TERFs and GCs = SO close to getting it!

You know what’s the funniest about TERFs and GCs? They’re either so close to “getting it” or they are getting it so completely wrong, and all at the same time. Its really weird to see.

Duncan there, is a big old transphobe and I hate how stupid he is. Everything he says is exactly what trans people want too. It’s people like Duncan though, who are the ones making it the issue. It’s not trans people, it’s people like Duncan, who are making it an issue.

One, trans people have a legal and moral right to “things” (I don’t know what Duncan is even talking about there)

Two, those medical invasive procedures aren’t done in a day. Like ANY huge surgery, there is a lot of talking and lot of information beforehand. The way Duncan talks about it, you’d think they’re going in with no chatting.

This is why it’s such a weird phenomenon. Duncan (and people like him) are the ones saying and demanding other’s be who they say they are. THEY’RE the ones with the issue, one that doesn’t even actually involve them. Duncan, as an example, will NEVER get trans surgery. So why is he trying to deny it for others? At the same time though, people like Duncan here, are the ones who are actually doing what they’re saying other’s are doing. It’s like, how can you not get how in the wrong you are, when you’re doing what you’re saying others are doing?

Also though, I don’t think gay people got their Rights, to begin with, without a fight. Duncan, needs to do some research on his own community sometime.

Update…Duncan blocked me, without responding, lol

Like I always keep saying. You can be straight, gay, trans, black, white, yellow, religious, atheist, man or women. Not a single one of those “labels” means you’re a good person, or that you can’t hate and harm your own “label” or community.

As another example, of TERFs not getting it, but at the same time “getting it”… but not… I saw one of them called themselves “Progressive”, so I asked why do you think you’re the progressive one when you’re say than trans people who call themselves lesbians or homosexual, are the homophobic ones. While also pointing out to her that there are Lesbians (I know two at least) who date trans men and trans women. Her response was hilarious!

She said to me that she was progressive, because she was saving women from Gender danger, and also called those lesbians “bi”. So basically, she’s progressive because she gets to deem what people fit what labels. And this is what I don’t get, so is she saying that women can’t think for themselves (which is not insulting at all *sarcasm*) and that she’s being progressive by putting people into labels and boxes that SHE deems fit? Seems a little Patriarchal and condescending too me, lol


Don’t label me!

Has anyone noticed lately that the Right have started a new “thing”.

They say something actually homophobic or similar and then say stop labelling them as exactly what they are. For example, take “Bishop of Tyler”.

Too break it down Bishop J Tobin said that “true” Believers of God were not to participate in the LGBT pride month. That homosexuals are harmful to families and children (Oh, I burst you laughing at that one).

Or like Press Secretary Sarah Sanders saying she feels “uncomfortable” being called a liar. Then the very next day made a statement that was a lie about Obama being involved in the Russians and didn’t care about it. Even though the GOP have denied that Russians have been involved with in the White House whatsoever. With proof that Obama was concerned about it.

So why should people stop labelling people with exactly what they’re doing? If you don’t like the label, maybe you should look at yourself again?

I actually got into a discussion with a pro-lifer about how can you talk to people, when you’re pro-life, without others calling you anti-choice. As I explained, that is exactly what they are. Saying “no matter what, you will not allow people to have an abortion” Takes away their choice. How is that “pro-choice”?


Share Your World … Week 5

Share Your World


If you had a shelf for your three most special possessions (not including photos, electronic devices and things stored on them, people or animals), what would you put on it?

  1. Would have to be my special figurines. I have a couple from the Jim Shore.
  2. There are couple of pieces of jewellery that I have either gotten for people (in memoriam) or been given that I treasure.
  3.  I have a few favourite books as well that I’ve had for years. Whenever I “re-find” them in a box I am just so happy.

If you had a box labelled ‘happiness’, what would you put in it?

Oh my goodness, what a great question! If it’s just a box, I would have so many photos in there. Possibly some favourite pieces of jewellery. Bookmarks and some of my favourite pens, maybe a wig or two,lol.

What do you want more of in your life?

I want a more steady job with more of a steady income. It’s getting really frustrating not knowing how many shifts I’m getting coming in and so I don’t always know how much money I’m getting coming in. If I could have that, I swear everything in my life would be pretty much perfect.

Daily Life List: What do you do on an average day? Make a list of your usual activities you do each day.

  • Take all my medication (at the moment it’s all just natural stuff, nothing serious).
  • Depending where I am a cuddle with either my puppy or my partners cat (he’s a weird cat, he really loves to cuddle,lol).
  • Probably some Blogging of course.
  • I usually will play some kind of computer game, even if it’s only for a little while.
  • I will usually watch either Petes Phone (Ustream) or Djuma Cam (Ustream). Especially on the days that I miss the safari live drives. They are pretty much now a great form of meditation for me. I’ll just have one of them on in the background.

The wrong one…

One of the frustrating things in this day and age is getting hit on and asked out on a date by someone you are just NOT in too. Why you ask? Shouldn’t we be flattered and honoured that someone finds us remotely attractive? I say to you friend, No…For one tiny little label…”Friendzone”.

I can’t even begin to say and tell how many times I have said “No” to a proposal of a date because I am just not interested, to wake up the next day to a whole posts of being tagged in a “Friendzone” type meme. I have been publicly called a slut and humiliated in front of my ex (which is a huge NO NO!) all because “How come girls go one about how there are no ‘good guys’ out there and then we end up chasing jerks”.

Except I have never once said that there are no good guys out there? I don’t even believe it. None of my girlfriends have said it either. Yet, because of one guys bruised ego we are automatically given a label of being bitches and harlots because we said “No, not interested”. I in fact still keep being asked out by one particular guy all the time, even though since I’ve known him I’ve had two relationships! Yet I made to feel bad because I choose not to date him, still? If I kept chasing a guy like that, I’d be called “desperate” and still I am in the wrong, for saying “No”.

It is actually terrifying these days to “reject” someone. I use to literally just say “I’m sorry, I’m just not interested”, but now I feel like I have to come up with a whole explanation. I want to be able to say that girls do this too, but I never really seen a girl ever complain about being put into a “Friendzone”. I honestly believe it’s more scary these days to reject someone rather than asking someone out.