Heal Your Mind

The Soul & Book Club

I wrote a post a couple of days ago, talking about America trying to heal. It was very pretty simple. Now take the time to heal America. But, we need to heal ourselves, first. So many people are now finding themselves coming down with more illnesses. For myself, I have no doubt that this is because suddenly our bodies are relieved. Everything we were holding back, is being unleashed.

It’s even more important NOW to take care of ourselves. No matter what, Trump is gone. Not for another two months, but he WILL be gone.

I have decided to come off of Twitter for a few days, not because of my suspension yesterday. But because I saw something that really made me angry. I am studying to be come a Health Administrator. Reading an article today where a mother stopped her 17 year old from getting surgery. Made me SO angry. Not only did this mother called what their teenager doing a “fad”, but as you find out more and more. It got worse.

The teenager doesn’t even live with the mother, and now because the mother stopped the surgery. She ALSO wants all the communication details. Remember this “mother” called it a fad, but no idea what conversations were even taking place.

What this Judge has done, especially, is too not only undermine minors and their protections. Not only giving power to a parent, that clearly does not get along with the teenager. But undermines the Privacy Laws for minors. There is a very GOOD reason why parents/guardians, cannot always just ask to get into their children’s medical records. Or make permissions for them.

I think it is quiet well known that when children/minors are preyed upon, I would even go so far to say that at least 95% of of children preyed upon. It’s by someone they KNOW. Hence, why children/minors have privacy rules/laws, especially in the medical area.

What this Judge and mother have now done. Is potentially open up for cases where abusive parents/guardians can get access to their vulnerable children. AND AREN’T THE TERFS LAPPING THAT ONE UP!

Seriously, they’re calling the move by the Judge “common sense” and win for “parents” Completley and utterly the FACT that it actually undermines ALL minors now and their privacy.

CHILDREN ARE NOT THE PROPERTY OF THEIR PARENTS

And for TERFs, to sit there and complain about how women are nothing but controlled. They seem to have NO PROBLEMS with controlling their own children.

Heal..

One of my problems with the whole MAGA teenagers and the people who defend them, is the clear lack of ignorance. “How would you feel if a drum was being beaten in your face”? It’s not a rock and or roll band drum, it’s a healing drum/chant. So I’d be fine with it. However, I would not be fine with a red MAGA hat made in China, not moving out of the way.

I wonder sometimes if that’s why women can relate to Nathan Phillips, the Native American Man…That IS our life!

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It’s interesting I wrote this when before I know that Trump was going to open the Government. Isn’t funny (and typical) that the same crowd, when a women says she was raped. The first thing they say is “What were you wearing” “What did you do to provoke him?” Yet, when someone wears a cap that represents racism and division it’s all “It’s just a hat”.

It’s such a shame, because those boys could have really learnt something from this as well. Instead of keeping them in a little bubble of safe racism, their parents really could have taught them. That this is not how the world works, if you go out on your own and you do something wrong, you need to take responsibility for it. The world is not going to be kind to that boy. Unless he stays in that little circle.

I couldn’t even get excited about Trump caving, because so much damage has been done. I have stopped though trying to speak with Trump supporters. They are so gone.

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Share Your World, October 1st week, 2018

Share Your World

Share Your World, October 1st, 2018

Questions:

What’s your go-to for unwinding after a stressful event or day?   Can be someone or something – music, pets, family or whatever you choose.

I love hugging my pets, my furbabies, or at least playing with them. I also need to watch something funny, sometimes there are the old faithfuls I go back and sometimes I’ll look for a new one.


The plane you’re flying in is going to crash, no survivors.  If you had one song you could listen to before it happens, what would it be?  (credit toNewEpicAuthor for this one).  Please share the link to the song if you can.

I have really been thinking about this one, because there are so many songs that I just love. The one that keeps popping into my mind though every time, even though maybe not always first. So I’m going to go with that one.


What is one thing you’re really, really good at and not ashamed to admit it?  I worded that deliberately because aren’t we taught to be humble and not pushy about our achievements?  Celebrate your ability!

