I don’t hate Johnny Depp

I don’t know if you’ve all seen the latest interview with Johnny Depp. I’m all over the place with it. The interview itself was interesting, but I truly wished he would have taken more responsibility for his actions. I am tired of hearing he didn’t hit Amber in the video, so it’s not abuse. There are other forms of abuse.

Time to get personal here.

My father has never hit me, he spanked me a couple of times when I was younger, but nothing that I’d call abusive. HOWEVER, he is an alcoholic and oh my goodness the things names and text messages I’ve received over the years. If someone else saw them, they’d punch him up or be in complete shock as to why I even still speak too him. Like Johnny, I don’t think my father is evil. He has had a hard life, but it’s not an excuse to take it out on me. Also like Johnny, I don’t think my Dad is happy himself. I don’t think he gets any pleasure out of the abuse he hurls at me.

I like Johnny Depp, I just know that he could be a LOT better if he took responsibility for his actions and what he is doing. If he’s stupid fans could STOP hating on other people, because they want Johnny to do better…They can’t possibly have read that interview and thought “There’s a happy guy!”. If Vanessa thought he was so wonderful, why leave him? Women just don’t leave great guys, we just don’t, lol.

It’s okay not too be perfect. I don’t hate Johnny Depp, I don’t think that he’s a bad guy. I think he’s a lost soul and needs some guidance instead of people telling him that he’s wonderful a perfect. It doesn’t mean though he can got off.

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Share Your World, Week 3, 2018

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Share Your World, 18 June, 2018

You can have an unlimited supply of one thing for the rest of your life, what is it? Sushi? Scotch Tape?

You know at first I thought that this was such a honestly silly question. Then I actually thought about how often I use scotch tape. Especially having Mighty Ape around with all pretty patterns on their scotch tape. I have actually been using a lot for presents and generally crafting.

Teleportation or flying?

Teleportation all the way! My partner and I constantly talk about this, how convenient having teleportation would be. Even flying back and forth would take time. Teleportation is pretty much instant. During Winter and those REALLY hot days in Summer, you wouldn’t even need to sweat or get wet!

Would you rather live where it only snows or the temperature never falls below 100 degrees?

Never falls below 100 degrees. We are in the middle of Winter right now and I am definitely not a Winter person. I miss the warm sun!

What did you appreciate or what made you smile this past week?  Feel free to use a quote, a photo, a story, or even a combination. 

Emotionally, it’s been a rough week. I have really been appreciating the weather, even though it’s Winter, the last couple of days we’ve been having sun during the day. It’s been nice, it’s still cold, but the sun is helping me too feel better.

Yes to a “Fair Go”

I wanted to start this post off by saying that I will be voting “Yes” for Marriage Equality is Australia.

It’s been an interesting couple of weeks regarding this topic, there are lot of people who feel like they are being pushed into saying “yes” so they are voting “no”. Which I honestly think is the LAMEST reason ever to vote for No for anything. Have a backbone, think for yourself. For all those people who are saying they are voting because they feel bullied into voting Yes…

How little respect do you have for yourself? I mean, truly, honestly?

You are really admitting that you care about what others/strangers thing? That you don’t have the respect for yourself to stand by what you think and believe. If these “libtards” and “left wingers” told you NOT to jump off the edge of the cliff and kept telling you not to do it…Would you do it, just to spite them?

I don’t really understand why someone would vote “No” and especially since I have seen no reason, legal or common sense wise, that has made me go “That’s a good point”. However, I do respect those people who are voting “no” and not because they were just trying to spite other people. They are actually standing to their own ideas, rather than following a crowd.

Think about it this way…If you’re voting “No” because the “yes” side have made you feel ‘silenced’ or are ‘mean’…Guess what genius…This is what homosexual people face EVERY SINGLE DAY! Except it far more extreme than you feeling attacked by strangers on Facebook. Gay people being discriminated and having to hear no every say, they face being kicked out by their families, possibly killed by a family member. Most gay people are killed by someone they know for being gay.

So sorry if I don’t feel sorry for you if you feel you are being attacked by the Yes side.

I have seen none of these attacking from the Yes side…Only once recently and I was so embarassed for them…Apart from that I’ve seen people who are trying to understand why people would think it’s alright to Vote No…All I’ve seen from the No side is that stupid video that actually had nothing to do with same sex marriage and more to do with safe schools…Which are two completely different subjects. I have had a tonne of  vote no pamphlets in my letterbox. Let alone the disgusting hate speech through by the very far right Christians who are wandering up and down malls telling them that they are going to hell.

Gay people are attacked every day…Not once in a while…EVERY SINGLE DAY…They are literally dying by the hands of others, because of bullying and for fear of being outed.

So no, I don’t feel sorry for those who feel attacked on Facebook because people don’t agree with them. This is what gay people deal with every single day…Get over yourself, if you want to live in a country where gay people can’t get married. Go live in North Korea, or Russia. Since you seem think it’s okay to continually discriminate while crying “victim” because someone doesn’t agree with you.

Fair Go!

This or That? #32

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Some of you may not like this question…………sorry (not really). Today you must choose between….

Never reading your favorite book again 

OR

Burning the last three books that you read

This is a horrible question =P lol…Mainly because the last three books I read were all Jodi Picoult books. At the same time though it’s an easy decision because at least those three Jodi Picoult books were not my favourite of hers…Luckily!

