent persecution of African Americans in the United States. Till posthumously became an icon of the civil rights movement

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Carolyn Bryant was that “offended” white woman

She’s still alive by the way, and Till’s family and other supporters want her arrested.

Rowling went to accuse “TRA’s and the trans community”, she not only accused them of harassing her, but also doxxing her and stalking her.

The issue?

The “house” that Rowling is complaining about. Literally has it’s own Wikipedia page. It’s considered a public landmark, and has a bus stop right outside. It literally has thousands of people go by every single year, just to see it. The “harassers” weren’t trans and had a Trans Remembrance Day little display.

Not only this, but then Rowling went on to tell her little hate group, of where you can find these three people’s social media’s account. She THEN went onto praise a group of women, who have been arrested…For guess what, doxxing … One doxed a gay man so badly that, he left Scotland, altogether.

Emmett Till is what happens when a white woman is “offended”.

#IdonotstandwithJKRowling

I legit scared, for not only the trans community. Also, though, I am scared for the community in general. How many MORE times, do we have to go through this. Did she just missed the news about Kyle Rittenhouse? The Jan6th insurrection?

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Cher Lloyd


Sheep, Liberal, Leftie, Progressive …

Some of the terms that are just not offensive to myself.

I guess because when someone uses them against, even though I am know that they are trying to use them to say how dumb or “hysterical” they think I am. I always think to myself “I’d rather be that than what ever you are”. Like, it’s not a insult, you know what I mean?

I was inspired to right about this after I was called a sheep, because I had no problem getting “never-ending” shots (you know three shots, at the most, is never ending to some) and they did not. I thought to myself, and after I said that they were just being lazy. I should have put a emoticon of a sloth, lol.

Dear Anti-Simone Biles people

You are the same group that wont wear a mask.

You literally complain about wearing masks.

When are you calling anyone else “weak” and “copping out”, when you literally are too scared and weak to wear a masks?

You tell other people they are sheep, if they wear a mask. Yet, Simone Biles is weak, because she’s literally better than you???

Charlie Kirk is 27, only three years older than Simone Biles and he’s already selling snake oil for bad backs. Probably from sitting from a desk 24/7 telling everyone what he thinks is wrong with him. 27!

Then again, these are the same people who literally do not care who dies.

Sometimes I just laugh

The Katherine Ryan joke was funny!

I would say to those who are “outraged” by the joke, they probably are suffering from white fragility, but that would outrage them even more, and aint nobody got time for that! I saw someone recently retweet a quote from that new GB tv channel? The one that’s like America’s Fox “news”? About how if people stopped being so offended all the time, we could learn new things. The thing that made me laugh. That they’re the ones always offended! “We’re” the ones pointing out what’s offensive, but EVERYTHING offends them!

The quote itself is absolutely right. It’s just that generally it’s the Right who make the offense, and the Left who point out what’s wrong and then the Right get huffy…Generally!

The funniest part of what I find funny about the Right, is that will take something that isn’t even offensive and then make it into this big deal. Whereas things that MATTER, they don’t care about. I have yet to see anyone on the Right actually be horrified by the recent Florida Bill. Which means that it’s LEGAL, if a teacher SUSPECTS that a school student is non-gender conforming, who wants to participate in Sports. That teacher can inspect that CHILD’s genitals. Yet, what are the Right outraged about? “Experimental” Puberty Blockers, that have been around since the 80s.

I’ve spent most of the day explaining to white people why that Katherine Ryan joke was funny. But you know, white fragility and all that, haha

I also spent some of that time trying to explain to white people, why, when the majority of POC are saying something IS racist, to listen to them. It’s not easy to get through to some people. One person was telling me that they could called me homophobic, but unless they had proof than they couldn’t call me that. As I pointed out though, that if the majority of gay people are calling me homophobic, and they aren’t coming from a place of hate (like some gay TERFs do) I am going to listen to them. I’m not going to keep going on and on, about how homophobic I am not, when the majority are telling me that I am.

Applaud!

I read something today that I thought was the most brilliant response to somebodies questions of “What’s the point of trying to Impeach Trump, when you know you’re going to lose anyway?”.

This persons response with a very famous Christian author’s response, who wrote a very popular novel and movie. I’m going to post the persons’s and authors quote:

Do you do the right thing because it’s right, or because you think you’ll win?

Do you know who the author was? I’ll only give one clue, they’re dead now, but they’re novels were turned into movies in present day and it become beloved again.

But the above quote is also true. It’s kind of along the lines of “Just because your friends are jumping off the edge of the cliff, does that mean you have too as well?”.

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I also think though that Trump and Co’s reaction prove themselves that they are hiding something.

Share Your World, Feb Wk1, 2019

Share Your World

Share Your World, 2-4-19

QUESTIONS:

What’s wrong but sounds right?

I have honestly been having a hard time answering this one. I keep trying to think of putting two things that I enjoy, but too others is gross. I just can’t think of anything really good.

What physical action or gesture do you find romantic?

It depends on the person. My current partner, I love it when he gives me cuddles, just because. Mainly because he’s not really an emotional person. A few months ago I realised in the middle of the night that I was about have a anxiety attack, so I did what I’d do to calm myself and I woke up. He woke up too and asked me what was wrong, I couldn’t speak, so he just hugged me and it made feel so much better.

What’s something you really resent paying for?

I haven’t 100% yet resented for paying for something…Yet. There is something I bought recently that has me worried, mainly because it’s not here yet. I bought a preorder figurine in August last year, and at first the date for release kept changing. They have recently contacted me (after ignoring my last two messages) saying that they’ve been sent, so it should be here by the end of February. So we’ll see…It’s a figurine I really want too. I do buy some clothes online.

What’s your favorite romance movie?  A movie you may find romantic, even if that’s not the genre.  I’ve been watching a lot of those lately, loosely titled “romance movie” and found a surprising number of dramas, action and comedy among the hearts and flowers.

I am so weird! My favourite “romance” movies are usually the dark type. Someone dies, someone doesn’t get the girl, but they kind of do…But the other guy never really has the girl “heart”…metaphorically.  They are usually musicals as well. I have never really gotten into “romance” films. I find them kind of predictable and sort of boring.

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And of course we have our gratitude of the week question:

I am grateful that my puppy is still here with us. I don’t think she’ll ever be 100% again. She has pooped, after a few days of not popping. She ate today after not eating for two days. Still walks in circle. In all honesty, I think my Gran, who we asked to look after her, is stressing her out. Mainly because her mind seems to be going as well. It’s been stressful to leave my dog, when she leaves all the doors closed, so my dog can’t bathroom anywhere else but the rugs. I thought it was interesting that when my Mum offered to take my Gran out for lunch, so she didn’t go stir crazy being inside our house all day. That’s what my dog started to eat again.

My dog helped me when I had my first huge anxiety attack. We went walking together, so I didn’t become all agoraphobic.