We HAVE been listening

…and that’s your problem.

Has anyone been noticing recently that a lot of people who “sympathize” with bigotry always say the same thing? “Let’s just hear them out” That is their problem, we HAVE been listening. It’s how we KNOW they are bigots.

I remember Melania Trump saying “Donald has never lied to you once about who he is” and I remember sitting there thinking “Oh, we know” lol. I think it’s the most honest thing to come out of that party, lol

International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women

This was a AMAZING way to wake up this morning.

One way I suggest to end violence, is for everyone ELSE to stop getting into an obsessive mindset that everything has to be “perfection” and it HAS to up to be YOUR standard. #Progress is progress, no matter how small or imperfect it is. Don’t knock something imperfect for you.

I wrote that because, people were still complaining about Scotland, after this. Bad education, in Scotland. Progress is Progress.

No energy today, unwell last night. I’ve been sitting trying to think of what else to write about #IDEVAW When it comes too, its all our personal responsibility. Whether you’re a man or a woman, it’s up to us to call it out. Men & women being violent towards women, it’s up to US.


I am very OVER Johnny Depp stans hating on Amber Heard, and saying stupidity like “Oh, she admitted to being abusive towards Depp, I hate her, it’s her fault he lost his job”. Yeah, she admitted it and then has been trying to fix it. Johnny Depp, has admitted to nothing and keeps suing everyone. Maybe he should have tried what Heard did?

Just because someone doesn’t admit to something, doesn’t mean they didn’t do it.

Ted Bundy didn’t confess until just his execution. Does that mean, beforehand he didn’t do it? Of course not! They actually still think that he did more, than the ones he confessed too.

The Sahmain

Pronounced “sow-win”

Samhain is a pagan religious festival originating from an ancient Celtic spiritual tradition. In modern times, Samhain is usually celebrated from October 31 to November 1 to welcome in the harvest and usher in “the dark half of the year.” Celebrants believe that the barriers between the physical world and the spirit world break down during Samhain, allowing more interaction between humans and denizens (a person, animal, or plant that lives or is found in a particular place) of the Otherworld.

Halloween’s origins date back to the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain (pronounced sow-in). The Celts, who lived 2,000 years ago, mostly in the area that is now Ireland, the United Kingdom and northern France, celebrated their new year on November 1.

How you can embrace the Sahmain.

Set up an altar in your home to honor departed loved ones and ancestors, or, if you already have an altar, place offerings and light a candle there. As done in ancient times, set a place at your table for your spirit friends and relatives, and serve them some of the food and drink you share at your Samhain feast. As mentioned above, the Samhain “celebrates” the dead, and that thin veil between life and death. It’s a time, when the dead can communicate with the living.

Take note of any interesting dreams you may have, or any different feelings you get. Jot them down. Write things down you may want to get rid of, things you want to “anew”. Burn it at the altar, or burn it into a fire safe place.

Real Life “Scares”

This post is going to be about real life scary people. I must warn you all, they wont all be murderers, but I will explain why I think they’re scary.

The Queen of Frights – JKTrolling

With all the SHIT she has put the trans and the LGBTQIA community through, she is now Queen of real life scary people. Mainly because of her plain “I literally DO NOT CARE” about others. I have never liked her, which means I don’t read her books. She is the Queen of Trolls, especially when she advertised a transphobic site. Full of pins that said things like “Sorry about your dick bro”. You have too be literally, deaf, dumb and blind to not see it.

I dub Rowling JKTrolling … Queen of the Frights and of the Trolls

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I dub the American Party of the GOP the Kings (and Queens) of Frights and of the Trolls. For far more than obvious reasons. Although to be honest, Poland is probably for a tie there.


While I’m at it…I dub 2020 the scariest year of this generation. SO GET OUT AND VOTE BLUE! Show ALL those “people” above, we wont take HATRED anymore!

These people and groups above is WHY I find it so hard to celebrate Halloween and Sahmain this year.

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I keep thinking how to introduce the next lot of scary real life. All that keeps going through my head is, the more “fun” real life scares?


