Where’d You Go…Kindness

Feels like this song relates a lot to Kindness and where did it go? I’m crying now,lol. I was also REALLY lazy over this past weekend with blogging. Just a lot going on.

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Where’d you go?
I miss you so
Seems like it’s been forever
That you’ve been gone
She said, “Some days I feel like shit”
Some days I wanna quit, and just be normal for a bit”
I don’t understand why you have to always be gone
I get along but the trips always feel so long
And, I find myself tryna stay by the phone
‘Cause your voice always helps me when I feel so alone
But I feel like an idiot, workin’ my day around the call
But when I pick up I don’t have much to say
So, I want you to know it’s a little fucked up
That I’m stuck here waitin’, at times debatin’
Tellin’ you that I’ve had it with you and your career
Me and the rest of the family here singing “Where’d you go?”
I miss you so
Seems like it’s been forever
That you’ve been gone
Where’d you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it’s been forever
That you’ve been gone
Please come back home.
You know the place where you used to live,
Used to barbeque up burgers and ribs,
Used to have a little party every Halloween with candy by the pile,
But now, you only stop by every once in a while,
Shit, I find myself just fillin’ my time,
Anything to keep the thought of you from my mind,
I’m doin’ fine, I plan to keep it that way,
You can call me if you find you have somethin’ to say,
And I’ll tell you, I want you to know it’s a little fucked up,
That I’m stuck here waitin’, at times debatin’,
Tellin’ you that I’ve had it with you and your career,
Me and the rest of the family here singing, “Where’d you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it’s been forever,
That you’ve been gone.
Where’d you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it’s been forever,
That you’ve been gone,
Please come back home
I want you to know it’s a little fucked up,
That I’m stuck here waitin’, no longer debatin’,
Tired of sittin’ and hatin’ and makin’ these excuses,
For while you’re not around, and feeling so useless,
It seems one thing has been true all along,
You don’t really know what you got ’til it’s gone,
I guess I’ve had it with you and your career,
When you come back I won’t be here and you’ll can sing it
Where’d you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it’s been forever,
That you’ve been gone
Where’d you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it’s been forever,
That you’ve been gone

Please come back home

Share Your World 13/07/2020

Share Your World…07/13/2020

Questions:

What song always gets you out on the dance floor?

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Boney M. – Rasputin
Actually all of Boney M’s songs

What’s your favorite sleeping position?

When I can, I love to sleep on my tummy. Either with my arms under my tummy (usually in Winter), or (usually in summer) my arms above my head.

If you could snap your fingers and instantly make the world better, what would you do?

Well, I’d stop the TERFs for one (I really have to stop interacting with them, they are dumb! Especially that ones that it’s okay for black lesbians to discriminate Hint, I don’t give a damn about your skin colour, when you are hurting people). I would make people just stop illogically fearing so much!

What’s the scariest thing you’ve ever done, and why did you do it?

I have not yet, done the scariest thing I need to do for myself. I have not been on a plane yet, with all my newly “acquired” anxiety issues. Being trapped on a plane, with all my issues. Is the height of scary for me. I think once I’ve been on a plane, and it all goes fine (which it will). That’ll be great!


Gratitude Moment (optional)

Please feel free to share something uplifting from your life!  

Gratitude-and-Appreciation

When I got made at some transphobic people on Twitter. One of my friends said to me “IStandWithLauren”, and that made me cry. There have just suddenly popped up all these transphobes, especially during Pride Month. It feels like there are so many more of them, then us.

Dear Melania Trump,

I don’t care about your porn past, because quiet frankly we don’t need to bring it up. From your birther comments about Obama’s, resulting in Malia and Sasha themselves, receiving death threats. Up until current day. You haven’t actually done anything kind, everything you’ve done is cruel and toxic and all “ME, ME ME”. That’s what I care about. That you went to tv and put Malia and Sasha in harms way, and have you apologised, yet? Nope. You, instead, went BACK onto tv and said how you’re the most bullied person in the world.

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50 Ways to Take a Break – Self Kindness — Kindness Blog

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Dear Adelaide <3

Dear Adelaide or otherwise known as Radelaide (no, it really is)

We need to talk to you and I…What is going?!

What is this toxicity that I’ve noticed lately. Has it always been there? Have I just never noticed it before? There’s a extremely good chance that off in my own little dream world. With all the love I love putting out there, maybe I was just too blind to see it. Maybe because I’ve been changing, I’m only now realising it?

Adelaide, you are toxic.

You may be smaller than your sisters and brothers, and Sydney maybe the “hip place” for tourists to visit, Melbourne may have a little more variety. You are still so beautiful. Because you are smaller, need for quality over quantity is so much more imperative!

