I don’t “get” transphobia

I admit it, I don’t get it. Too an extent, I understand and I do not understand, Trump and racism and general bigotry.

I guess I don’t understand transphobia because cis women and trans people tend to go through the same things, at the same time. We have so much in common with each other. Mainly that we are “kicked down” by the patriarchy. So why are these, mainly women, trying to kick both trans and cis people down?

Like Trumps an idiot, whose only in it for himself. Racists, are scared of their own shadows. And yet, transphobia makes no sense, except if maybe you’re a white man who is a bigot, like Trump. I get Trump’s transphobia, it’s Trump. I don’t get these “grown” women who are so hateful towards the trans community. We have walked side by side for many centuries with them. I REALLY don’t get why transphobic women are SO hateful towards trans supportive cis women.

Older religions than Christianity did, Witches do, a lot of matriarchal societies do.

Its something that will continue to bug me. It’s also why I keep saying that women cannot have nice things, we cannot rise against the Patriarchy.

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You ruin everything!

I have ruined myself to begin with. I have left my laptop at my partners. So the couple of next posts are all being done from my phone.

How annoying do you find it when bigotry takes over a beloved culture, belief system.

I am talking about the TERFs, maybe the most stupidest bigots out of all the bigots. They’ve ruined the suffragette and witch movements.

The reason why I call them the stupidest bigots, out of the bigots is because everything they say either a) makes no sense, b) they think changing names really changes what they stand for, while giving trans people a hard time about it and c) for a couple of months they have no problem with bigoted men making a name for them. After that couple of months they ALWAYS get mad at the men.

On top, the far right aren’t even being “shadowy”, there are front and center with the transphobia. Then these same people always act “surprised” when their heroes turn out to be the Right. And that’s it all “well clearly we’re not like them, we’re the left”.

TERFs, went from TERFs to Gender Critical’s (GC’s) to now “sex realist”. I can’t begin to tell you how many times I’ve rolled my eyes.

Even when it’s women speaking out against them. They’ll keep insisting it’s men trying to silence them. Take Nottingham Council Library in the UK. They recently banned a talk by a TERF, which was a good move, since it would have been during Pride. The next day, they started a crowdfund to sue the council. Here’s the thing though: the members who banned the transphobic person are all women. Didn’t matter to the transphobes. Women are on councils these days.

That’s another thing, the TERFs are not fighting for women’s rights amongst Roe v Wade, they’re all blaming trans people! I have yet to see a transphobe actually fight for women for Roe v Wade. They keep saying really stupid things like “At least the Right know what a woman is” or the REAL classic “If we didn’t have to fight trans people, we could have been fighting to keep Roe v Wade”. Oh and that they don’t have to worry in the UK, because abortions are “free”.

Not quiet true…

In other words, you can’t just “rock up” in the UK, to have an abortion. And even then, in some areas, you need to speak with Doctors before you have an abortion, for them to sign off on one.

In Australia, it depends on your state and GP. With South Australia as the most recent to decriminalise abortions, with the changes starting on 7 July. (That’s my state…yay) That 7th of July 2022. So that is really recent.

But this is what I mean by TERFs ruining everything for not just trans people, but women, men and non-binary people too! They don’t even know their OWN countries rules.

They want to “claim” suffragettes and Witches, then they need to do the work. They have done nothing so far, except ignore the majority of cis women’s speech, and raise money to sue everyone (another Right wing thing). Just because the MSM/Murdoch and Right wing media are letting them speak (while ironically saying to us all that they’re being silenced, but you know, they’re nothing like the Right). Doesn’t mean they’re speaking for other women, they just simply are not.

Thursday Theories – What’s in a name

Well, according to some TERFs, that if you change your name, that means you’ve “cut off” the parental link…I am not even kidding..,

If you actually believe this, you need help.

It starts off with “A name is given with love”.

Which might, in some cases, be true. Although reading through some of the comments, it seems that some parents gave their kids their names…cause…

Myself, as an example, I am named after Lauren Bacall. Which is pretty cool. I do feel like Lauren, but if I didn’t, that has nothing to do with my parents.

*You know* after the last couple of days this seems so not important, however, I will continue.

I could call myself…

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It has nothing to do with my parents, and my “connection” to them.

How about yourselves? Do you think changing your name cuts off the connection to your parents? Is there a cool story behind your name?

You might just be in an echo chamber.

One of the reasons I don’t block people straight up (unless they are particularly horrible) is because, unlike Joe Rogan, I am willing to hear “bad things” about myself. Because you know, I might actually learn something. Of course getting the clown emoji has happened to myself so many times, I always ask why now. Personally, I don’t think they actually know why, they just react.

But, what’s makes me different to someone like Joe Rogan and Tucker Carlson, who don’t listen to criticism about themselves. You don’t learn, and you compound it by only surrounding yourself with people who only agree with you. Well there’s no hope for you.

That’s what an echo chamber is. You surround yourself with only people who tell you how are fantastic you are and never question you.

