So tired

I was going to write this as a theory, but it’s not a theory, it’s a fact.

Oh you will make #History, just on the wrong side of it #WomenWontWeesht Karen. “Space” Karen here likes to block women and likes the posts of white males who ask complete strangers what they name their body parts. #protectwomenfromKarens

I am so TIRED. I will keep fighting for trans rights. But I am SO tired, of seeing these utter LOSERS have to admit over and over again, that they’re wrong. They #lose over and over again, and yet they *think* they speak for women. I wish they would #wheest

The Chair of Sex Matters Naomi Cunningham being forced to admit this in the Women and Equalities Select committee has to be the funniest thing ever. pic.twitter.com/hE6TY3N0op

— Shelley Duvet (@brynismyname) February 1, 2023

“Sex Matters” are a big anti-trans “company” that regularly get to be heard at important discussions, like the GRR/GRC in Scotland. See, not the first time that they’ve had to admit they’re wrong either. But, they’ll keep being heard over trans supportive women, and trans people, about trans people situations. Even though they are regularly wrong and admit so.

I am not even kidding how many MORE times, do we just have to sit back and let these bigots talk over us?

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Focus

I refuse too focus on negative this week. I have PLENTY to be happy about.

• A wedding
• A kitten
• The backyard is looking like, a backyard, lol And I can probably do something with it.
• Blogging and the Bloggers here
• I actually like my work and the people I work with.
• I have a roof over my head and within reason, can do what I like.
• My Dad seems to be getting better too. Which of course, great. I think he might actually be seeing someone about his alcoholism…Maybe, lol
• Making this : – https://www.tastemade.com/recipes/earl-grey-tea-cakes
• Making a home.
• BECOMING A TWITCH AFFILIATE.

You don’t have to do it here, but I would like you to write a list of all the good things you can focus on.

Good Questions!

I saw this and I thought it is such a good question to remind ourselves. It’s like if you don’t want to share, it is a good reminder.

Christmas can be a really hard time for some, so remember to remember (haha) what you might need to get through this time. And remember, it’s okay not too be okay.

During a very dark period, what was the best thing you ever did for your mental health?

— Dr James Davies PhD (@JDaviesPhD) December 18, 2022

Recharge

I honestly feel like I need an entire recharge, I don’t know how else to push forwards. It’s only Tuesday! I don’t know why, but II really thought maybe the Right would be kind for even a minute. I was wrong.

I just want to spend some time swapping ideas, about how one can recharge themselves.

See, I’m in funk and I would love to hear about other people’s ways to recharge. I’m going to be honest, I would totally love to see if one of you have a way that I can steal for myself, lol.

Most of the time, the first thing I do is just come off social media. Then I’ll sit for a little bit and see what either my mind or my body says it needs. That can be anything from just reading to having a bath, having a good cry, a good whine. Listening to music or watching comedies all night.

I day dream like a super hero! Sometimes, I just nap. And I always listen to at least one or two Enya songs!

World Mental Health Day

https://www.who.int/campaigns/world-mental-health-day

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I was going to write a long post about how you should look after your mental health, how it’s more important than ever to keep an eye on it. Especially with the world as “crazy” as it, and after COVID. It’s becoming more apparent, that people are, in fact, completely losing it.

Instead of writing/saying, I have decided to “do” instead. Since I’m not working today, but do have to see my physio. I am going to take it upon myself to take the time to read as much as I want today. Sometimes I get the feeling that if I don’t “fight” the bullies and the meanies all the time, they’ll win. I can’t keep doing that too myself.

I know that the majority of people are good, and they all know how silly it is. But I also feel like people don’t want to rock the boat, as we’ve never really had too before. You know what I mean? But we should and we can in such little ways. Over the years, I will admit I’ve become braver while sitting behind a computer. It’s easy to learn and research things when you’ve got the time to sit and read the information. But now I know what I know, so it makes it easier to fight.

Before I started to take on the transphobes, I didn’t know what the difference was between cis and trans. Know I can’t shut up about it!lol. Mainly because it is just so simple!

I would highly recommend you do doing what’s best for you.

“It’s okay to lose people, but never Lose Yourself” -Eminem

And I’m out…For now…

I cant do it anymore folks. Watching what’s happening in America, it’s too much.

I am of the thought that until we know what’s definitely happening with Trump, I don’t want to read anymore news about it. I will always fight against Trump and Trump Supporters. I just can’t read the news about it anymore.

It wont be that hard to fight against Trump Supporters anyway, they don’t know what they’re talking about most of the time anyway, lol. I’m tired of Republican’s, I am tired of Texas especially, I am tired of the Supreme Court “Judges”. They’re nuts. America will absolutely be doomed, if they’re allowed to continue.

I had to take the decision after, reading one article about a Librarian taking away all the YA books. I was annoyed at the Librarian, but then the next article I read was about this Texan YouTuber saying he was going to kill ANY teacher. Who would dare talk their child about LGBT matters. Suddenly I got why the Librarian was probably taking down the books. They clearly have no problem with violence. That is terrifying!

Then I listened to a podcast with an Australian Comedian, Toom Gleeson. He was talking about how he went over to bring entertainment to the troops, serving. He said that for the “Land of the Free”, when he went to entertain the American Troops. There was a long list of things he couldn’t joke about. All the others, the Australians, the British ect, he could joke about whatever. But America, was a no no.

You cannot be in a world and not able to laugh at yourself. You cannot heal, if you cannot accept what’s wrong.

