Grains of Salt

I have heard this expression twice now in cases where it should be alarming and a LOT more serious too people.

The first time was those Republican mothers, when the Brett Kavanaugh case, and they said “what boy hasn’t committed sexual assaulted, it’s what they do”.

Oh, okay then.

The second has been with Depp, and his little sociopaths’ stan’s saying “He was just venting to a friend” I don’t know how much you know about the case. These “just venting” text to his friend Paul Bettany, who I’ve also gone off of. Where horrific and quiet frankly, those texts should have been enough. It’s that whole “it’s just locker room” talk mentality. I’m going to post a couple of these texts, word for word. And tell me if you think they should be taken with a “grain of salt”.

“Let’s drown her before we burn her!!! I will f— her burnt corpse afterwards to make sure she’s dead.”

 “Hopefully that c—‘s rotting corpse is decomposing in the f—–g trunk of a Honda Civic!!”

Depp’s testimony in mind in which he denied knowledge of texts that were presented, including a message about sex with a woman that read: “I NEED. I WANT. I TAKE.” 

Too be an abuser, you don’t need to physically touch someone. I hope we all understand this. Again, this is a safe space. In my life I have dealt with a lot of emotional and mental abuse. Mainly from my Dad, so believe me when I say that what Depp has said IS abusive, and, quietly frankly is psychopathic. Depp, Kavanaugh, Trump are ALL abusers, in powers of positions, No matter what their little stan’s say.

The sad thing is the majority of people who support these abusers, are white middle-aged straight women.

The most important sign that the victims of these “men” are, in fact, victims. Is the fact, that once again, I don’t mind talking about. The actual professionals, the people who run abuse centers, most, if not all of the women who started #MeToo have spoken OUT about what Depp has done. They have spoken AGAINST, Depp, Trump, Kavanaugh etc. I think THEY might be onto something. Not these “women” who leave out information and just plain lie about things.

We’re in 2022 people, grow up!

How many more “grains of salt” are you willingly to give these “men”? Surely by NOW they should be running out.

And one more time, just because Trump, Kavanaugh and Depp continue to get away with their behaviour, except for those two times Depp was legally called a wife beater. Does not mean, they are good people. That is the whole point of power.

I’m right, you’re wrong.

Last time, I swear. I don’t think anyone expected that outcome.

So JD was found to be a wife beater, twice by a court in the UK, right. I think it was like 12 of the 14/15 charges were found to be provable. The legal analysts have said that this Jury got this really wrong. And the WERIDEST part of the whole thing, was that at least Depps ex-lawyer was found, in this current case, to have defamed Heard. When he said what Heard had said was a lie. So basically they found that Heard didn’t lie.

The very sad thing about this is that the next day, hundreds of people stopped their DV court cases from proceeding.

Yet, every single Deppford wife will insist to you. It’s the weirdest thing I’ve ever heard I say. They keep talking about how the Judge/s in the UK, only had to “believe” that there was evidence of abuse, or something like that. It’s the weirdest I say.

Which I have no problem with Heard’s team appealing. It is absolutely the right thing to do.

Disclaimer (lol) this is in no way meaning, I think Heard wasn’t also an abuser. I do.

What makes this case different from a lot of others, is that there is one CLEAR person who has the power in this situation. He even said the 101 classic abuser statement “If she was so scared, why didn’t she leave”. For myself, and other abuse victims, that was a HUGE red flag.

I lost about 4 or 5 friends over this too. I’m not even upset about it, I’m just disappointed in them. People just REALLY don’t listen to moi, when I say don’t lie to me about what I’ve said and what I have not. Do you know how many of my “friends” had the actual audacity to say to me “But Heard abused him too!”. I have actually seen a few male victims come out and say that they also don’t agree with court outcome.

Patience is a virtue

I just wanted to start this post with that I have come off Twitter, for a few days now. It’s insane. I didn’t even report Trump Supporters for threatening others. Targeted Harassment, constantly. I can’t even remember having to report for threatening behaviour. In the 24-48 hours before I decided to come off for a while. There were at least 6 people I had to report for threatening behaviors, not only towards trans people, but also threatening to harm trans allies.

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Hold On … I’m coming

“I can’t just sit by a watch”. I’ve been binge watching Genius: Aretha Franklin and my lord was she one POWERFUL woman!

How does someone even get that powerful?

She had a lot of good backing, but I think she would have got there even without them. Her Daddy was a popular and powerful preacher, a good friend to THE King! (Martin Luther King). Is it really who you know?

I get so frustrated! Trans lives are not up for debate. BLM is not up for debated. Conversion Therapy just needs to be outright banned. No “exemptions”, just banned. These things aren’t just not that difficult to compute. If you’re going to take away people’s rights and lives. You’re a bigot, not up for debate.

