Absolutely Positutely!

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Describe one positive change you have made in your life.

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Actually standing up for myself.

Nearly 40 years into it, and I had to say no to my family for the first time and they did not like it one bit.

On the plus side, I do feel better. I’ve also started great communication with my Dad. He’s going to give me money for my wedding.

I can’t say that I was entirely shocked by my families reaction. I still was, but I also was not, haha.

That’s been the most fantastic thing of the whole incident, I know what’s okay for me and what is not. It’s also really had to make me stand on my own two feet. Its sad what’s happened, but I actually feel really good about a lot of things.

I also had no idea how far being in comments I am! Sorry about that!

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Simply so

I don’t want to write a lot about what happened in Melbourne over the weekend, but good things are coming out of it.

Essentially what nobody really wanted to happen, happened. That is KJK “Posie Parker” was let into Australia, despite the protests. However, that still went well. The Tran Rights protestors always outnumbered her lot…Then there was Melbourne. Nothing went horribly wrong. However, for some reason the Victorian/Melbournian Police decided to harm the trans rights activists, with their bodies and their horses. All to protect the Neo Nazis who walked, untouched, outside Parliament House.

The only good news was that the Victorian Government are now looking at making that particular salute illegal. Politicians who attended and said nothing about the Neo Nazism, were sacked, or in some cases pretended like the NN were on the TRAs side. Which is what should happen really. Especially since there were videos.

What also happened though, was Rowling liked a post that was full of just lies, really.

What this post is really about though. The simplicity of everything that happened afterwards. Which is what should be happening.

KJK should never have been let into the country into the first place.

But then things like this happened…

Breaking: upper house Liberal MP Moira Deeming who attended anti-transgender event at state parliament has been expelled this evening #springst

— Annika Smethurst (@annikasmethurst) March 19, 2023

And this

Victoria to ban Nazi salute after ‘disgusting’ scenes at anti-trans protest – The Guardian ;

Adeshola Ore Mon 20 Mar 2023 10.54 AEDT

For me, this is what should be happening EVERYWHERE. Australia was one of the Allies in WW2 and to see Australians, and the rest of the ally countries sit back and not do anything about this problem. It’s quiet confusing, honestly. For me. Victoria was also one of the first states in Australia to just ban the Nazi Symbols.

How can we face the soldiers on days like ANZAC Day, while people are just freely doing the Nazi Salute?

I know a lot of people will probably disagree with me, but every allied country should just ban Nazism. Why is it even allowed? What is the point of it? All it does it stir up negativity. I always feel like if there’s nothing positive to bring to a discussion or something is plain negative, ban it. I know people aren’t fan of the banning’s, but sometimes people don’t know what’s best for them. Banning Nazism is not the same as what DeSatan is doing.

Whoops, I meant DeSantis.

Changes

This week I began new days at work, you can see a little about what I mean on my Twitch channel.

Lady Lolsy

We had our contracts changed recently and I was allowed to change my days and I did. Which of course that has also meant that my twitch schedule has changed. It was totally weird yesterday, it kept feeling like it was the first day when it usually wasn’t.

Even though I don’t work on Fridays anymore. This Friday, my first Friday off. My partners family are coming over from interstate and they are staying with us, for FOUR DAYS!!! This will be a huge change for the both of us. We are both, by nature, hermits. So this is going to be a BIG thing. But I think we can do it, and it’ll be good for us =D

Thursday Theories – Lifestyle

That’s it! Change of lifestyle impending.

I hit my head, and then three nights later I threw up a few times. Do I think the two things are related? No, does my hypochondria … absolutely freaking! Anyway, it’s given me a big wake up call. Especially when I had to ring in sick for work and I started to cry. Because, I really enjoy where I work and I really adore the people I work.

I just have to accept the fact that I cannot eat the same way I did, I cant wait till 8:30pm and stuff my face with bad food.

I have to get more physically active. I have to just generally get out more. Before COVID I used to have no problem with going out, just window shopping and then have some lunch. Talk a walk to the Library and get a couple of books, now I either I don’t have the time or I don’t feel like it.

Where does one even start, I feel like sometimes, “fake it until you make it”. I just don’t feel like this that time, I am one of those, I need to do it all. Give it all! My mum said though, don’t go the complete opposite way. Don’t go from stuffing my face, to you know, eating like once a day.

