A bit more about 2022

Well, maybe not the greatest of starts.

There must be something we’re all looking forward too though, in 2022? Personally, I am really looking forward to becoming a affiliate on Twitch. But I also want to get my partners spare room sorted out, and in the other create a little “escape” for myself. Until you know, baby makes 4…Hey, the cat is part of our family. I’m not saying I am pregnant, I’m saying if it happens. Then I can change my escape to babies room =D

Even though, it’s Summer here…I am also looking forward too the: lazy hot days where you lie around all day. Watching a favourite movie, and eating that favourite ice-cream. Taking off the bra, oh we know what I’m talking bout =D

Happy New Year!

  1. I ONLY made it to midnight because the cat kept grab what he could get at. I feel asleep very quickly. Went to bed feeling all achy, woke up still feeling achy. I don’t know if this is a sign of the year!

This is my very tired attempt of wishing you all a Happy New Year. While I have not into this new year with the same optimism that I did last year. After all, if you expect disappointment, you be so surprised when you get disappointment…BUT!

I think, in honour of Betty White. We should continually remind ourselves “What Would Betty White Do!”.

I am going to try and now get through some of your posts, but I am feeling just terrible and can’t sit for long. So, don’t be surprised to see me liking and commenting posts at different times today.

Also, to this beautiful WordPress Blogging community…

Looking forward too…

Ever the optimist that I am, there has to be SOMETHING…we’re all looking forward too next year…Right?

I mean…something…

…Right…

Oh dear, haha.

I think even if it’s something within ourselves, there is something positive too look forward too.

There are some things we cannot control, but there are things that we can!

  • I am hoping to become an affiliated next year on Twitch. I am nearly there!
  • Voting out Scott Morrison (I’d be very surprised if he doesn’t go).
  • Getting healthier. Not losing weight persay, but just getting into healthier habits.
  • Become a more proactive person in society.
  • Host a party!
  • Getting away to a hotel looking over the beach, for a night.
  • Learning to relax, now that I am pretty set with my work and streaming schedule.
  • Learn to bake…well, lol

https://www.twitch.tv/ladylolsy

In the run up to 2022 … Stay Positive!

I really do feel optimistic for the trans and LGBTQIA community. It just seems to be in the UK, that it’s all turned into a schmozzle … BUT…I will always believe that LOVE WINS!

I feel like I’m being listened too…

The last couple of weeks, haven’t just been mentally exhausting, but they’ve been great as well!

I really honestly feel like people are actually listening to what I’m saying, and that is a amazing feeling!

If you’ve been reading my blog for a bit now, you might have seen me write about a huge anxiety attack I had about a job. Well I also recently changed, what we called, a job provider. They have been amazing, I actually feel like they get what I’m talking about. They keep making me feel that they will actually work with me, rather than me trying to make them “look good”.

Recently, I have put in two complaints…I’m wont get too deep in it. But, I actually feel like these two companies ARE listening. In the past when I’ve put in a complaint, I felt like the people meant to protect people, sided with the bigots. I felt condescended too, but also there was a moment of clarity of “Well, that’s why that person’s still working there. Their company is totally fine with it”.

PRIDE!

I am DETERMINED this Pride to write only positive posts when I write about the LGBTQIA. You all know how horrible it’s been lately. I don’t need to continually remind you, haha

I will be putting them under my Category of Blog Challenges. Because the world is being horrible to the LGBTQIA community. It feels like a challenge, to get through all the mud and the horribleness and find positive things. Because there really are!

What better way than to start with my favourite Drag Queen, who is my non-family favourite Drag Queen, haha

Alaska Thunderfuck – ROY G BIV BBT (Official Music Video)


Alaska Thunderfuck

The title stands for colors of the pride flag – Red Orange Yellow Green Blue Indigo Violet Black Brown & Trans

Miss Little Negativity

I must apologise for my most negative blogging this last couple of weeks. For myself, it’s been great to get things off my chest. However, with the lack of views to my blogging lately. I suspect, even though it’s be cathartic and enjoyable for me, because I can see the funny side of my situations. You, my readers, have no idea what’s going on in my mind. Just because I can see the funny side, doesn’t mean you do.


Ne-Yo




Positive Thinking

I can start off by saying, I can positively say that the World is going loopy.

So I am going to try and be more positive. I’ve even come up with a couple of what I think are intelligent responses to TERFs lately. Slightly snarky, slightly funny. I actually only thought of these yesterday.