How hard is it being a wife and mom?

I love Jada Pinkett Smith, I think she is such a powerful and unique individual and I have a lot of “mummy friends” and one of them posted them this video. Although I do not have children myself this is how I imagined being a mother would be like. The challenges, constantly trying to find the balance but also the rewards that come with being a mother.

Share Your World…Week 49

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What would be your ideal birthday present, and why?

I think it would honestly be that makes everyone that I care about have some fun and just have a good time. What that actually is, I’m not sure.

What color would you like your bedroom to be?

I have actually really been thinking about this sort of thing lately, if I had my dream house type thing. I am really into Celtic and fantasy type things at the moment. I’ve started doing some personal fantasy writing and the music I listen to, to inspire me is Celtic and Celtic type music. It would be fantastic if I could have some sort of office (maybe a Bedroom) where it was inspired by the Celtic theme. A lot of Celtic themes come from Ireland and Irish history, so I guess I would need it to be some kind of nice green colour.

Would you prefer snowy winters, or not, and why? 

I have never actually seen real snow before! I would love to see it, but I really hate the cold, so I’m not sure how long I would actually even last,lol.

Would you rather go a week without bathing, but be able to change your clothes, or a week without a change of clothes, but be able to bathe?

Hmm, during Summer being able to do neither of those two options would be preferable (it’s Summer here). If I really had to choose though, I would have to go with a week without bathing, but able to change clothes. It’s funny really because of my damaged leg thats what I’ve had to do over the last month or so. It was hurting my leg to much to move about so I had to limit what I could do. My poor boyfriend with my hairy legs though!lol

Share Your World…Week 40

Share Your World

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Wow! I completely cannot believe that we are up to Week 40! Only twelve weeks to go now!

If you have been to a foreign country name those you have been too?

I have been to a few (and hope to return to each of them very soon!)…I have been to America and the United Kingdom (England). They are both great countries for both very different reasons. I actually travelled from America to England and since I was staying in Arizona, to go from that to the green of England…Was an amazing difference!

Is the glass half empty or half full? What type of glass is it and what is in the glass?

I really liked this question, I am probably a “half full” type of person. However, I think sometimes I’ll be a half full person with either tea, vodka or juice…Depends on the situation and the person that I’m with!

If you could have an endless supply of any food, what would you get?

Oh my goodness, I would have to choose between seafood and lasagne…Or can I put them together?!

List:  List at least five places worth shopping.

  1. My favourite of all time now is “BooHoo” online (this one if from Australia, but they deliver worldwide)
  2. I used to really love this place “Ice Design“, but I’ve gone off them a little…Every time I go in there, the sizes change.
  3. I LOVE this shop “Typo” it full of great office and bedroom/living area knick knack type stuff.
  4. Just the classic of all time “Ebay
  5. There are also a lot of places that I think are worth shopping but some may be too expensive for me to constantly buy from.

Nothing there…

“You can’t love empty, because there’s nothing there to love. Nothing there for your love to stick to. Nothing there to love you back. Arms holding you and lips kissing you mean nothing if the heart isn’t attached.” Mandy Hale – The Single Woman Blog

Mandy Hale – Day 19 Life not movie

I read other blogs that are not WordPress (shock and horror I know) one that I used to read all the time was Mandy Hale’s “The Single Woman”. I had recently stopped reading after the author become a little “upset” (if you will) when people thought she was silly for getting her hopes up for the ex that she is speaking about in this blog and she’s never been in love with this man, “poked” her on Facebook.

I am still subscribed via email and I received an updated Blog and I could relate to this post just SO much! Just that statement describes so much of what has happened in my past relationships and how I need it to stop! I think that every single one of us has had this relationship at some point (if not more than once).

Check more of Mandy out! Especially for those who are single, this blog is brilliant!

 

 

Never send in a boy to do a mans job…

This week has been pretty up and down for me. I was doing really well, had a amazing birthday party, had a amazing birthday. Then for some reason the rest of the week it’s been coming down and I have been at a complete lost as to what to do or who to talk too. I tried talking to some friends about it, but then one of them hijacked the conversation to talk about themselves…again. I do not open up very easily and when they did it, it shut me down again.

So as you can probably guess by the title…I have guy issues and I have no idea how I keep ending up in them! I have taken myself off of Facebook for a while to figure myself out and figure out how to take my next step. Now I am taking time to ask my male friends what I should look for in a guy who really likes me versus a guy that just wants one thing and doesn’t actually care. Every time I meet these guys, the first time it is so much fun and I don’t necessarily want to date them, but it is nice to have someone to have fun…and then it always just goes downhill from there and yet their friends always adore me! So I always end up stuck between needing to be civil to stay friends with the other friends and wanting to kick them in male special region!

It’ll be kind of like an emotional holiday.

Sometimes I wish these guys would just hug me and say there is nothing wrong with you. When I ask them why they are doing what they are doing, they either say absolutely nothing or “I don’t know how to respond”. I feel like it’s the most frustrating thing ever! I want answers as to what I may be doing wrong, but am getting nowhere. As a lot of my friends have pointed out to me though a “Man” would never want a girl who does nothing else but taking selfies and talks about being drunk, getting drunk or thinking somehow being sober is some major achievement. I don’t blame men…I just seem to have a terrible time picking out good ones. It is me.

I want to be in love again, I don’t want to live in fear any-more ❤ Thank you for listening!

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