I decided to refer this to a Halloween type Nurture this week. What I am going to write about for “Competition” is about costumes. Every year, I always see these one kind of memes, especially when it comes to girls/women and their costumes.
Generally ones that are like
“Slutty” Girls vs “Nerdy” Girls or
“Other” girls vs me
What I am trying to write is, dress up how ever YOU want too! You want dress with a costume that shows all the curves, do it. If you want to dress as a favourite character, that may not show as many curves, do it, or one big curve (haha). I’ve always found Halloween to be a time, when you can be who you want to be, who you’ve always wanted to see what it might be like. Put that mask on, put that “costume” on, be who you WANT to be.
The best advice I could ever give someone, even though, it’s not more “fun” If you can prepare yourself though…Do! As I’ve mentioned a couple of times before, I have anxiety. Every now and then I triple…sometimes…quadruple my bag before I head out, make sure I’ve got all my stuff “just in case”.
Now saying this as well though, every now and then, when I’m feeling alright, I push myself a little bit more and more.
Oh my god, how true is this! How many of us want to just press forward right, into next year, or at least until the US elections are over! Things, I want to know NOW what does Rowling’s letter do, exactly? Nothing…You know why it’s completely worthless. If it had been for support for ALL women who have experienced violence on the web, like I experience daily from TERFs. They MIGHT have had something.
I want to already be 10 years in the future, so I can look and go “Can you believe how stupid people got that year”? I just want it to be OVER, like yesterday. I hate that such horrible people, get to be so loud right now.
How hard is it in 2020, to let things go?! My mum and I were just talking last night, that we don’t understand that hate the year has brought. It’s all been over the top and over aggressive. The main thing is, the hate, has been completely unnecessary.
You MUST find a way though, to be able to every now and then “let go”. It will do you mental and in turn, physical world of good. You can’t spend the whole time, going “Woe is me”. You need to let go and give yourself permission to relax, to turn off your brain. Or do something fun with your brain. Even if it’s only for a hour. Like today, I sat down and wrote out ALL my pen pal letters, all ready for posting tomorrow! I am so finally happy with them!