What is with this need lately you seem to have with wanting more friends, rather than the quality of the friendship. What is this toxic goo, that I’ve been noticing spread around Adelaide lately?

I’ve been very happy lately, but so many people who I thought were friends, don’t seem to be around anymore. They’d rather hang out with the people that caused me heartbreak. It seems to be becoming a common theme in Adelaide, I see the friends I do have, being hurt, for no good reason, other than people can. Adelaide it’s not good enough. What is your need to be the ‘most’ popular. Where is the need to just be a good friend?

Where is the need to just be kind to others?

Adelaide, you don’t know what you’re missing! There is NO way you are going to convince me, even though these “adults” choose to be this way, that they are happy.

Adelaide, you keep trying to pass yourselves off as Wednesday Addams, cool, dark, mysterious, clever, and individual…But you’re starting to come across as the “Mean Girls”

Wednesday Mean Girl

Share Your World Feb last week, 2019

Share Your World – 25/2/19

QUESTIONS:

What, in your opinion, is the point to life?

I think the point to life, is to find YOUR point of life. Too concentrate to the point for your life, to find our point to life.

What was your most recent lie?  You don’t have to get really specific obviously.

I lied to someone recently who asked me if I was alright. I’m not 100% but this isn’t someone I want to know anything about my life really. I’ve got a bit of a bacterial gut infection and I mentioned on my Facebook that I was sick and they were all “Are you alright”? So I told them I was just getting my yearly cholesterol check. Which wasn’t a total lie, but it wasn’t the only thing I was there for. I did that wrong anyway now. I had a cup of tea…with…WITH…sugar an hour before I went -.-

What country do you consider the strangest?   (it’s all In fun folks, ALL countries may seem strange to outsiders)

I have actually visited America a few times and I still think it’s one of the strangest countries, especially for being a “first world” country. Whether you include Trump and that whole situation. It amazes me how you could probably have states as nations, they are just THAT different from each other. You look at something like Scientology, for example. We actually do have that in Australia, just nowhere near the scale it is, in America. We actually had politicians fight it (look up Nick Xenphon) I don’t think they are tax free here anymore. Whereas America is more all freedom of religion, even when it’s more than obvious that a “Religion” is a money making scheme. Like, I almost actually get NK and Russia. Simply they are Dictators and not very nice people. American, it’s such a mixture and they don’t know how to get along. It’s their way, or it’s the “wrong way”.

What’s your funniest story involving a car?

I can’t honestly think of any, mainly because I get my anxiety issues from travelling. If something very funny has happened to me I don’t honestly remember it, but I have loved reading others!


GRATITUDE

Do you have something you’re very thankful for or that showed immense kindness toward yourself or someone?

I think my coworkers are just the best! I am not working in my “dream job” persay and I’m not sure that I’d mind working where I am right now, for a very long time. One of the great things about where I work, I get a chance to Blog too! If I come up with an idea for a post, I can at least get it started.

Random Acts of Kindness

Random Acts of Kindness

Kindness

Many thanks to Life Lessons from Around the Dinner Table for nominating my blog for this new award which was created by  MSW R. Thank you so much! I honestly got teary, sometimes I forget that my words can make an impact. If I could nominate you, I would!

Here are the rules:

Tell who you nominate and why.

Copy and share the picture that shows the award, posted above.

Share a paragraph of something that impacted your own life in the way of receiving kindness or how you extended kindness to someone else.

Nominate anyone or share to your own page. If you so choose to Participate.

Tag or pingback to the original person who nominated you, or the original post.

Just like with Kristian when I do have something good happen to me or I do something good, I have a hard time talking about it. I don’t like to boast about it either. Even though, usually, when we do something nice for others, most people are genuinely doing it because they want to do something kind for someone else…Usually…

Some of the things I either find bring kindness, or kind things I have done in the past are:

  • My mum doesn’t “love” her job. Every now and then (and when I can afford it) I’ll randomly send her flowers to her desk.
  • It may be irritating and you may think “Why Me” I find though when an “older person” wants to talk with you, it’s usually because they’re lonely and sometimes afraid. One time I was speaking to an elderly gentleman and he was on the way to the Doctors. He asked me to read a letter as he couldn’t read English well. He asked me if I could see anywhere on the letter if it said that he had cancer and he did not. I have never seen someone so grateful before! Ever since then I’ve not minded to speak with them.
  • More recently, I have been trying to get over my feelings of awkwardness if I see someone post how down they are feeling. I’ll post a picture or gif of a hug. Even if I don’t know them very well and have no idea what they are upset.
  • Saving a bee from the water, even though I’m allergic.

