Laaaaaaaaaaame!

I don’t like Wednesdays, and I don’t like lame people even more!

I was inspired to write this post, after another person AGAIN, decided to write about something, admitting they don’t know the full story but wanted everyone to know their opinion anyway. I said to them “Well did you think about writing NOTHING, until you actually know SOMETHING”.

Then another person who keeps liking her comments, and kept using the laughing emote to laugh at everyone who disagreed with her. Laughed at me.

“That’s all your little brain can muster up. Lame”.

I don’t care, like it is totally lame to not be able to think of a witty response. It’s lame to say your opinion accusing a victim of not being a victim, without knowing a story. But why do people keep doing it? lol

Controversial Opinion!

Do you have an controversial opnion? Well here is one of mine and I would love to hear your thoughts about it!

Trigger topic/warning: Rape

In the UK since (I think 2003ish?) they created a Law, which meant that women can’t be convicted of rape. Which lacks all common sense, because women rape and in, fact, since 2003, women in the UK, have been charged with it.

Anyway, my topic has nothing to do with that specific Law, rather the notion that that Law, and transphobic people believe, that women can’t rape. Now, my topic is really going to ask, do you consider what I’m about to write, is it rape or not.

I used to have a friend who is obsessed with babies. So much so, she now has (I believe) 6 kids and half of them don’t know who their father.

This is where my controversial opinion comes in.

Her first child knows who his father is. I believe though, she realised she had made a “mistake” by doing this. She even gave her first born the same name as the father’s surname, so the child would have her last name instead. The father’s surname is a first name scenario, so you know like: John or Peter or William.

The next three kids don’t know who their fathers are. Too me, what she did is borderline rape. Because she went into those situations without telling those guys that she was literally doing it to get pregnant. If she had, I doubt any of them would have consented to have sex with her.

She didn’t get their consent and took it away.

Serious Stuff – Zero Discrimination Day & Self Injury/Harm Awareness Day

Well this is a heavy topic, and currently I am finally in a flood tears over Travies. So I am going to be putting a trigger warning on this, I would anyway, but I am trying too put a warning in for myself too, lol.

It is interesting to me, that Zero Discrimination and Self Injury/Harm Awareness are on the same day. As we progress in this world, since I am, at least, willing to admit that I don’t understand about self harming. I don’t think I’ve ever know someone who self harms. My father is an alcoholic, and while I think that is self harm. I doubt that’s what this self harm is about.

Usually when someone discriminates against another it’s because they don’t understand, so they put their fears onto someone else.

I guess all I ask for today is if you are upset, just be careful what you say and how you react to people today.

What I think the problem is,

Now this post is purely my own opinion and understanding things, that I “understand”.

Now, if I am wrong, I am very happy to be proven, but no labels, just the facts.

From what I’ve seen of Rowling, from what I’ve found out and what I’ve seen. This is why I am imploring people to never again worship a stranger, especially of the celebrity variety.

Trump

Rowling

Russell Brand

All have the same issues. Apart from being white, they all have (or had) large social media platforms. Now from what I’ve seen of Rowling and Trump, the signs of narcissism and abandonment issues. The allure of social media platforms, can be toxic for the blue ticks of Twitter. People like Rowling and Trump were and are getting more “I love you’s” and “thank you” (for doing, nothing) in an hour every time they tweet, than 95% of the world get in their life time.

Can you imagine what that would do to someone’s ego?

Social Media platforms, if they really do care. That they will do more for the vulnerable people on their platforms.

TERFs vs Trump Supporters

There isn’t much of a difference, but there is one big one that I’ve started to realise.

Trump Supporters are well you know…kind of dumb.

However TERFs are not, they’re EXTREMELY manipulative as HELL

At least you know with Trump Supporters they’re not exactly “Oh course I don’t support Trump” and you know they do. TERFs are all “Of course I support trans people” but you know full well that they don’t. Trump supporters aren’t hiding their love for Trump.

(On a more “personal note “when I said the other day my day got madder https://meerkatmusings.co.uk/ this is what I’m talking about,lol)

Twitter really need to do something about the transphobia, they are still harassing Rhianna Pratchett. Now they’re harassing Rape Crisis Centers, and are trying to justify it -.- I’m spending a few days off of there, because it’s just getting stupider and stupider. I asked someone do they really think their false narratives, is any different from say Trump or Johnsons false narratives about immigrants. I was trying to explain to one how Feminism is about equality. (Of course, to them, it isn’t) Another one quoted tweet that tweet and went on about how men are kidnapping women and forcing them to be pregnant. I “twitter yelled” at them and said then focus on those violent men, what do you hope to achieve by taking the focus off those men and putting the focus on the trans community?

THEN, I went to Facebook to write about this.

Then I saw another transphobe trying to mock trans people being offended by the term “adult human female”. So I reminded them that they are the same group who complain and LOUDLY, about health and medical services calling pregnant people, pregnant people. I also reminded them that they use their term to harm others. One transphobe even had the audacity to say “It’s just a sign in a window, it can’t harm anyone”….

