Happy Mothers Day! I’m not sure if that it’s Mothers Day all over the world, but here in the land Down Under we are celebrating Mothers’ Day today.
So I say Happy Mother’s Day to all of the Mothers out there! All the Mums in whatever shape or form that they come in, I hope that you all have a great day! Whether you are a mother by birth, adoptive mothers, step mums, grandma’s, Aunties and all the mums out there (Fur-baby mama’s included). This includes the Mum’s that may not be with us any-more and are watching over us.
Some of us are lucky enough to have a great relationship with our Mothers, when I was younger I had one of those stormy relationships with my Mum. As the years have gone by though I am very happy to say that we have become closer and can honestly say that we are now really good friends as well as being Mother and daughter (I think that she would find the below video really funny too!)
Last weekend was a particularly bad weekend, I was abused all weekend about how I didn’t “respect” them, which is a joke since pretty much so far 3/4 quarters of my life he never wanted anything to do with me. When I was a kid he would disappear for weeks, drunk. When I was a teenager he would abandon us to try and hurt my mother (because hurting my mothers children was such a turn on =/)…Drunk…Now in my adult years he “demands” that he is personally invited to everything, and then pulls out every time and a few days later, we all get threatening messages,
Yet, he’s done nothing wrong to us, he doesn’t deserve to be treated that way…Who in HELL is this guy kidding?!!!
Who is this person? My “father”.
The reason I am now writing posts like these. I am tired of being threatened and abused. Does my father have a clue how lucky he is that my siblings and I even bother still talking to him as already is? I am tired of being ashamed like I’ve done something wrong, he should be the one to be ashamed! Not US!
This is it though, all my life I’ve been ashamed when people have told me that I deserve to get hit and have partners stand by and do and say nothing when there friends attack me over nothing. I mean literally nothing, I asked them what I had done to them…No response. Why do I always end up being the one that feels ashamed? These guys are a joke!
Yeah, that’s gonna stop…I’m not having another 30 years of this.