Also remember though Kindness does not equal weakness!

My Nominations:

*For my nominations I wanted to nominate all the Blogs that I follow that I consider to be kind. The only problem with that is all the Blog I read are kind, I wouldn’t follow anybody “nasty”. I have decided to go with some Blogs that I feel are fighting for people and are still responding to the haters with a lot more grace and kindness then these people deserve!*

Bookmark Chronicles – Bookmark Chronicles was probably one of the first people that I found and one of the first people that I followed on WordPress. I LOVE how she fights for POC, reminding and teaching us about History and the system. With so much grace along the way. The way she supports other Bloggers as well and how she writes…Beautiful!

Kindness Blog – I am a relatively new reader, but the Kindness Blog finds Kindness wherever they are writing about. If you are ever down and wanted something good to think about please read this Blog!

The Tony Burgess Blog  – I don’t think that there is a kinder Blogger than the Tony Burgess Blog. Even when he is not feeling himself, he still throws out so much kindness towards others…There is not way I could not nominate him!

What about you? What are some ways you show kindness?  How has someones act of kindness impacted you?

Thanks again, Rory!!

Love & Life Lessons,

Kristian

Do NOT threaten Children! Why is this even a thing I have to say!

#Love4Maddie

I could NOT believe what I reading yesterday! I thought for sure that I was mistaken what I was reading…No, it was true.

Hate Trackers Online… Read and prepared to get angry!

Please read the above link before reading my post!

I am SO angry right now! I am going to try and keep this short…There is a sickness hovering over American right now. Until their “Leader” starts condemning “things” like these people…(I would call them potato looking things, but that would be an insult to potatoes)….The cancer will continue to grow! What a shocker all the Trump supporters only focusing on the transgender “issue”…It is NEVER okay to have a group of “adults” making plans to kill and bully children…NEVER! DO YOU HEAR ME! NEVER! NEVER FREAKING EVER!!! I don’t give a crap how you feel about transgender people…Until Fox News, NRA and Trump start condemning these people instead of joining them AGAINST CHILDREN…I don’t want to hear one word about how about the immigration issues are to “protect the children” WHILE YOU ARE BULLYING THEM!!!! There are no “fine people” who threaten to kill children! #Love4Maddie…That was me, keeping it short,lol

I have also decided that I am not going on Facebook for a VERY long time…Why do people keep expecting you to help them…But then do not help you! I am sick of it! No more selfies for Facebook either! What’s the point of doing nothing but selfies? If I wanted that I’d go to Instagram all the time,lol…Not ONE person expressed their outrage at the Maddie situation…Not one! Only two people donated to my Dry July…THEN people who did NOT donate, sent messages saying we had to help them! WTF! I am SO sick of Facebook!

STOP ASKING PEOPLE TO HELP YOU WHEN YOU DO NOT HELP OTHERS!

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WordPress is legitimately the ONLY place I really feel like I can discuss actual issues…Other than how gorgeous we so clearly are! We don’t need to take photo after photos to prove anything!

‘Cuse my French…Kindly Shut Up

I am not sure how many of my readers keep up with the latest Entertainment News. Recently Demi Lovato woke up from a suspected accidental overdose. I’m not Demi Lovato’s biggest fan, but saying things like “It was her choice”…Is not helpful and that’s not how addiction or mental health works. Having money means nothing, having the world at your feet means nothing, being beautiful, being young and thinking you’re invincible…Means nothing, if you don’t have the right support.

Take Katy Perry as well, not her biggest fan either. Some of her actions though, I can actually understand where she was coming from. She recently had an interview where she explained a lot of issues, including the live stream feed of herself. I don’t know anyone who actually watched it (do you know anyone who did?). Even that stream and the idea of it though seemed a little odd too me. Once she opened up, a lot more of the things she did, made sense to me.

Every type of health battle is different. So unless you have a conversation with that person, just don’t speak on matters you don’t understand. It’s kind of common sense really, well too me. This is for any health battle. If you don’t know what someones going through, breathe, take a minute and ask them. Don’t make assumptions. There might be a reason why people don’t want to tell you anything. Take Val Kilmer as an example, we still don’t know what was going on with him. Maybe there’s a reason he didn’t want to say what was going on and that’s perfectly fine, we don’t need too know.

We should just feel lucky that we don’t have to fight our battles so publicly.

❤ Please consider what you are saying before you talk with someone or about someone whose recovering ❤

This has been your weekly Public Service Announcement =P

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