Anyone else over 2022 yet?

Between Betty White dying, the UK knighting one ILLEGAL war criminal, an Islamophobic and the Kardashians coming back…I’m over it, already.

Seriously, unless the Kardashians face their OWN body issues, that they then push onto everyone…I don’t want to know. Tony Blair should have been locked up, NOT Knighted. They all LOST their next elections, because they INGNORED the PEOPLE…WHY WOULD YOU KNIGHT THAT SON OF A BITCH!

Too Facebook

This is what I’m posting on my Facebook =D


What a year! Hahaha

I don’t need a new year new me, I am doing really well =D Why mess with perfection, haha

It’s so nice to be free. This is going to be long, because it’s been a long year, haha

Well, if you hadn’t been paying attention this year. I have been “standing with” and for trans rights. I have few close female friends, because I know how horrible women can be. Especially white women! Like, when you think about it. Be honest, when a woman has bullied you, harassed you, lied about you, backstabbed, wants to be an wanna be mean girls…They’re always white. It’s just a fact of life. We white women need so to do SO much better! Someone really important said “Until we are all coffee coloured, there’ll be no peace”.

I want to give a big shout to the trans community. I have learnt SO much because of you. I have learnt when to speak, when to listen, like actually listen. When to keep my emotions together. How to help without the use of social media. You have helped keep my ego in check.

Do you all realise how wonderful Science is? Like turn off the tv and go research some Science! I swear once you start understand, you understand.

Here are some facts I learnt this and some that I already know, guess ~.^

Trans women can breast feed

The trans community HAVE existed since before Christianity. Just were given different names, obviously.

Human Beings are DEFINITELY more than their reproductive organs.

JKRowling is just a terrible human being.

Being cis or trans isn’t that complicated. You are one or the other, or you are non-binary. Here’s the best thing, you get to decide for yourself! Your body, your choice!

Being a bigot will cost you everything, being kind costs nothing. It just makes sense.

Pronouns are quiet simple

Being hard, doesn’t mean you’re not soft and unkind.

Everyone needs to find something that they can honestly believe in, that comes at no harm to others or yourself.

Everyone claiming to have been cancelled, have been more vocal than ever before. Unless you die, “being cancelled” is just fake news.

There are always people who support love more than hate. It voted Trump out! Now let love vote Morrison out, but you know through voting.

A virus doesn’t care about “my body my choice” It’s a virus. It does not care about your body or your choices.

Some people just never really leave high school.

Pose should have been the new “Sex and the City”.

I have an AMAZING family!

Things I have achieved and done this year.

Started streaming, and my goodness I LOVE it! I’ve managed to find myself a really sweet and kind community. Although I am not a licensed therapist (and I remind people of this frequently). The discussions we have, have been awesome! And I’ve only had to block two people for being crude =D

I LOVE my new job! Oh my god, the people are awesome, the work…while repetitive, is so interesting! And we all get along, even though we may not always agree. I think I’ve found what I’m supposed to do…Well, you know, until I win the lottery, haha!

I did the famous Leonard family “over catering” haha.

Been blocked by a lot of transphobes, hahahaha =D

Lost the cat, but it’s really his achievement that he came back…Hahahaa

My Gran

I don’t want to get to deep into this for very clear reasons. She has been the biggest inspiration in my life. I am sure that if she was of “sound mind”, she’d tell me not get upset about her situation and keep living! This is why you LIVE every single moment of the day. Grow BEYOND high school.

And remember loving yourself, IS freeing. I feel so sorry for those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They don’t love anyone or anything. It’s true. It must be lonely.

If you love yourself, GET UP!

New Year Resolutions

I’ve already decide what I do, with my own mindset for next year.

  • Make a safer space on my platforms, without having to use Twitter or Facebook to do it.
  • Go to Monarto Zoo! Where we can be in a cage and feed the Lions!
  • Head to at least one Fringe event … Get out more basically.
  • Start creating things on my days off, and learn to draw!
  • Set up the spare room. My partners mum said she’s coming down these holidays. Do you know how much it would calm my mind to have a nicely put together spare room.
  • Get Travie a harness, since he is NEVER going outside again without supervision.
  • Try to be more…not understanding…but not lose my emotions when I speak with a transphobe.
  • Start to come off the anxiety tablets and practice more mindfulness.
  • Set up one of the other rooms, and make it more calm and a place for myself to escape.
  • Take more selfies, even when I don’t feel pretty. Doesn’t mean they’ll be posted, but just for me =D

MIKA




How’s it going?….One week!

So it’s been a week since the New Year, and I just wanted to check in and see how you are all feeling.

