Share Your World – 03/05/2020

Share Your World – 08/04/2020

Questions:

What will finally break the Internet?  Do you believe it can be broken at all?

I don’t know if this is breaking the internet as such, but I think once Trump is out of the WH…God willing, this November. I think it’ll be quiet on the internet…Not totally silent, but I think people are going to want to take a loooooooooooong break!

What are some ‘red flags’ to watch out for in daily life?  (take it as you want)

This is more a phobia of mine, than a red flag. I always freak out a little bit whenever, a huge nameless van parks up next too me. I don’t even care whose driving, whenever a big nameless van parks up next to me, I freak out a little inside…Too much SVU, I think,lol

Anyone who can’t stop saying how nice they are.

Anyone who says that they don’t hate Transpeople, they just…you know…want them all gone…But they TOTALLY don’t hate them,lol

Anyone who doesn’t like animals.

*7/8/2020* I’m so sorry I didn’t finish it! Everything from here is the finishing touches*

What’s the silliest thing someone has argued with you about?

I don’t think this is really an argument, mainly because they all blocked me before I could say anything. But the silliest argument I have ever found myself was with my ex friends. Where they started off with “I debated whether or not to bring this up on new years eve…But you’re a horrible person and I don’t like the way you’ve treated me the last couple of years”. Then she blocked me. I just know that it was the narcissistic part of her was like “Would I really want to be told I’m a horrible person on new years” Personally I don’t think there’s a GOOD day to say that to someone.

What’s the strangest thing you’ve found lying on the ground / side of the road?

Fly my monkeys, fly!

What is an Apath and why they are dangerous

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A lot of narcissistic can’t do the things they do, on their own. Just like Regina George, she had two friend who played the “Apath” game.

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What is an “Apath”?

An Apath is usually a friend, and most of the time, a mutual friend of a sociopath or some suffering from NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and the victim of the NPD. Apath can also been known as the foot soldiers, or the flying monkeys of the person who has NPD. Apath’s tend not to care too much, or sometimes are not aware of what is going on. They just take the abuser at their word. When it starts to get bad, the Apath will take the side of the NPD, despite proof of the abuse.

Oh yes, friendships CAN be abusive.

Sometimes an Apath will go along with the abuse, as well as being the target of abuse, because they don’t want to, for whatever reasons, lose that relationship with the NPD. Apaths are used to normalise a persons toxic behaviour. They are usually not morally strong, have a low self esteem and are easily led. Even when the NPD or Sociopath insults the Apath, they don’t want to see the bad side.

The most frustrating and most detrimental part to being a Apath, is that by doing nothing. The Apath allows the toxic behaviour to continue.