And if words do no harm, why do so many transphobic people get so upset about people who are pregnant being called a “birthing person”.

It’s always a lot of “just” with transphobic people. It’s “just” a word, it’s “just” a ribbon.

Where as Trump Supporters, make no sense whatsoever.

Respect is earned … Unpopular opinion

I am going to be honest, I am a little over the whole you have to respect dead people. If the dead people wanted to be respected, maybe they should have been respectful in life? I wont say things, because I don’t know who might be hurt. But I am sure as hell not going to be quiet either when someone says we should be respectful towards dead people.

Hitler’s dead, do I have to be nice about him?

Like bugger off.

If someone was a kind person while they were alive, go for it. But why should I give respect to someone dead, who didn’t give respect to others while they were alive?

It’s a weird concept too me.

I almost get when someone horrible dies, that the people they hurt, might do something weird, like my Nanna did with my Poppa. They HATED each other and my Poppa was abusive. When he died though, she wouldn’t stop saying what a great man he was…

I got it, to begin with. However, once everything had settled down, she was still saying it. It was almost like because their lives were so entwined for a long time. She actually did feel lost without him. I get it, I get that.

When someone like Rush Limbaugh died, I didn’t get it. He was a horrible human being, too everyone. And people were saying stupid stuff like “Oh you’re just jealous, because he’s going to heaven before you” My literal response was every single time “If he’s going to Heaven, I’ll go to Hell thank you very much”.

I truly hope that this term dies in 2021

“It’s just my opinion” or “Are they not allowed to have an opinion”.

I’ve been able to come up with a couple of responses to that … :

  • “Yes, they’re allowed to have a opinion, but that’s all it is, is an opinion”.
  • “Yes, but I am allowed to have the opinion, that it’s a stupid and ill-informed opinion”.
  • “Yes, they’re allowed to have a opinion, and no one is saying that they cant. But why should they be rewarded for a truly horrible and dangerous opinion”.
  • “Yes, but Hitler had a “opinion”, Trump has lots of “opinions”, Putin has lots of “opinions, Xi Jinping has a lot of “opinions”. Doesn’t mean you reward them for it!”
  • “Yes, but I’m allowed to say that I think your opinion is stupid”.
  • “Their opinion is right there, what, I’m not allowed to have a opinion about their opinion too?”.

Share Your World 20/04/2020

Share Your World 04/20/2020

Share Your World

Questions:

In your opinion what animal is the most majestic?

This is such a hard question bring down to one. There are so many different ways an animal is majestic. I think that the Giraffe, is long, elegant and lean. When you see a huge elephant tusker walk, that is majestic. A lion’s mane can be majestic when they are well taken care of. HOW DO YOU CHOOSE!lol…The coat of a melanistic colour variant of any Panthera, particularly of the leopard. I’m going to go with a black panther…

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What seemingly innocent question makes you think “It’s a trap!”?

“What do you think”…lol…Because as soon as you don’t say what they want you to say, that’s it. Especially at the moment! Then when you don’t say that they want to hear, they try to have a go at you, and that it was just their opinion, don’t attack them…blah blah blah,lol

What weird potato chip flavor that doesn’t exist would you like to try?  (NOTE:  Potato chips are called ‘crisps’ over the pond in the UK and Europe, I think.  Thanks to Sandmanjazz for reminding me we all don’t speak the same English!  😆   )

Hmm…I can’t think of any, I like all the flavours I’ve tried. I wonder if they could put together lightly salted chips and chocolate, as a flavour though. Not a chip covered in chocolate, but just the flavour. I just love chocolate and lightly salted chips/crisps/fries.


Gratitude Section (optional)

Share some gratitude with people if you like.  Images are certainly appropriate!  

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Opinion

If you haven’t heard by now, there is an “anti-Greta”. I don’t actually know her name, because they only call her the “anti-Greta”…obsessed much? It’s been funny though, because it’s like Greta is for Science, so is this person anti-science too? One person told me that she had said there were more scientists that deny climate change than “for” it. I know that there are scientists that so deny it, but more?

I laughed at one person when they said “it’s nice to see someone with a difference of opinion”. Except, they have the exact same opinion. Same is not different. If your opinion is the same as anti-Greta’s, than that’s not a different anything, it’s the same. Also, science is not an “opinion” It’s based on the best facts at that time. I guess like not using witnesses and documents to prove how innocent you are, is proving someones innocence? Can you imagine going to a murder trial with that? I’ve got all this evidence to prove how innocent I am, but you can’t use it.

Dear god, Conservatives, are so dumb.It hurts my brain. I went onto Facebook, Insta and Twitter today to say how I was going to only post positive things on Mondays and Fridays now…Twitter…is a…cuse my French…shit storm. My dyslexia was playing up so badly, I had to come off again,lol.