This is what happens on Facebook and Twitter a lot.

Like take for example the trans community. Pretty much every “first world country” cept the UK Government, and Texas. The majority of woman support trans women. It’s hard to see that with Johnson, or the BBC etc. But every single time something important comes out, women support them. It’s the men who don’t. So when I see a bigot say that FEMALE Prime Minister’s are pandering to men, ask them “How is she pandering to men, when men don’t support trans people”?

I don’t know about you all, I find that not agreeing with men, isn’t very “pandering” to them, lol.

*cries* Why are bigots so stupid?

Like seriously?lol

I was literally having a conversation with someone who REALLY believes that trans people are more of a danger to same sex people, than Catholicism…

Anti-vaxers complaining that they have no Freedoms, while shutting down a Lifeline Book Fair in Canberra. Lifeline is a non-profit organisation that provides free, 24-hour telephone crisis support service in Australia. Volunteer crisis supporters provide suicide prevention services, mental health support and emotional assistance, not only via telephone but face-to-face and online.

They did this on Saturday, our politicians (except for those in charge) aren’t in on the weekends. All they did was make people go back to their home, because they felt unsafe and lose businesses money. I don’t honestly “get” what these people are trying to do. It’s like they WANT businesses to lose money. Yet, they complain about how vaccine mandates will lose businesses money. Canberra, by the way, is the most highly vaccinated State/Territory in Australia.

ACT becomes first Australian state or territory to fully vaccinate 90 per cent of population aged 12 and over against COVID-19

So, they went to the most highly vaccinated State in Australia, to stop mandates, that don’t exist.

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And what is WITH these people and they’re all “We have the Science” when they don’t and they don’t even understand what they’re talking about? I had someone try to insult me, who has in the bio “Science is the solution” Say about me “Oh Lolsys a typical lefty, thinks all species should be mixed together in a big mixing bowl” I explained to them (one) calling me a lefty, isn’t an insult. When the other option is to be like them, scared of complete strangers, over the hill bigot, yelling about their freedoms, while taking away completely strangers freedom, with no sense of irony, like themselves. (Two) humans can and do mix with other species. It even has a name. Xenotransplantation, but he knows about that, because he “likes” Science.

I had a good giggle at that one.

Respect

I am just going to start off this post with saying I lost a LOT of respect for a LOT of people over Harry and Meghan Markle. I generally don’t make comments I don’t know a lot about. Except in cases of bigotry, cause quiet frankly any bigots obsession’s with any bigotry tells me all I NEED to know about them.

Like, without a doubt in my mind, we can all say that Trump and Rowling have a narcissism issue. I actually called her a raging sociopathic narcissist the other day, after I listed everything she’s done, or rather NOT done, for women, to a transphobic person, lol. I actually got really depressed writing that list, she really is a terrible person, whose been able to hide behind her writing. I’m going to write about it, but then that should be my last Rowling specific post, unless she apologise’s.

What has annoyed me a lot about the whole H&M situation though, is those same people, have not said a word about Andrew. You know, the sex trafficking “Prince” who can’t sweat. Some of these same people don’t even know that he lost all his titles, and not willingly, unlike Harry.

How can these people not see how they are the problem?

It’s Pride Month in the UK. And currently more and more people are dropping out of the Tory’s UK Government “It’s safe to be me” conference. Especially AFTER the EHRC ( and after months of wasting time with banning conversion therapy) Will ban it, but only if trans people are still forced to participate in conversion therapy. But you know it’s totally safe to be you in the UK.

You can have a say here (until the 4th of Feb).

HOW CAN I SHARE MY THOUGHTS?

Under the current Tory Government, so far this has happened.

  • The current Tory party, like that actual party.
  • The UK now being described that same AS unfriendly LGBTQIA places: such as Hungary, North Korea and the Ukraine.
  • Most Tories voted AGAINST (including previous EHRC “chair” Lis Truss) feeding the children of the UK. After the Tories COVID stuff ups.
  • Brexit…Just like the whole of Brexit (which Liz Truss is now part of that disaster).

One of the things that I am very thankful for in Australia, we’ve had our states leaders really taking care of each of their own states. Although our state leader has now made a huge stuff up, because he listened to his Federal Leader, instead of being proud of the hard work that South Australians have put in. Generally Australia did well, because we DIDN’T listen to our current Federal Leader, Scummo.

I honestly don’t know how he even got in, in the first place. He’s a sales man, not a leader of a Country. I don’t know how so many Australians voted him in. Personally, I blame QLD, lol.

#BanConversionTherapy

White “Allyship”

I am SICK of my race, and I am sick of my skin colour. White people just SUCK. We are the worst group of people to EVERYONE. Even when we call ourselves “allies” so few of us are actually allies to others.