I am really good at listening. Which I think especially at the moment is so important. I think we’ve stopped forgetting how to listen.  Everyone’s determined to be right, instead of listening. I think it’s a big problem at the moment.


Would you rather lose all of your money and valuables or all of the pictures you have ever taken?

Wooo, i was going to say the money to be honest, because you can work at getting that back, but it seems to involve valuables too though?  Pictures, you can’t always get them back, especially older photos. Once they’re gone (like great grandparents) they are gone forever.

And lastly

What were you grateful for or something that made you smile during the past month?

That my practical videos for my online classes FINALLY LOADED!!!lol

Courage to Walk – Nurt Thursday

Nurt Thursday – Courage to Walk

I have to warn you all that I am going to make this personal, however if you can relate, that makes it even better!

When I had my massive panic attack last year, and when I came back from the hospital. I basically stayed on the couch, day and night for the next two days. I had never been so scared in my life…But…I got up again…I didn’t want to be on the couch anymore, I wanted to get up again…I did not want to be on the couch for the rest of my life…I didn’t want too…

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The most satisfying and most empowering moment that I’ve had in my recent life is when I walked out the front door and sat in the park near my partners house. For the next month or so, every extra step was a personal triumph! When I went inside to the cake near my partners house and waited in line with strangers to buy a cannoli…Amazing! There is a lot of truth to

“The first step is the hardest” But you can!

Astrology and other cool things!

What better way to start a Monday then to tell you about some hobbies that I do. That I can’t actually believe that I have never told you all about!

Now I know the title says Astrology. I am not an actual Astrologer so I can’t not tell you your future/horoscope. However, I am a big follower of it. Now also when I say a big follower of it, I don’t really pay attention to the day to to day. When I was younger my Gran made a chart with different houses and those sorts of ones I pay attention too. Mainly because they’ve been extremely accurate.

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My Gran also taught me Reiki and I am a Level Reiki Practitioner (and my bear Tristan). For those who do not what Reiki is, I’ll give you a little quick break down: Reiki is the ancient Chinese healing method with your hands. The great thing about Reiki is that you can do what is called “Absent Healings”. Which is where you give a picture or have a picture in your mind of the person your healing and you use a proxy (hence the teddy bear). I don’t use Reiki so much on other people anymore, but I do on myself at lot at the moment. It really does help. I must stress that it will not necessarily cure anything, but it helps with the stress of the situation. I once was regularly giving Reiki healing for someone who had terminal cancer. Although it did not cure the cancer, she said that it helped her with the pain.

If you ever feel like you need an absent reiki healing, please don’t hesitate to contact me!

My Grandmother also taught me the ways of the Tarot and I do love using my cards. I currently have a Lord of the Rings deck and I’ve had them for years! I love just using them to help clarify any questions or situations that I find myself currently in. Unfortunately though I don’t know why, but I can’t find my deck!

 

Dear You

I recently sat down and wrote a letter to three ex friends of mine. I sat down and write what I would write to them if the one friend who attacked me out of nowhere decided to unblock me. I blocked the other two after they also attacked me as well and yet, were perfectly fine with every attacking me and accusing me of things I had never even done.

I decided to write my response. Although I doubt they would ever apologise, I have no intentions at all with being friends with them ever again.  I felt like I needed to write something, even if they never see it. I have spent time editing it and bringing up new points and rehashing at old points. It has made me feel a lot better. Any time that I’ve thought of something or a good point, I write it. It’s nearly two pages long at this point.

Points like:

  • The note that I had wrote about my anxiety it wasn’t about them. I was just writing what was going on with me and how I don’t want to be treated anymore. If they took that personally, that’s on them.
  • The fact before this, they do nothing but attack me over the years and that’s fine because “that’s just who they are”. I kid you not.
  • If you don’t like being “attacked” why are you with someone who abuses you?

So on and so forth.

