I’m in therapy…

And have no shame about it, haha.

Seriously, if I didn’t have anxiety issues I would still go and see a therapist. It’s honestly great just to sit there and talk to someone with no real fear of judgement or repercussions, lol. I would highly recommend anyone use one. Even if you don’t suffer from anxiety or the like of.

This is where I “grind my gears”.

There are far too many people out there who call Conversion Therapy, “talking therapy”. Now if Conversion Therapy was actually just “talking therapy”, it’d just be called Therapy. But it’s not, because that’s not what Conversion therapy is about. It’d be like saying that Conversion Therapy is the same as Physical therapy, putting the word Therapy in there, doesn’t make it the same.

#TDOV

March the 31st is Tran Days of Visibility!

During this week, on my Twitch Stream Channel. When I’ve been offline I’ve been hosting trans gender/sexual Twitch streamers that I follow.

https://tdov.org.au/

https://www.redbubble.com/people/Goshzilla/shop?ref=artist_title_name

Just be kind ya know? Like the entire LGBTQIA umbrella have fought their lives and for their rights. It’s tiring, just be kind. It’s really NOT that hard.

CiswiththeT

Yesterday was actually a pretty lovely day, in terms of cis people FINALLY coming to the defense of trans youth.

Like, really big names did, and I would like to share them with you =D

The first is my very favourite

Wonder Fraking Woman! AKA Lynda Carter

Jamie Lee Curtis…Did she you know she has a child that is trans gender? I did not know that.

The Great Feminist!

How to love

You know what I get really quick so seeing, really quickly, like a blink of my eye. Those who talk about justice, those who talk about love, respect, dignity…But then, there’s that ONE post. That automatically cancels out the rest of them.

Now I am not saying that you HAVE to love the right wing Christian Conservatives. Be as rude as you like to them, after all, if they don’t care for others lives, why would you be polite to them? But make sure you are doing it from a good place. Like every time I’m rude to a transphobe, it’s actually not that rude. Except for a fuck here or there. It’s just the truth. Now SOME people think that it’s being rude calling a bigot, a bigot. Or a snob, a snob.

For myself personally, I think, that if you can write about how everyone has “Freedom of Expression” then not delete the comments of the transphobe, which is having ACTUAL real life consequences, but delete my comments. Aren’t my “rude” comments, just another Freedom of Expression? How DARE you delete my comments, while writing and blabbering on about “Freedom of Expression”. I bet the transphobic comments are still up there too.

And quiet honestly, every time I tell a transphobic “person” or any bigot exactly how I feel about them. I am happy, and I can be happy in the knowledge that not all women are blind sheep, just ready to like “anything”. That some women out there still have strength, and the back bone to kick ASS! And to bring down the actual patriarchy, not being another female patriarchy protector. Like all the wonderful feminists out there, right now! I get mad at the bigots, because their actions and words are having REAL LIFE CONSEQUENCES. But I always feel better telling exactly how I feel about them and not running away from them, calling them out.

You can’t have Equality with just U…Hahahahaha. It’s a a Equaliweeee…Not equalimeee …. I could come up with so many of these, lol

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What do you do?

You know what “grinds my gears”? When people allow bigotry on their page, and like with COVID. Say people should be allowed to have Freedoms to express their opinions, without me “insulting them”. So basically allow people in any circumstance, to spread misinformation about people or a group of people, but I’m not allowed to rightly call them out on it?

The last couple of years, I have been constantly shocked with people that I once respected, just come out with these horrible decisions and words. Recently I liked a comment about (roughly) how COVID has really brought out how important quality relationships are. It’s so true!

Be an ally or don’t. The choice is YOURS.

THIS IS THE PROBLEM WITH THE WORLD TODAY! I am SO TIRED OF SEEING BIGOTS GET AWAY WITH THEIR SHIT OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN…If you have the power to stop that shit…STOP IT!

Why transphobia?

It’s simple, just like all bigotries and all hate. It’s just allowed and people don’t care enough. It’s not really complicated, lol

As examples, the BBC has become extremely anti-trans, as well we as the Tory Government, the Charity Commission and OFM. Just recently the Times in the UK had to do two retractions where they accused trans women of raping more people than cis males. As well as a report about how “women can’t be charged with rape in the UK”, when they can. Twitter does literally nothing, as well as Facebook. And I’ve seen people on here with large, loud and powerful platforms simply look over it.