I am left/liberal, I wouldn’t say I’m “far”. But I most definitely get emotional and really easily annoyed. My brain cannot compute the lack of humanity lately.

I hate to say it

I am currently reading Philippa Gregory “The King’s Curse (The Plantagenet and Tudor Novels #7) Not that I am saying I hate the book, I actually really am loving it. However, what I am hating about it is how similar I can see between then and now.

A man in charge, getting to decide what is state vs religion, a man controlling women. Everyone in fear, around this one man. The only real difference is that these men at the top these days, aren’t able to really order people’s heads off at a whim…Well maybe in Russia. However, generally, these men are just as soulless as King Henry the 8th. The fact that a lot of male world leaders have been more shrugging their shoulders at the deaths of their OWN people. Is VERY King Henry the 8th, when you think about it.

We just recently had the Prime Minister of Australia, say something, VERY Trumpesque, he also really did something Trumpesque. He flew from our capital city, to QLD, on tax payer money…Too attend a Hillsong Prayer Session…Too stand there and say how Australia needs more Churches (we do not) and how social media is a “Demon” (which it is, but he’s on it too).

Thursday Theories – The Never-Ending Cycle


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My mum said to me “I know you’re a bit sensitive about Meghan Markle. Why is that?”

Good question Mum.

Meghan Markle’s Dad, is exactly what I think my Dad would do, in the same situation. We haven’t told anyone this. If and when I get married, we already have a backup mind if my Dad pulls, what I call now a “Thomas Markle”.

This never ending cycle of people saying that children HAVE to respect their parents. Has to GOT to stop, especially when the child, decides it has to stop. Especially when that child’s parent, is in fact toxic and abusive.

My Dads dad, was the same. Abusive, and yet my Dad “loved him” so he kept telling us that we had to respect him. And now my Dad does the same thing that he’s Dad does. According to a lot of Meghan Markle haters, when I had had enough of my Dad, not only abusing me, but he also told a huge whooper about me, too me. I stopped talking to him. Apparently that’s not okay. Narrator: It was okay.

It seems to be coming from mainly Boomers, who seem to think that they turned out fine. If you think abusing your child (no matter how older they are) is alright, then NO you didn’t turn out “fine”. As that is not fine. I was never beaten as a child, smacked but never beaten, but the emotional and mental abuse. Yeah, I’m not fine now. It’s taken a long slog to be as “fine” as I am.

You have the power to stop the cycle of abuse, by actively taking yourself out of that circle/cycle. You can still see and talk with your family, but you have to learn the power of “NO”.

Dead Beat Dads and p.s.

My Dad is a alcoholic, not only IS he a alcoholic, but he’s one of those annoying ones that go on about on how he’s not, while he’s drunk.

I love my Dad, but he is a deadbeat Dad. He’ll tell me he loves me, then the next day while he’s drunk will tell me what a grateful little shit I am, and if I don’t respond to that quickly, it gets worse.

So, to see people act like Meghan’s Dad is some innocent “victim” of his cruel and uncaring daughter, pisses me off. No one MADE him give a interview, no one MADE him speak to Piers Morgan. Note, how not one person has recognised that Meghans mother hasn’t “forced” herself to do the same things? Maybe, just maybe, her Dad IS crap.

The sad thing is, nearly all the Dads that I know that are separated from their first marriages, with children. I don’t think I know one divorced father who isn’t a “deadbeat dad” in some way.

As I got older, I realised how bad my Dad had been to myself, my brother and my Mum. So I have NO doubt that, despite Meghan trying and no doubt that she does love him. There HAS to come to a point for your own mental health, when you have to cut people off and again, a child doesn’t OWE their parent any kind of “loyalty”. Your job, as a parent in this world, is to protect your child … NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.

We have one life in this world. Even if you believe in reincarnation, because you do not come back as the person you were. You may not even come back as a person! One life, that’s it. It’s up to you whether or not, you choose to have a good life or a bad one. Especially when it comes to who YOU CHOOSE to be involved in your life.

It’s you and your power, that’s it.

Thomas Markle Senior, is going to have a very lonely life, and that is all on him. You have to be either really dumb, or completely self-centered to think you can keep doing the same things. That caused that person to take you out of their lives in the first place, and think you can keep doing it, and THEN blame them.

Funny thing about this video. I just typed in “One Life” to see what they had on YouTube. There is a Church near my place of residence called “One Life” Haha!


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P.S.

You can absolutely forgive someone and not have them in your life. You can love someone and not have them in your life. Too forgive someone does not mean you HAVE to have them in your life. Especially since you don’t even need anything from them to forgive them. You don’t have to receive apology from someone to forgive someone.