So! When one changes lifestyle, you have to look at everything:

Eating habits,

Sleeping habits,

Drinking habits,

Mental and physical habits:

The Changes are coming…

So with the new job, clearly things will be changing…

Not so much blogging. I usually have a blog twice a day, although in that first week of work *which I believe starts next week* I might not have a 100% usual blogging record. Keeping in mind as well, that I study part time (which reminds me that I really need to start with the new term).

It’s more to do with my streaming and my website.

Website – Lolsys Library

This will definitely be changing as at the moment, I don’t really have the time or the energy or start up anything online. I am going to take out the Reiki Healing, page. However. I am still keeping it up. As it’s all got my social media platforms and “social” activities in one place. It’s got all the places you can “follow me”. So my Twitch, YouTube etc.

Twitch TV – Lady Lolsy

Although, I’m sad to have to do it, I am going to have to change the schedule for Wednesday and Thursday. I do sometimes do a stream on a Friday, but I think that’s going to be just cancelled. Or at least every second Friday, but my time.

I also am still having issues with WordPress, breaking picture links and just not loading…Anyone else?

Ch-Ch-Changes

This post kind of follows on from the post I wrote yesterday. My brain gets literally confused with certain people though. The people I wrote about yesterday, how they’re don’t think YouTube or Twitter should change at all. How they are so dead set against these platforms being safer and just better mentally for people.

They are probably the same people who say things like “reverse” racism for white people, or the people that pick and choose sentences from the 2A rather than the whole thing.

Too myself “reverse racism” means that you are not actually racist. Reverse doesn’t mean the same, it means the opposite. I also find it funny though (not really haha funny) that a lot of people who claim reverse racism, are usually white. What I find funny is that these white people don’t see the irony in trying to make a special racism meaning for white people either. You are either racist or your not. There’s no other word, no other meaning.

Change – Nurt Thurs

Nurturing Thursday – Change

“Change is inevitable, but make it something that isn’t to fear”.

(Someone else may have said that, but I thought of it just now,lol)

 

A New Kind of Challenge –

via A New Kind of Challenge

Blog Name Change

This is something I’ve just started to think about and I thought of a different name and was wondering, as my usual readers, what you would think of the name

Lolly’s Library

instead?

The reason I ask is because the name Lolsy is also a nickname, but it was given to me by one of my ex-friends and I’m sorting hating using it. I have a feeling if she found out that I was using it still, it might cause a problem…That’s the kind of person she is…Most people though know me by Lolsy, as well as Lolly! Some of my nieces and nephews call me Aunty Lolly.

Please let me know if changing my name would be alright with you all? It’s not that much of a change, but I don’t want to do it “unawares”.

 

Friendship…Just a perfect friendship?

This was something that I wanted to post forever ago, in the previous year to be exact…But I thought reflecting on my friendships would be better to start off in the New Year.

For me personally, a lot of my friendships have change. Even though I’m 33 now, I finally got to watch my 30th party a couple of weeks ago and it made me realise how much has changed for me friendship wise…How differently I feel from that couple of years ago.

I was thinking and talking about marriage the other day myself and too me bridesmaids are the ones who are supposed to have your back, that’s why they stand behind the Bride. How many friends do you have in your life you can honestly say that you feel you can say this confidently?

I would love to naively say that I would love to have a girlfriend group like Sex and the City. Even though I know it’s a tv show…It seems my little group is nowhere near this. One girl has just basically dumped us for an entirely different group for the last two years. The only time we see her now is when one of the other girls visits us from Interstate. That’s It. This girl that visits us from interstate, a couple of years ago she said that we were growing apart because for some reason she’s the only person I know that’s under the impression that when I’m single I’d rather hear my friends are being abused, then happy. You know what she’s done since then? Nothing. She hasn’t said let’s hang out and chat. She has hang out with our friends partners, more than me. Not only that when we were going through the rough patch, there was another one of our “friends” who started to attack me and all that was said “That’s who she is”…I didn’t feel better.

Now they’re all upset with me because I didn’t tell them I was in the hospital for a night. Well except the one that keeps attacking me of course,lol….And these are supposedly my oldest friends!lol

I want the Romy to my Michele (I am so Michele,lol)

The Fox to my Hound

The Carrie to my Charlotte (I will always be Charlotte too)

The Rose to my Blanche

The Jack to my Karen

The Chandler to my Joey.