The US Republicans have literally used Rowlings own words to create anti-trans Laws. But you know, Rowling is having no impact. In fact, the current UK Tory Government keeps increasing the “discussion” time to ban conversion therapy. MOST people want it banned outright, but they’re waiting for an excuse to make sure they can have a loop hole with trans people.

The majority of women support trans women, but you wouldn’t know that when you listen to media, and watch people with the power to stop, not stopping it.

And if I see you NOT being an Ally. I’m coming for you, and your little dog too, and I am going to keep your dog, haha

Now I am not big into the big conspiracy theories. There have been rumours that a lot of the leads of transphobe’s are racists too. All this current transphobia, happened around the time that BLM and of George Floyds death, and then I remembered yeah. There were a lot of BLM marches, in the UK especially, where a lot of transphobes were confronting black cis woman and the white women were trying to shout them down about trans people.

Gender critical’ activists with ‘I heart JK Rowling’ banner mock Black Lives Matter protesters in ugly confrontation

‘Gender critical’ activists brand Black Lives Matter supporters ‘misogynists’ and tell them to ‘f**k off’.

I am not even going to get into Rowling’s anti-semantic and her own lazy racism, it’s all there for everyone to see. So again, it’s not ever just ONE bigotry. There was always something else there. A lot of TERF’s, as an example, hate sex workers and surrogacy. One, they don’t want to make it safer for the world’s oldest profession, they just keep having a go at the WOMEN who are sex workers, instead of the people around them. Two, even though, especially in the western world, a lot of women CHOOSE to be surrogates, TERFs hate it.

I’m not giving in to the conspiracy, it just that you cannot be a bigot without being a bigot somewhere else as well. Although transphobic people will SAY that they’re against Johnson, Trump, right wingers Christian fundaments. Show me a transphobe and I WILL show you someone who wants to control other’s bodies. It’s just what they do.

White “Allyship”

I am SICK of my race, and I am sick of my skin colour. White people just SUCK. We are the worst group of people to EVERYONE. Even when we call ourselves “allies” so few of us are actually allies to others.

The amount of names, the amount of times I have had rape AND death threats given to me BY transphobes and mostly FEMALE. Just to see these bigots have their words spread, not questioned, not called out on it. Just to have my “insults” deleted. Oh no the poor white female transphobe, how will she feel about my insults? Her poor little feelings, oh the poor baby. Gotta protect the transphobes people.

That’s not being ally. I have been involved with trans rights now, for nearly two years. Believe me when I say, when trans people see that you do NOTHING about bigotry on YOUR page. They will NOT consider you to be an ally, in fact, they are more likely to think you’re transphobic yourself. That is the truth. And stop talking about them, like you care, because you don’t.

Transphobes literally don’t want trans people to EXIST. So if you think for a second that I give a FUCK about their feelings, or indeed any “person” who allows transphobia to flourish and spread on their page. I don’t give a FUCK about your feelings. You are NO different to me, then the people who don’t care about spreading COVID.

And bloody hell, NO ONE want’s an “ally”, that will SIT ON THEIR HANDS and allow bigotry to flourish. You stamp that shit out. Can you imagine doing that to a POC? Just sit there and say nothing while some bigot spreads lies and misinformation about POC? No course you wouldn’t, so why is it okay to do NOTHING for trans people? Either you don’t actually care (in which case, stop talking about them) or you are transphobic. It’s that simple.

Don’t EVER EVER EVER call yourself an ally, if you’re not willingly to actually fight for that group. And stop sucking so god damn much white people!

Emmett Till is what happens when a white woman is “offended”

What Rowling is doing, hasn’t got just Trump vibes all over it…It’s got Carolyn Bryant all over her too.

Who is Carolyn Bryant you may ask.

Emmett Louis Till (July 25, 1941 – August 28, 1955) was a 14-year-old African American who was lynched in Mississippi in 1955, after being accused of offending a white woman in her family’s grocery store. The brutality of his murder and the fact that his killers were acquitted drew attention to the long history of violent persecution of African Americans in the United States. Till posthumously became an icon of the civil rights movement

Emmett Till – Wikipedia

Carolyn Bryant was that “offended” white woman

She’s still alive by the way, and Till’s family and other supporters want her arrested.

Rowling went to accuse “TRA’s and the trans community”, she not only accused them of harassing her, but also doxxing her and stalking her.

The issue?

The “house” that Rowling is complaining about. Literally has it’s own Wikipedia page. It’s considered a public landmark, and has a bus stop right outside. It literally has thousands of people go by every single year, just to see it. The “harassers” weren’t trans and had a Trans Remembrance Day little display.

