When did money become more important than people?

I’m going to start this post with this, can we cancel Rowling NOW?

Basically, the story goes like this. A person was making jokes about the terrible things Rowling has said, one of which Rowling has said “I ignored child porn”. We know what she meant by it, but it was just really funny to joke about, and how she’s constantly having to reiterate things.

Rowling found out and threatened to sue this person. All the TERFs, in their usual hypocritical way are all “She’s so powerful”. And it’s like “Oh my fucking god, can we cancel Rowling now?” lol.

At least I can take comfort in the fact, that TERFs and transphobic people are constantly exposing their transphobia.

Anywhooo, the point of this post. People were trying to justify what she was doing, and in fact, was trying to silence someone. They were trying to justify it by saying that she could be a billionaire, but she’s not because she donates her money to charities.

You know who else could be a billionaire, but is not? Dolly Parton. You know what Dolly Parton is doing, as well? Helping people, not demonising them and harming groups that are already marginalised, during a global pandemic. Oh, and not forgetting how Dolly Parton never gave back a Humanitarian Award either.

BeLikeDolly.

Donald Trump actually did donate his salary back to the Government, does that make him a good person? Nope, lol.

I literally said this and I quote (can I sue myself by the way?) … I don’t care if JKRowling donates all her money to charities, leaving her penniless. She’s still a terrible human being.

Nurt Thurs – Unlimited

Nurture Thursday – Unlimited

I know, I know…a single quote can be lazy. But I have forgotten to keep coming back to this and I didn’t sleep well, stuck at work while trying to do this. It’s all horrible. So not very creative today.

Great…Now my picture wont load…I am not “winning” today…So you’re all stuck with a quote:

“I am unlimited in my own ability, to create the good in my life.”

Louise Hay

It’s positively not always about you.

I have been getting SO frustrated with all these Republican “women”. Conveniently saying that they remember EVERYTHING from when they were assaulted. (None of them have reported it to the police) So that’s why they don’t believe Dr Ford. It makes my skin literally crawl.

All these “people” who are like “Well I did it this way”…GOD they sound like my ex best friend when she said it was my fault that she had all these horrible stories to tell about her bf BECAUSE and I quote “When I’m single I don’t like hearing how happy my friends are in relationships” So I must be like that? (I’m not, I’d rather my friends are safe and happy than abused, just who I am.) This might shock some of those “people”…NOT EVERYONE IS YOU! It literally makes my skin crawl.

That’s why in the dictionary there are word likes … Empathy, Sympathy, Listening. Yes, there are also words like Self, Selfish, Narcissistic. Which ones do you want to follow?How about people use more positive words, more actual arguments? I know how hard it is for people who have a narcissistic personality to think it revolves all around them.

Let’s look at situations from other points of views instead. Let’s start listening to what others have to say…How hard is that?

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Rather than not listening and hearing what happened to you, listen to what the other person is telling you.

Let’s turn this all around! Let’s start the talking again.

 

Courage to Walk – Nurt Thursday

Nurt Thursday – Courage to Walk

I have to warn you all that I am going to make this personal, however if you can relate, that makes it even better!

When I had my massive panic attack last year, and when I came back from the hospital. I basically stayed on the couch, day and night for the next two days. I had never been so scared in my life…But…I got up again…I didn’t want to be on the couch anymore, I wanted to get up again…I did not want to be on the couch for the rest of my life…I didn’t want too…

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The most satisfying and most empowering moment that I’ve had in my recent life is when I walked out the front door and sat in the park near my partners house. For the next month or so, every extra step was a personal triumph! When I went inside to the cake near my partners house and waited in line with strangers to buy a cannoli…Amazing! There is a lot of truth to

“The first step is the hardest” But you can!