What it means to me <3

I see a lot of bloggers talking about the coming of Spring. Spring is my favourite weather =D I can’t blame them, but here, down under, we’re heading into the darkness that is Winter!

I actually used to really enjoy Winter, but in the last few years. I do not enjoy the darkness that Winter brings, but this year I want to change my entire mindset to Winter! There are many things to enjoy about Winter, it’s all about the mind. I think what I dislike about Winter the most is the darkness, how when you leave for the day it’s dark, when you go home, it’s dark.

But there’s nothing stopping me from bringing the light inside. I don’t mean the lights in the house.

I mean like, what’s stopping me from wearing light colours? Like your yellows, pinks, rainbows =D It’s not “stylish”, but I’m not stylish, lol

Make a plan a couple of nights to sit on the couch, watching t.v., reading a book. All snuggled up with a blanket, and I have a lot of those!

A lot of planning meals. Sometimes the weather is way to horrible to go food shopping after work. So planning in advance, means that there is less chance of needing to go to the shops.

And now that I have my Grans fake log heater. I can just put the light on that, I don’t even need to put the heating part on. Hot chocolate. A lot of the time, by Easter, it’s cold and a little chilly. We have the bigger heater on. It sounds so cozy already.

Long baths…with a hot chocolate.

Writing by fake log fire…with a hot chocolate, haha

What is going on people? lol

So I wrote about how Putin took Rowlings side, MOST people were quiet sensible. One person said to me “I don’t understand. Are you saying that Putin and Rowling are the same kind of person”? Hey folks, I’m not the one defending Rowling here. That was Putin. Just because Rowling is not a political leader, doesn’t mean she’s not got the same mindset.

Then at the same time, someone responded to a comment I made on FB over TWO YEARS AGO! Talking about how I was the one bashing people. I had a bit of a time looking for what I said, it was over two years ago. You know what I said, people? I was having a go at a “Christian” whose profile was no longer (by the way) about how they were calling other’s r@tard3d for NOT believing in God. Two years on, I would still say what I said. That they had to prove God existed to me. They were calling people @rtard3d and then complaining that they were being mocked. So I had a go at Yvonne and told her, that it says a lot about her that she is defending “Christians” who call others r3tard3d. Accounts that don’t even exist anymore.

Too Facebook

This is what I’m posting on my Facebook =D


What a year! Hahaha

I don’t need a new year new me, I am doing really well =D Why mess with perfection, haha

It’s so nice to be free. This is going to be long, because it’s been a long year, haha

Well, if you hadn’t been paying attention this year. I have been “standing with” and for trans rights. I have few close female friends, because I know how horrible women can be. Especially white women! Like, when you think about it. Be honest, when a woman has bullied you, harassed you, lied about you, backstabbed, wants to be an wanna be mean girls…They’re always white. It’s just a fact of life. We white women need so to do SO much better! Someone really important said “Until we are all coffee coloured, there’ll be no peace”.

I want to give a big shout to the trans community. I have learnt SO much because of you. I have learnt when to speak, when to listen, like actually listen. When to keep my emotions together. How to help without the use of social media. You have helped keep my ego in check.

Do you all realise how wonderful Science is? Like turn off the tv and go research some Science! I swear once you start understand, you understand.

Here are some facts I learnt this and some that I already know, guess ~.^

Trans women can breast feed

The trans community HAVE existed since before Christianity. Just were given different names, obviously.

Human Beings are DEFINITELY more than their reproductive organs.

JKRowling is just a terrible human being.

Being cis or trans isn’t that complicated. You are one or the other, or you are non-binary. Here’s the best thing, you get to decide for yourself! Your body, your choice!

Being a bigot will cost you everything, being kind costs nothing. It just makes sense.

Pronouns are quiet simple

Being hard, doesn’t mean you’re not soft and unkind.

Everyone needs to find something that they can honestly believe in, that comes at no harm to others or yourself.

Everyone claiming to have been cancelled, have been more vocal than ever before. Unless you die, “being cancelled” is just fake news.

There are always people who support love more than hate. It voted Trump out! Now let love vote Morrison out, but you know through voting.

A virus doesn’t care about “my body my choice” It’s a virus. It does not care about your body or your choices.

Some people just never really leave high school.

Pose should have been the new “Sex and the City”.

I have an AMAZING family!

Things I have achieved and done this year.

Started streaming, and my goodness I LOVE it! I’ve managed to find myself a really sweet and kind community. Although I am not a licensed therapist (and I remind people of this frequently). The discussions we have, have been awesome! And I’ve only had to block two people for being crude =D

I LOVE my new job! Oh my god, the people are awesome, the work…while repetitive, is so interesting! And we all get along, even though we may not always agree. I think I’ve found what I’m supposed to do…Well, you know, until I win the lottery, haha!

I did the famous Leonard family “over catering” haha.