So far:

  • I’ve updated my resume
  • Organised my employment electronic folders – Payslips, contract etc.
  • I think I got my partner excited about seeing a mortgage broker, to purchase his own house…I think,lol
  • I’ve started wearing my “fancy” dresses just out. What’s the point of a pretty dress, if you never wear it?lol
  • We’ve start to get rid of a lot of clothes that my partner never wears anymore.
  • I’ve gotten a good clean out in my own room, organising Christmas gifts.

Remember to check out my Discord channel!

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New Year Tag

I’ve been tagged in a couple of things at the start of this year. I thought that I should start with the New Year Tag, as it’s the closest to New Year still. Thank you to Bereaved Single Dad for this tag, you should all go and check out his Blog! Amazing writer and you should see the pictures! Such good photography and an amazing Dad who is facing a lot of “obstacles” from another stupid Government!

HERE IS HOW TO PARTICIPATE:

  1. Share a link back to the person who tagged you.
  2. Share a link to the person who created the tag- jesusluvsall.wordpress.com
  3. Share a favorite New Year’s Memory
  4. Answer the questions of the person who tagged you.
  5. Tag whoever you want.
  6. Use any picture that you like for New Years’.

Share a favorite New Year’s Memory

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I was trying to get a picture of myself, my partner and our cat before my partner and I left. I may have possibly gotten my partner to wake the cat up so we could get a picture,lol. Believe it or not, this was the best picture of the cat,lol.

The questions.
1- IF YOU COULD CELEBRATE THE NEW YEAR ANYWHERE. WHERE WOULD IT BE?

Oh, there are so many places that I would love to be in at New Years. Ireland, Disney-world, that New Years ball drop down thing. Egypt, at the Parthenon. Everyone says in Australia, that you should celebrate New Years, at least once in Sydney. It’s not worth it, unless you have property on the river, or a boat. It’s really not that exciting, you can’t even send text messages out. It’s a big fire works show really. Then you spend about 4 hours trying to get back again.

2- WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SNACK FOOD FOR NEW YEAR?

I don’t think that I have a favourite snack food, just for new years. I have foods that I love over the whole holiday period, so turkey, cream cheese and cranberry together. Corn relish, ham. Mango, watermelon. It’s Summer during December and January.

3- HAVE YOU EVER KEPT A NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTION? IF SO, WHAT WAS IT?

I don’t think I ever have. I’ve stopped making resolutions and just made promises to myself. I find that works better for me.

4- WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO WITH YOUR BLOG NEXT YEAR?

I know where I want to take it…Let’s see if that happens! I’m too chicken to say. I’ve talked and written about it a lot, but I feel like it might happen this year.

5- DO YOU PREFER A BIG PARTY OR A SMALL GATHERING TO CELEBRATE? 

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve started to realise that I prefer smaller gatherings over bigger ones. Good conversation and good drink, is all I need.

ONE MEMORY

My current partner and I actually kissed for the first time on New Years and became official. There is another memory though, that I remember just as fondly and it happened the year before. I went Spanish/Latin dancing and I had so much fun! I hadn’t done it in years, and I was dancing with all these guys…Who I realised later, that none of my friends even knew who they were. I just got so caught up!

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My Nominations (absolutely no pressure, only do this if you really want to)

I chose to honour you…Especially the women in my life..Bye, little girls!

This year, I didn’t really want to make goals to just fail in the first couple of weeks in the new year. So I sat and thought about what I really want to do next year. I don’t think that I need to make goals persay. But I just want to do something better than I did the past year.

This is where you all come in. One thing I wish I had done more of this past year, was hang out with people again. Anxiety wise I think that I’m getting better. I still have off days, I probably always will. What I want to try and achieve this year is to honour my friends and family more. I have absolutely no idea how to do this though. I’m not sure I even know what that means.

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This where I need your help. I know what to honour people means, but how do you do individually or in a group? How do you reach out to try and find out how you can help better, individual people.

I have cried so many happy tears this year, realising how lucky that I am. Because I really am. It’s been one of those years where I’ve realised that sometimes families make the best friends and friends make the best family. This is why I want to honour YOU. Of course I’ve had bad thing happened, had to stop talking to a person or two. Generally, I am actually really lucky. When I’ve had to stop talking to the people or two, or realised that I’ve lost a “friend”. It was you who was there.

I feel like I’ve found my voice a lot more this year. It is irritating, I am very aware of this. When you think you’ve finally found it, it’s fantastic! You can’t shut up and I wont apologise for it. I know some worry that I get too caught up, but I am very aware of myself. I know when it’s getting too much. So I come off of social media for a bit, get myself together. I have really gotten into listening to my body and mind this year. I think I had forgotten too.

