Actually, it is quiet rude to stare at stranger’s bodies

TERF’s are the weirdest bunch, I’ve ever seen. I still don’t get how anyone takes them seriously.

I have also decided to keep calling them TERF’s, but instead of “Feminists”, I will say say Feminazi’s instead.

Imagine having to point out to “adults”, that it is, in fact, rude to teach children to stare at other people’s bodies.

Cause…it is

Imagine having to point out to “adults” that bringing up and trying to attack someone and what you think their parents, living or dead, “taught them” is not a them problem, it’s a YOU problem.

Cause…it is

Imagine having to explain to “adults” that explaining why that woman, is in a woman’s change room with a penis, to their teenagers and children. That one is just as easy by the way “Well they may possibly be a trans or non-binary, and not all trans people can get surgery, or want it…They are still trans…” “Oh, and by the way child, it is STILL rude to stare at a strangers body”.

Cause it is.

Hailee Steinfeld


I am a very boring person

I was writing a comment on a fellow bloggers post, and I wrote that I have decided to do what I wish I had done when I was younger. Only thing is, I’m not sure what I would change? Haha.

Like, as boring and as a basic bitch, as I am. I don’t really regret anything. Sure, I wish I had kids when I was younger, my body is all currently falling apart. But you know, I have had a good life. I don’t regret any of my relationships, my first serious one got me travelling, however, I don’t want to be with anyone else but my current partner. I guess I have always wanted to colour my hair red? Take some boudoir photos before my body completely falls apart. But I can’t think of anything else, lol.

But then I saw (and hopefully I find it before this is posted) a photo/quote that said that not everyone has to have a exciting life. This social pressure we have to have a exciting and interesting life, is a pressure I feel all the time. I am not ashamed to admit that I am probably the most “boring” person in my family. So I felt that, a lot, lol.

Share Your World … Week 10

Share Your World

Share Your World … Week 10

What would you ask for if a genie granted you three wishes?

  1. For everyone I care about to have their mortgages paid off as well as one dream house, paid off as well.
  2. A dream job, dream health or vacation for everyone I care about (some people like working…What can I say).
  3. I would like to wish for several successful conservation parks for different types of animals.

What experiences are most meaningful to you?

The ones where I am secretly happy when I leave.

As a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?

I wanted to be BOTH a hairdresser and a Ballerina. It’s kind of funny really because now I rarely do anything with my hair, I might put a different colour through it every couple of years and I give it a chop. As for ballerina I still love to dance, but I don’t do any kind of professional dancing any-more.

Complete this sentence:  The best day of my life was…. 

Oh wow, I’m not sure that I could point out on one day in particular. I have been been very lucky and have had a few. Hopefully looking forward to more!

Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

Share Your World – Week 16

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Share Your World

 

What are your favourite spices?

It depends what we’re talking about here. I love all sorts of spices in all sorts of different way. I love cinnamon on top of my chai latte, but I also love how certain herbs will make my spaghetti bolognase taste amazing. I am honestly not sure that I could ever choose just one spice.

What object do you always have with you when traveling and why?

Apart from the obvious, the other thing I always travel with is at least one book. No matter what situation I am going into, it’s great to have a book that I can read whenever there might be an “appropriate” moment. The other thing that I do though is always pack an extra pair of underwear, you never know when someone might through you into a lake and ruin your underwear!

What is one thing you love about being an adult?

The freedom, even with or without a car. The ability to be able to go where ever we want whenever we want, there’s no one to answer too. I don’t have to be in a by a certain time, and I can have whoever I want over. By the same token though, sometimes my Mum always knew who was a good person and a bad person for me too be around.

What item, that you don’t have already, would you most like to own?

I have been wanting to get a 80’s Rogue X-men figurine for the longest of times, but they are always either not available any-more or they are way to expensive. Either that or if I’m being all socially responsible I would get the outside entertainment dining set-up for my Mum. I kind of want it too though,lol.

Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

I am grateful for my new partner, he is just lovely and I actually feel like he would actually miss me if we broke up. He treats me so well and he hasn’t made me cry once! The week coming up? … It’s my birthday next week so anything that happens to me is going to be great!

Retail Therapy

The last couple of months I have hit the retail therapy HARD CORE! I mean generally there is always some kind of retail therapy for me after a breakup, but I have been getting rid of so many old clothes and getting new gorgeous ones. It is a necessary function that needs to be performed after every single break up…No matter how nice or nasty!

It is interesting though what people decide to buy after a break up. When I was younger I used to buy plush toys and I still actually have them all and I have no bad feelings towards any of them. As I’ve gotten older though I buy clothes more now and I buy things that I’ve been wanting for a while but never got around too.

What do you buy after a breakup? What makes you feel better? Is it buying bad food (sometimes I do that…Nice juicy bad burger~.^) is it watching “bad” movies? Is it just being around family and friends?.

retail therapy

32 truth for Adults

So as a Fact Friday post I decided to post a link that I found that may not necessarily be scientific type facts. I was reading it though, there were definite home truths or home facts and I pretty much agreed with every single one of them.

How many can you relate too? I related to especially to Number 11

32 Truths for adults

Tickld 2014, 32 things you learn growing up. 24 is so true, Tickld
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