Been blocked by a lot of transphobes, hahahaha =D

Lost the cat, but it’s really his achievement that he came back…Hahahaa

My Gran

I don’t want to get to deep into this for very clear reasons. She has been the biggest inspiration in my life. I am sure that if she was of “sound mind”, she’d tell me not get upset about her situation and keep living! This is why you LIVE every single moment of the day. Grow BEYOND high school.

And remember loving yourself, IS freeing. I feel so sorry for those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They don’t love anyone or anything. It’s true. It must be lonely.

If you love yourself, GET UP!

New Year Resolutions

I’ve already decide what I do, with my own mindset for next year.

  • Make a safer space on my platforms, without having to use Twitter or Facebook to do it.
  • Go to Monarto Zoo! Where we can be in a cage and feed the Lions!
  • Head to at least one Fringe event … Get out more basically.
  • Start creating things on my days off, and learn to draw!
  • Set up the spare room. My partners mum said she’s coming down these holidays. Do you know how much it would calm my mind to have a nicely put together spare room.
  • Get Travie a harness, since he is NEVER going outside again without supervision.
  • Try to be more…not understanding…but not lose my emotions when I speak with a transphobe.
  • Start to come off the anxiety tablets and practice more mindfulness.
  • Set up one of the other rooms, and make it more calm and a place for myself to escape.
  • Take more selfies, even when I don’t feel pretty. Doesn’t mean they’ll be posted, but just for me =D

MIKA




Those weird moments

I think one of the weirdest moments, that I have encountered this year and indeed over the last few years. Is the “Rights” mindset of wanting to “protect” themselves from the Government.

Except in most cases, the current “Leading” Governments, are ON their side.

Trump

Johnson

Morrison

Are not “Leftist’s” or “Liberal” or Democrats, by any stretch of the imagination.

They are all very much Right Wing Conservatives Christians. Who are very much on the Right side.

TERFs saying that they didn’t write the rule that women can’t “rape” under UK Law, that’s just the “rules”. Yet, TRA’s didn’t write the rules that trans women can go into women’s prison, and trans men can go into men’s prisons. Under UK Law, that’s just the Law.

When a women TERF says in one post “Protect all Women” and then in the next literal post, slut shame a lingerie female model, and say that’s the lingerie model is encouraging penis photos.

It’s okay to be happy…

Even if you feel like nothings “right” and something is incredibly sad. If you can’t control the situation and you can’t change the situation, change your mood.

Here a five (5) songs that I listen too when I’m perfectly content, even when I should be falling apart. “I should warn you, that I’ll be just fine”.

Between now and the new year, I have to make this my new FB cover photo.

Some people pray to God, I pray to music…


Pharrell Williams



Mark Ronson



Taylor Swift



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Within Temptation




Monday Mind Wipe

I have decided that this week, I am wiping my “mind”. By this, I am going to try reset my minds mindset. The way I do it though, may be a little different from how you do it though.

I like a clean out…Like, EVERYWHERE. So, when I say everywhere…I will clean out not only my closet/wardrobe. I also like to go through, say my computer, delete old and unneeded files. I sometimes have gone through Facebook, and deleted and untagged myself from photos. It is extremely therapeutic.


MIKA


Tristian Thompson

I just wanted to say that a)I don’t really understand the fascination with the Kardashians. I have never liked Kim, all the rest I have liked at some point or another, and then gone straight off them, usually within the some week. They are like those type of people that go one step forward, five back. b) I am honestly more shocked with Jordyn Woods actions than Tristian’s and I get why everyone is more angry with her than him. (Though Khloe better still kick him to the curb).

The whole point of this particular post though are serial cheaters, like Tristian, and why do people seem to love them just so much? I don’t even know how good of a basketball player his is, but considering you never hear about his on court performance, just all his off court drama, he can’t be THAT good, surely?

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I also do not want to #FreeTristianThompson, he deserves to be there and stay there!

What is it with guys like Tristian Thompson, what do these women find so appealing? Are they just hoping that they’ll be the ones to tame him? And why aren’t these women using protection with him either? How many single mothers does he need to create until these women realise, he’s after one thing and one thing only? Why should he commit, when he clearly keeps getting away with it? I am finally glad that Khloe recognised that it is him, but the damage she’s done in the meantime. Would she really want her baby girl to go through what she’s going through, what he’s putting other “women” through? I wouldn’t.

What is it?

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Mindset

Good question for a Monday morning…Do you ever feel like your mind isn’t your own and you have to fight it to get into a different mindset?

I have been feeling more and more these days I can just turn my anxiety off in certain situations. It feels like when I’m calm and thinking about my anxiety, I can just turn it off…However when I’m travelling (which is when my anxiety occurs) I just cannot do it…At all…and that’s the most frustrating part of it all.

Do any of you have any tricks? Do you ever find yourself in this situation?

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