Not only this, but then Rowling went on to tell her little hate group, of where you can find these three people’s social media’s account. She THEN went onto praise a group of women, who have been arrested…For guess what, doxxing … One doxed a gay man so badly that, he left Scotland, altogether.

Emmett Till is what happens when a white woman is “offended”.

#IdonotstandwithJKRowling

I legit scared, for not only the trans community. Also, though, I am scared for the community in general. How many MORE times, do we have to go through this. Did she just missed the news about Kyle Rittenhouse? The Jan6th insurrection?

Cher Lloyd
Cher Lloyd


Intersex Awareness Day

Oh my goodness! Intersex people get forgotten a lot. So they need all the days and time that they can get! Let’s give them our time, they are human too after all.

Once again, I’ll just remind anyone reading this, that I am cis gender straight woman. So if I write something wrong, or get something incorrect, please let me know. I write from a place of privilege and I acknowledge that.

Intersex Flag: The flag was designed by Morgan Carpenter.
The Progress Pride Flag.

Intersex is a general term used for a variety of situations in which a person is born with reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn’t fit the boxes of “female” or “male.” Sometimes doctors do surgeries on intersex babies and children to make their bodies fit binary ideas of “male” or “female”. Doctors always assign intersex babies a legal sex (male or female, in most states), but, just like with non-intersex people, that doesn’t mean that’s the gender identity they’ll grow up to have.

There are currently around 30-40 variations of Intersex.

Now clearly from my upper paragraph. The biggest issue that Intersex people have are Doctors getting the “okay” to do unnecessary surgery on newborns, from the parents. The fact that a lot of intersex infants don’t get to have a choice later on in life. Their body and their choices are taken over by others, before they can even speak, about where THEY think they “fit”.

But activism by and for intersex people is growing, leading to some changes in our culture, which right now treats intersex as a medical problem instead of a natural, healthy way bodies can be. Today, more and more people believe unnecessary surgery and other medical interventions shouldn’t be done on intersex babies and children at all. Instead, intersex people should be able to decide for themselves when they’re older if they want treatment or surgery.

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/gender-identity/sex-gender-identity/whats-intersex

I’m not really sure what to write about, because, again, I am not intersex and so I just don’t feel comfortable writing about “facts” so to speak. What I will write about though is how you can help the Intersex community, and I will also post some links you can find out how you can help yourself.

  1. Research what you can, and listen to Intersex people. Now, like with any group, I have seen close minded Intersex people, who go out of their way to harm the trans community (as a example). With any researching and listen, make sure you listen to more than one person.
  2. Intersex Human Rights Australia
  3. Respect how a Intersex person, determines for themselves, to be who they are.
  4. A low-range statistic for traits evident at birth is around 1 in 2,000 people (.05% of births) but a more likely figure may be closer to 1.7%. Roughly the same amount of people with red hair.
  5. Being Intersex is not a health issue. Intersex people, have a healthy body. The biggest issue is with fertility.
  6. Some Intersex people do and some do not find the term “hermaphrodite” offensive.
  7. Some are LGBT and some are not.
  8. Intersex people are just regular people, as you or I. The only way it is a mental health issue, is from the shame that Intersex people may experience.

What is Intersex? Planned Parenthood (America)

Affirm the: 2017 Darlington Statement (Australia)

Its Intersex Awareness Day – here are 5 myths we need to shatter (Amnesty International)

SOGIESC Unit: Fact sheet on Intersex Person Rights (South Africa)

Scar Jo

Oh dear lordy, Scarlett Johansson has done it again…

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It did make me start though how many times has this happened…I started to compile a last, of just the last few years alone.

Scarlett Johansson – Transgender, Ghost in the Shell – Not transgender, not Asian

Nick Robinson – Love, Simon…Is in fact, not gay. Even though a lot of his co-stars are.

Death Note – With the white American boy…Have to be honest, I didn’t even watch it…It was a mostly white cast though, wasn’t it?

I guess I don’t understand in this day and age, where everything is so finely scrutinised…How these studios are still screwing it up? I have a hard time believing that there isn’t a good enough transgender person, Asian, or gay actor…That could play these roles instead?

Now, I’m not big in the whole Hollywood industry thing…I am pretty sure though that there are enough Asian, Gay, Transgender people in the community. Heck, I am sure that there is a Asian Gay Transgender person!