I’m not sure how long my brain could go on, seeing bad news after bad news, after bad news. I have no intention of not speaking up if I encounter a TS or a religious extremist. I’m just not going to go and look for it. I’m going to refresh my feed. I just don’t want too know until something actually happens. I’m going to be honest, Americans Left, don’t seem to be much better. It’s just that they’re more socially “aware”. The whole “I’m not voting unless my favourite gets is” is just utterly ridiculous.

Its just too crazy. I will say though, the lovely people I’ve met here, please seriously consider moving here! I am not even joking! ❤ Come here and see how wonderful the world can be.

Poll Finds Most Americans Agree MAGA Movement Threatens Democracy–Including A Surprising Number Of Republicans

Of course! The problem isn’t the people, it’s the politicians and judges, and the media, who have nothing to do with the people! The people voted Biden in, didn’t they! 80% of Americans support abortions as well. It’s not the people with the problem. It’s the very loud, Right wing minority. Supported by very anti-social media CEO’S

Focus

Over this next week, I am going to try and re-focus my mind.

Which means, over the next week I invite you … TOO MY MIND!!! Hahahaha.

It’s more, I like to write to get my thoughts out. What I thought I’d do this week though is too write here, on the blog. Not about more personal things, I’ll leave that to my journal. Just more things, how I can focus on things around the world. What I want to do is get my mind to remember the good things. The things worth fighting for.

It’s getting mentally tough out there. I need to sit and refocus. I am still blocked on Twitter, and I am so thankful. I know what I’m going to do when I get it back. I plan to really stay off of it still, but I will be making a “post”. Then I really wont be on there anymore.

I hope you enjoy the next week of posts, because a lot are about dreams and ideas I have to make the world better. Well, how I think so anyway.

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Be Beautiful You <3

I am concerned people, lol.

We already have a lot of “social” media trying to dictate who we are. I am concerned by hearing people who say they’re doing something for themselves, which is fantastic. What concerns me is when I also hear that someone talks about how their partner, a family member, friend etc talk about how what’s been happening to them, and that person should think about them.

Things like mental health, physical health are such a personal journey. If something you’re doing is affecting someone else’s mental or physical health, that’s on them. As incredibly selfish as it it. You need to do what you need to, to keep yourself safe. No one should put pressure on you to make them feel better.

Physical and Mental health are definitely things you should be, being selfish about.

You want to give up something for yourself, that’s great! Go For It! But please don’t do it for someone else. Maybe they person is just not a good fit for you. You cannot do it for other people, because you will end up resenting them. You just will.

IF THOUGH, the thing you’re giving for yourself will also help them. Great! Just don’t do it, because they’re telling you to do it for them. It’s not romantic, it’s honest though.

Sleep brain, sleep.

I am so tired of watching the same stupidity of people over and over again. How are they not all tired of doing it?

Earlier in the week, I wrote a Fathers Day post about how even in my Great-Grandfather, influence’s me. We found a notebook of his a while ago. He said in it “We will not be at peace until we are coffee-coloured” It’s interesting to me to see, in 2022. That people STILL have a clear problem with race. I am not even talking about white supremacists. I am talking about the people who supposedly are not racist, complain about race in fictional stories.

When you take a step back and tailor your news reading to be less tabloid gossip and more actual news. You see that Meghan Markle has never once said anything nasty about the Royal Family, Harry neither. It’s all about the people around them, who Princess Diana also had a problem with. So what’s the difference? MM is NOT throwing tantrums, talking, on a podcast about your life, is not a tantrum.

And HOW in the world are these same tabloid gossip “news stations” Talking about Kanye West is NO mention of his bullying. How in the world are they all just glossing over the PEDOPHILE in the Royal Palace. For what? Because MM, as a new mother, felt upset that her sons room was smoking?

Seriously, what kind of fools does Rowling take us all for?

I read an article recently about anti-vaccine people, getting together in a conference to talk about what their next movements are. At least 95% of people at this conference were vaccinated.

Let alone everything Trump. It’s not just what Trump, himself is doing. It’s the whole anti-woman, anti-trans and anti-LGBT Republicans who are going out of there way to harm others, and act like the rest of us can’t see what they’re doing, and win! Lauren Bobert is a total moron. Yet, she got back in.

As unpopular as this will be. I’m sorry, but I really hope that Britney Spears is still seeing a therapist at least. Only a couple of months ago, she was talking about being pregnant and her now-husband seemed to confirm that. Now, that’s all disappeared. Then I saw there’s an interview with her two children. It’s like “Yes!” She was put onto the conservatorship because of what she did to those two boys.

My brain is going all the time “How are in really in 2022”.

What about yours?

Damage

I am writing this to find out more about what you all think.

One thing that continually disturbs me about a lot of Rowling cult, is the insistence. That if you liked HP as a child, or even as an adult, then you are obligated to defend her. The out right disturbing harassment of Emma Watson, Rupert Grint and Daniel Radcliffe. With grown adults saying these individual adults, OWE Rowling, because she gave them their careers.

It disturbs me, because a lot of these people have kids. How many of these “adults” think they’re children OWE them something? How many of these “parents” think their children owe them unquestioning alliance, like my Dad does. How many of these “parents” think their children are THEIR property. I’m nearly 40, and I am only really NOW standing up to my Dad. That’s a long time, really it’s pretty much half of my life.

Hopefully I live to 100, but I doubt it, lol