I don’t know how many of you I actually told you. That they blocked me once they had had a go at me, so I couldn’t even respond…Probably because it was going to be this reaction and they knew it…

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Have you ever done something similar?

A bit of a tizzle

I am in a bit of a tizzle today and I am not really sure what to do.

My partner cat had a seizure last night and while we rushed him to the Vets and he recovered really well. This is the second this has happened and I feel helpless because there’s really not much that we can do.

The first time it happened we actually thought he was choking on something, but now we’re wondering if he was having a fit, and if he was, that means it was his first one ever, in his life.     ….    Do NOT go and watch videos of animals having seizures, it is extremely upsetting!

We’re going to to the Vets this week to get some blood tests done. It should both exclude and include what may be wrong…We are pretty sure that it is epilepsy. Rather know for certain though. Apparently the medication for it, once he’s on it he has to stay on it…So we need to cross out everything else.

I hate how we can’t communicate with animals, and them with us…I HATE it.

He’s been sleeping all day, but every time I get up he goes running to the door and he wants milk and he can’t have either. Does anyone else have experience with this?

Thoughts and Reiki Healing ❤

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Karma

KARMA:

I see a lot of people who want Karma towards a lot of people who have hurt them or harmed them in some way or another. By this it seems that a lot of people want them to have some big event or other (and sometimes for the other person to have this overwhelming need to apologise).

This is how I see Karma. It’s not a one big event thing and they more than likely are not ever going to apologise. Take comfort in this though. Every day they are living their Karma. Every day they have to live with being caught with their lie, or how they’ve hurt someone. They are feeling it, trust me. The only type of person who can hurt another and not feel it…Well that’s just psychopathic.

Take myself, for example. I had someone who decided to impress me by insulting his sister and his best friend, just to get into my pants, which did not work. I was then not invited to anymore parties and slowly I have not heard from anyone since (It’s a common theme for them. They do something wrong and you get “punished”) Now I could be hurt by this, except I feel sorry for him.

Can you imagine it? He doesn’t like his sister being there and he has to live with his friends saying disgusting things about her ALL THE TIME. Trust me he knows they are…How do I know this? Because he used to do it about other girls. You know the Trump “locker talk” stuff? Well they do that. Even if they didn’t too his face and I have seen some of them do it, he knows exactly what is going on. He must be SO pissed off. I don’t need need some big event, he must feel so alone, not being able to say he doesn’t actually want her around. Knowing the horrible things the say about her, knowing they don’t actually respect her, for her.

I don’t need to do a damn thing. If people wont talk to me about why I was suddenly not invited either, they have to live with that too. Which has happened to me over this situation as well. It’s not surprising, but it’s still disappointing.

mean-girls

Leftovers

One of the things that I absolutely hate about my last ‘relationship’, was that no matter how much I know I’m better off and no matter how much I love and adore my current boyfriend. I hate how the past can affect us and damage us for someone who has never done a thing to hurt us.

To make a long story short, my last “relationship” ended up being a disaster and have no idea why. The only way I can explain it to myself is that I honestly was just a bet. I am decade older than my last partner and he chased me for months (nearly a year) full well knowing that I’m much older than him, but we ended up dating…for a month. Now his reason was alright (after nearly a year he realised I was much older than him)…

But as all my ex’s seem to do, they just seem to turn on me? All my breakups have been “amicable” in that we’ve both realised it’s not going to work and somehow all of my ex’s, even when they not great friends with the person, they’ve all gone running to the person who hates me the most? It’s put some serious trust issues, deep embedded in me. My last ex, for example, using to complain about this “best friend” of his more than I did and I had more of a reason to dislike this guy, and does not respect the guy. Yet, the first person he goes to, out of all of his friends, is a guy he doesn’t respect and knows hates my guts?

The whole feeling though of feeling stupid for having such strong feelings for someone who thought me nothing more than a bet, still stays with me to this day and I just cannot shake it. It annoys me to no end. I am extremely happy with my relationship and I can tell it bothers my current partner that I seriously struggle to open up. I just cannot help it.

Any advice?