Dear bigots, please start thinking before you speak…

…or write…

I mainly want too write about the disgusting term “trans widows”. However, I do want too write about in general how bigots really need to start thinking about what they’re writing and/or saying.

Too start off with I was inspired to write this post because the amount of terfs that were trying to belittle a actual widow, was completely gross. Then to say to people like me, I was gaslighting and being abusive. Because I was pointing out the differences between a actual widow and a trans “widow”. Infuriated me. Still does.

Is it just me, or do people keep thinking they can just say whatever they say, with no one else saying anything? I blame Trump, lol

Watching these trans widows, with some even actually saying that their pain was WORSE, to a actual widow!

I was sitting there completely dumb founded. I know Trump Supporters were and some are still bad, but damn some how these TERFs are much more worse!

I just don’t understand how anyone can think these ways? Like what possessed a human being to not only call themselves a “widow” for anything, when they are not. And then dog pile onto a actual widow and saying how their pain in valid. Their pain is valid, but calling yourself a “widow” when your ex is very much alive, is beyond disgusting.

What if, say, in 10 years, even next year than trans “widow” is getting along with their ex? What then? I just can’t imagine being so disrespectful.

Like this happened about two weeks ago, and I am still pissed about it.

The Ever lasting Effect of an Empath

Over the weekend Safari Live had a very special fireside chat that was dedicated to the Queen that is the Leopardess Karula. It got me too thinking, about those things, people, animals, that leave us with an impression forever, even though those things that we’ve never actually met before. How do they affect us so much?

Take the situation with Karula, I’ve never actually physically seen her, not to face to face (not that I would have wanted too), but through a tv screen, yet whenever I see a picture of her or a screen shot I started getting emotional. Or take the Manchester bombings, I don’t even live in the same country, let alone in Manchester, yet the whole day I was crying. Even with people I dislike, or people who have done me wrong. I get upset for them when I hear something terrible has happened, I just cannot revel in their misery.

EmpathTest.com

(My super serious title is : The Moon Goddess Empath)

Any fellow Empaths in here?

I think that the issue I have most with being empathetic, is that unfortunately, I tend to “suck in” other people’s emotions and I have to constantly suck myself back out of situations before I am completely and utterly sucked in by the toxicity, and there is a lot of that out there!

So what as one empath to another, what suggestions that people who are empathetic, what direction, what suggestions can we make to one another to make our lives a little easier. It’s very hard to function in the world if we consistently let the world upset us. I have a few suggestions:

  • Make a commitment to yourself to take yourself off of all social media for at least once a day a week.
  • Eat and drink healthy…I know it may seem like a cliche, but I have taken out coffee recently and I have really noticed the difference.
  • On those days off from social media, fill your mind with something fulfilling, completely personal for you.
  • Understand that you do not have to go to any party or gathering, if you feel you don’t want too. Make sure though you do treat your mind instead!

One thing you should understand though is that being an Empath is not the same as having depression or a mental illness, that is a completely different thing. Although the two can overlap and correlate a lot.

Are you wounded?

http://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/06/the-toxic-attraction-between-an-empath-a-narcissist/

Oh wow! Just Wow! This describes so many of my past relationships. A lot of my ex’s would go on and on about what “terrible childhoods” they’d have. They weren’t abused or anything, a lot of them had parents that would overcompensate. The reason I would post this in a “Single” Blog? Mainly because I think that if you are one of these, you can look out of the warning signs of the other before you become any more serious. If you are dating someone new and you are feeling unsure then you can look for these signs.