It’s positively not always about you.

I have been getting SO frustrated with all these Republican “women”. Conveniently saying that they remember EVERYTHING from when they were assaulted. (None of them have reported it to the police) So that’s why they don’t believe Dr Ford. It makes my skin literally crawl.

All these “people” who are like “Well I did it this way”…GOD they sound like my ex best friend when she said it was my fault that she had all these horrible stories to tell about her bf BECAUSE and I quote¬†“When I’m single I don’t like hearing how happy my friends are in relationships” So I must be like that? (I’m not, I’d rather my friends¬†are safe and happy than abused, just who I am.) This might shock some of those “people”…NOT EVERYONE IS YOU! It literally makes my skin crawl.

That’s why in the dictionary there are word likes … Empathy, Sympathy, Listening. Yes, there are also words like Self, Selfish, Narcissistic. Which ones do you want to follow?How about people use more positive words, more actual arguments? I know how hard it is for people who have a narcissistic personality to think it revolves all around them.

Let’s look at situations from other points of views instead. Let’s start listening to what others have to say…How hard is that?

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Rather than not listening and hearing what happened to you, listen to what the other person is telling you.

Let’s turn this all around! Let’s start the talking again.

 

Unfollowing?

When you’ve ever unfollowed someone…Have you ever told that person why you’ve unfollowed them?

This is definitely one of my more random thoughts of the year.

I recently unfollowed someone mainly because I didn’t really like how they call themselves a full time streamer and people give them hundreds of their dollars. Too help pay with their rent, or to help pay for a new microphone, something like that. Yet, I swear they are least full time streamer, of the all the full time streamers I have ever seen. I wanted to write a comment along the lines of maybe they should reconsider the whole “full time” thing. They go on about having headaches, yet they spent the whole day doing stuff? I don’t think this person I unfollowed actually has had a single week yet all year, where they’ve streamed all the days that they said they were going too. There’s always at least one day a week where they don’t.

I felt like saying something, but I know that his followers would probably just eat me alive for every daring to say it. Even though they give hundreds of dollars to this guy.

The only times I’ve been told why someone is unfollowing me was to call me a horrible person. No one else ever had, even though they’ve clearly had problems with me. One, I found out though, thought I was too “boring” Guy is still single and I didn’t even know that he had unfriended me, because I found him “that” interesting *shrugs* Personally I think it was because he thought someone “better” had come along. Though she was not interested in him.

Have you ever gone about telling someone why you’ve unfollowed them, or have most of the time, they’ve just known why? I probably go through once a year and get rid of people who haven’t been around for over a year and I don’t know them that well…I get that.

Monday Magic!

Today is a very exciting day for me (well actually it was Friday, but I tried three times to make a Vlog and the audio just kept cutting out and then made the rest of the audio on my computer cut out).

So on Friday morning I woke up with some amazing news. When I first wake up in the morning I try and check my WordPress, when I can. I now have over 300 followers! YAY!!!

Now for some people who have like the thousands followers it might be “So What?!” To me though it is amazing! I am honestly surprised that I have even one followers. People in my life dont even know that I am doing this, except for my partner, and he only found out this week!

Blogging for me is a kind of Freedom. I have people who don’t know me, having discussions with me and I honestly miss this! I find these days people (even without any malice intended) judge you and instead of wanting to have a discussion, they just want to be right. I don’t find this with Blogging. I honestly believe that Blogging is more about having discussions with people who are interested in the same thing and without the judgement.

So thank you to ALL of my amazing followers, I love you all so much you have no idea!

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Instagram

I have joined the world of “Instagram”…It’s not so much I’ve “given in”, it’s more than I can win gift vouchers on there for the clothing stores that I am really in love with.

Instagram is so much different from all the other social media sites out there because you are pretty much trying to express yourself through pictures and photos. I am not an expert photographer so it’s making for an interesting time. I’ve gotten a few followers and have no idea how to get more, so any advice would help me out so much. I’m not sure if the more followers you have, the more chance you have at winning competitions.

If you want to follow me…Follow me here:

http://instagram.com/lady_lolsy