All those people who told me I should be more like this person, or that person, or this person said this so I should do this too. Or they are going to block me until I get my shit together. I am me, that’s it. I still find it funny that a bunch of “good guys” told me that I should be more like another girl. Which even if I did turn into that girl, I still wouldn’t be with them. She only likes taken men. Sooooooooo…I still couldn’t be with them…Idiots.

Every year, I think of a song that I think represents me in some way. Once again, we have Taylor Swift,lol I LOVE this song! It such a good song in so many different ways! I listen to it when I actually need to calm down. But there’s one bunch of lyrics, that I feel my female friends that have stuck with me this year, need to replay to themselves. This is how I feel about you. I send my female friends and family a BIG thank you this year!

And we see you over there on the internet
Comparing all the girls who are killing it
But we figured you out
We all know now we all got crowns

I LOVE you ladies, everyone single one of you! You are proof that Ladies and Queen exist and not just in fairy tales! ❤ You are all amazing! ❤ I hope this new year, you embrace and just plain old kill it out there!

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The War is won! Believe it!

I don’t know how many readers of my Blog are aware of this. I don’t get that excited at the New Year, New Year. I know it’s a New Year in terms of a new calendar year. Too me though, I feel like a “new year” really begins on our birthday.

I had the weirdest experience on the bus today going to work and I think it has a lot to do with this belief of mine. I am learning to drive at the moment, so for the time being I am still travelling by bus and may continue to do after. I don’t mind the bus really, especially when the weather is nice. That’s for another day though.

As I coming to work I was listening to Thirty Second to Mars “This is War”. Now I don’t know if you know this reader, I have a video clip for every single song on my iPod, that is not the original video clip. So there I am on the bus, thinking of the video clip I had thought to this song. When it gets to certain lyrics of the song:

I do believe in the light, raise your hands up to the sky
The fight is done, the war is won, lift your hands towards the sun
Towards the sun, (it’s the moment of truth and the moment to lie
It’s the moment to live and the moment to die, the moment to fight)
Towards the sun,
Towards the sun, (it’s the moment of truth and the moment to lie
It’s the moment to live and the moment to die, the moment to fight)
The war is won (to fight, to fight, to fight, to fight)

I nearly start blubbering like a baby on the bus, luckily I had to get off just as it was starting.

I think it had to do, before I left for work this morning. I had had being having a conversation where I admitted that no matter what my ex-friends says about me, no matter what people who have a problem with and wont talk to me. No matter what they say, no matter how long they stay friends with each other for. I genuinely believe I AM, and will always, be the better friend.

I am not miserable when my friends are happy, I am miserable when they are, it disturbs me to know “friends” are only when happy when I’m miserable. If I hear something about someone I don’t think rings true, I will ASK that person. I don’t gossip behind their backs and tag them in passive aggressive memes with no actual “burn”, because the gossip isn’t true, and I don’t just ignore them. I don’t just gossip and NEVER ask the actual person they’re talking about. We are not in High School anymore. I will ask.

There is no fight, there is no War, because I am better. I am the better person and I BELIEVE that now.

That’s the difference…I actually do BELIEVE that I am the better person.

The End.

John Lennon

 

Share Your World, Jan 1st week, 2019

Share Your World

Share Your World 31-12-18

This Week’s Questions:

For the parents in the crowd:  What would be the absolute worst name you might give your child? If you’re not a parent (I’m not), then what’s the worst name you could give your pet?

Oh, there are so many bad names out there! I have seen so many lately, that it’s hard to tell if these parents were serious or not…One women (you might have even heard of her) She named her daughter “Abcde” I am not even kidding. It’s pronounced Ab-see-dee…Which is actually nice, but the way she’s spelt it.

What mildly annoying curse might you wish you could curse annoying people with?

I think that I would probably to give them a cold, just annoying enough, that it is annoying. Not one that makes them completely incapable, just one that bugs them.

What’s the weirdest thing you did as a child?

I got into this really odd habit when I was child, of plucking my eyelashes, pretty much till I had none left. I don’t remember why I started, or even when or why I stopped, but I remember doing it.

Do you believe things happen for a reason or are random?

I think it’s a little bit of:
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And Finally, in the spirit of New Year’s:   What’s a resolution (if you make them, I don’t) you’re making for the New Year?   How confident are you in keeping it a reasonable amount of time?

The best resolution I make is with Goodreads. All the others very rarely happen.