Whenever someone says a woman is a “Adult Human Female”…I like to reply now “Oh yay woman are being defined by what a bunch of old men have defined woman as for centuries in a English dictionary, probably written by white men … YAY FOR THE PATIARCHY!!!”

I’ve also noticed that a lot of “women” keep writing under posts and tweets about domestic violence against women and children “What is a woman”. Meaning define what women is. So now I say to them. “So tell us, if you manage to get rid of trans people (which wont happen), how do you purpose that would stop the violence perpetuated by cis male against their partners and children?”

Or the classic when they say “Only one trans person is murdered (in the UK) a year, and a women is killed every three days by her male partner”. Simple reply is “Well, how is oppressing trans people, going to stop women being killed every three days by their male domestic partner? It’s not”

You gotta keep the funny snarky up!

Thumbs Up

… I am determined to be more positive this week! I desperately need to get my mind back to the positives.

I’ve been noticing the last couple of weeks, that my Blog and my mind in general. I have not been positive thinking as much as I should, even with just faking it. This is not a time to be miserable all the time. There’s not much to be positive about. However, there is!

Despite the TERFs and transphobia in politics. It’s just that small group. Scientists, Health and good people are all on the trans communities side. They may seem loud on social media, but there are lot of good people doing the RIGHT things.

There maybe idiotic politicians, but I think the majority of people aren’t that stupid. I think once Trump was voted out, I think it did wake some people up. Again, just because some people seem loud on the internet, doesn’t mean everyone’s like that.

The last 24 hours have been really weird:

*cis women saying women can’t rape. That was a doozy!

*Janice Turner having a little moment of self-realisation.

*cis women complaining about being called cis and non-trans

*cis woman letting men tell them we are only our sex organs. Then saying they don’t want the Patriarchy in charge.

*Lis Truss heading a LGBTQIA world conference, after allowing a transphobic woman to say it’s okay for women to misgender.

*Scrapping the GRA

*Just general TERFness, lol

The Worlds just kind of really loopy and there’s no real good reason for it. Why wont Biden condemn what he should be condemning?

There does not be any reason to “consult” the public about how “best” to ban conversion therapy. You just ban it, the majority of the public want it banned. The top therapist and psychiatry organisation’s condemn it. Considering the UK, haven’t actually listened to the majority of the public with the GRA Reform, despite transphobic women getting a LOT of consultations opportunities and have not produced any evidence. I can only begin to imagine how long banning conversion “therapy” will take. Since a lot of transphobic people think it’s imperative it’s not banned to stop people “transing the gay away”.

*Janice Turner having a little moment of self-realisation.

This point is all about that. Janice Turner is a “journalist” who is VERY transphobic. This week she wrote a article with the title “Banning Conversion Therapy is a minefield” Another journalist pointed out that by standing with Conversion Therapy it is being homophobic. I think she had to take a second to think about it because she called the comment libelous, and that she stands with the LGBT community. I think it actually gave her a little mental “shake”.

Conversion Therapy is mainly used by Religious and anti-LGBT people to “get rid of the gay”. It’s called CONVERSION THERAPY … Not, we all love you for who you are therapy. Which some people REALLY need. So, if you think Conversion Therapy shouldn’t be just banned, then no, you aren’t for the LGBT Community.

Here in Australia, it’s not really that much better.

Our Government, today, have banned Members of Parliament, including any staff that work at Government House from speaking publicly about the Brittany Higgins case. Brittany Higgins was a Liberal staff member, who was raped by another Liberal staff member. The reaction from our Federal Government has been MORE than disappointing. So much for “Free Speech” from our Government, huh?

Also, I will admit I don’t 100% understand the situation regarding Jerusalem. I just know do not kill the children, leave the children out of it. Also though this may not have happened if Trump had just left everything neutral. But Biden MUST condemn.

The world is going loopy. But you know …

March 31st

March the 31st is Trans Visibility Day. Soooooooooooooo, saying that. It might get really vicious on all the social media. For myself, I am determined to keep today and tomorrow as positive as I can. I’m going to write a little something tomorrow to be positive, but you might find it a little boring, haha.

Also well done to the Guardian! (US though).

Trans kids on the Republican bills targeting them “I’m not a problem to society”

I wonder how many “we’re protecting the kids” will actually listen though?