The amount of names, the amount of times I have had rape AND death threats given to me BY transphobes and mostly FEMALE. Just to see these bigots have their words spread, not questioned, not called out on it. Just to have my “insults” deleted. Oh no the poor white female transphobe, how will she feel about my insults? Her poor little feelings, oh the poor baby. Gotta protect the transphobes people.

That’s not being ally. I have been involved with trans rights now, for nearly two years. Believe me when I say, when trans people see that you do NOTHING about bigotry on YOUR page. They will NOT consider you to be an ally, in fact, they are more likely to think you’re transphobic yourself. That is the truth. And stop talking about them, like you care, because you don’t.

Transphobes literally don’t want trans people to EXIST. So if you think for a second that I give a FUCK about their feelings, or indeed any “person” who allows transphobia to flourish and spread on their page. I don’t give a FUCK about your feelings. You are NO different to me, then the people who don’t care about spreading COVID.

And bloody hell, NO ONE want’s an “ally”, that will SIT ON THEIR HANDS and allow bigotry to flourish. You stamp that shit out. Can you imagine doing that to a POC? Just sit there and say nothing while some bigot spreads lies and misinformation about POC? No course you wouldn’t, so why is it okay to do NOTHING for trans people? Either you don’t actually care (in which case, stop talking about them) or you are transphobic. It’s that simple.

Don’t EVER EVER EVER call yourself an ally, if you’re not willingly to actually fight for that group. And stop sucking so god damn much white people!

Lucky

Have any of you ever been grateful that you unfollowed someone’s blog? I am.

Sometimes I see some people that I used to follow, and think, how happy I am that they showed who they are. Especially, when they take a post of mine, don’t tag me in it and use my post to be a bigot.

Never Ever do that, by the way.

If you want to use my post to expose your bigotry’s, at LEAST have the decency to tag me in it. I am still shocked by the blogger who did that by the way. At first I thought they were supporting trans people … Nope … By the way, if you want to use my post to support trans people, go for it. You don’t have to tag me, IF you support trans people. You do, if you want to be a bigot towards anyone.

Honestly, even some bloggers are really stupid.

I don’t know how after all this time, people are STILL being stupid when it comes to COVID either.

Clearly people still don’t understand how viruses work.

Since the vaccine has come along, the COVID deaths and contracting it, have LOWERED.

Viruses have different variants.

Even if you do survive having COVID, we are still seeing long term effect from people who “survive” COVID.

WHY, for the love of GOD, are people STILL being stupid about it?

In all honesty, every single time I see someone say something like “COVID, is not that fatal” or “children rarely die from COVID”…I want to smack them in the face. Yes, children rarely die from COVID…But there’s that word, RARELY…ONE death of a child, from a virus, we are trying to control, SHOULD, be enough for ANYONE to say “What can I do”.

My great grandmother, got polio and survived. She lost half a leg, and her pelvis became twisted, but she survived and she did live a good life. She still got all the shots, she got her children and grand children, all the shots. I’m sure she would have made us get all the shots too.

THAT’S WHAT CARING PEOPLE DO!

I am a Unicorn Child…

So a TERF yesterday tried to insult us all, by calling us Unicorn Children. Now, if you’ve been reading my blog for a while now, you will know that I’m not usually too bothered by “insults” Especially when they’re repetitive insults, and not really that affective, or even close to the truth.

Like Unicorn Child…

Who would you rather be? A hateful, bitter “old” bigot, or a Unicorn child? It’s not even a competition really, haha.

I’m scared of kids, but the biggest reason. They see the world as it is, they see you as is. Kids are like horses, they know I’m scared of them, but respect them too. Kids and animals just GET this world, and we lose that as we get older. We really do. Then I think for some, it does change when your children have their children.


Little Mix

Take a big yawn…

I am SO tired of having to repeat points to stupid people…Anyone else?

Good Law Project – Help protect children, families and teachers (it’s from the UK, but anyone can sign it)

There was a UK minister repeatedly saying that schools have like a CO2 cleaner (or something) so they can go back to school, they do not. Not matter how many times everyone else keeps telling them UK schools do not. I don’t know of any schools that do actually.

Constantly being told that we ignore trans predators who harm female predators in jail. We do not. How can we, when transphobes constantly remind us? We just don’t judge a group of people on the worst few. Otherwise, we would judge females based on the females predators that these trans predators are in jail with.

Anti-vaxxers calling “pro-“vaxxers un-Australian and that we should join the “brave” who refuse to get a vaccine. There’s nothing ‘brave’, by the way, by doing the least you can do to help others, when you can do the least you can do to help others.

  • There is proof/evidence of trans gender History, even before Christianity
  • Children CAN get COVID, but they are also carriers of COVID.
  • No one knows a child/teenager better than that child. No matter what you believe, Abigail Shier.
  • Talking about Abigail Shier. She is evidence of why there are Laws and Rule protecting children from adults, like Abigail Shrier,lol
  • No, knowing that teenagers understanding their gender and diversities better than their parents is not grooming or pedophilia.

Good Law Project – Help protect children, families, and teachers