Ghosts That Hunt Back TV


Movie Scenes That Terrified Actors In Real Life

Communicating with Cats: It’s All in the Eyes — FACE Foundation Blog

Ask any cat lover what a “slow blink” is, and chances are they’ll know it’s a sure sign that their cat is enjoying their company.  A recent study published in Scientific Reports analyzed this form of human-cat communication and found that both cats and humans appreciate bonding via the slow blink! The authors note that […]

Communicating with Cats: It’s All in the Eyes — FACE Foundation Blog

The Fall of America

I see a lot of people say that surely American can’t fall so quickly, or that how could people who were left, fall so quickly to the right. It’s just not possible, people don’t turn that quickly…Too them I say…


People fall quickly all the time. I watched a television series a few months called End of Empire. The series was about some of the most well-known Conquerors:

Attila the Hun;

Timur (Tamerlane the Great);

Edgar, King of the English and


How their families managed to lose it all, mostly within only a year or two, after their deaths.

Human Beings are not well known for “Staying With It”. The divorce rate is over 50%, and with this year, that rate may increase … So yes, human beings are completely dumb, and moronic, lol.

World Mental Health Day

I don’t usually post on the weekends, but this is too much of a important day to not post something on! As someone who fights mental health, I’ve written a list of what works for myself. I will also write a little about what it’s like having my mental health issues. See, if others can relate. At the end of the day, each of us who have a mental health condition is literally in a fight with themselves.

I’m going to write what works for myself first, because I don’t want to write about what my mental health is like first, in case, it does trigger someone, before I’ve even got to write about what might work.

Writing this list, please note, that I still get anxiety attacks. This can help lessen my wooooooooooooo.

  1. My last drink before bed is always either water or a chamomile tea.
  2. One of the reasons I love my plushies, is because they’re great cuddlers. They’re great when no one else wants to cuddle!
  3. Being aware of how your body reacts to certain foods and drinks. For an example, I can only drink one cup of hot chocolate a day, and I really shouldn’t do that either. It’s so sugary, that the come down after a hour or so makes me go weird.
  4. I wish I had started to Garden earlier! It’s the best! On a good day, you get out there, listen to the birds, and make your garden a bit tired…While getting some exercise too.
  5. Computer games that I can get lost in for hours! One of the big problems with anxiety, is that sometimes you can get stuck. So getting lost in something fun for a while, helps. When I first developed big anxiety, I’d play the Sims for literal hours.
  6. Be honest. If you’re having a bad mental health day, be honest with yourself. You can’t fix what you wont acknowledge.
  7. Music, it has to be up to you with what music you choose to listen too. Personally, I will listen to ye olde celtic music and meditation music, especially when I can’t sleep.

World Health Organization – Global challenge for movement on mental health kicks off

So, now we get into the potentially triggering section of the post.

Ignoring my big one, because I’ve only felt like one other time, but because I knew what was happening. I managed to figure myself out. When I can feel that I’m off, it’s a extremely odd feeling. You know something is wrong with your brain, but yet you can’t do anything about it.

A lot of the time, I just sit there going…well…saying to myself “Stop be silly. There’s nothing to worry about.” Some days that can work all on it’s own, but if I’ve had a bad day, or for some reason my brain just feels “lazy”. I can’t stop it. When everything first happened, I had a hard time showering, so I use to sing one sentence in my head over and over “I shot the sheriff, but I did not shoot the deputy”. I was so frightened of having a anxiety attack, especially being wet and in the nude.

It’s a really annoying feeling, many times my Doctor and Therapist have asked me “What do I want to happen” and I always say to them “I just want to feel normal again”. You are literally fighting your brain to “behave” itself. It’s a really odd feeling.

One thing I have noticed though. When someone else is sick, or needs help, or take a few days ago, when we went looking for our cousins lost dog. Normally I can’t stand being in a car for long. Yet, I managed the other day to be in one for three hours with no problem. I wont mention times like that until I get back to the safety of home though, lol

I think it’s why I fight, not only do I understand the mental stress and strain that people MUST be under, but it’s also a positive distraction for myself. I look, fighting for trans people at the moment. We’ve all gone through so much this year, and the transphobia that Rowling is just throwing about, is just so unnecessary and cruel. How transphobics don’t “get it”…Well…I don’t get it…

Teachable Lesson!

Tattoo costs frenchman kindergarten teacher job

Now, this mans tattoo’s are not to my taste, but I assume at the same time he’s probably more than perfectly fine fellow. I don’t think any actual creeps or predators, would tattoo them like this. Personally, I like tattoos, but would never get one on my body, because I would get bored and want to get rid.

That’s not my reason for this post though. The man was fired, because a student from ANOTHER class was having nightmares about him, and his “scary” tattoos. Not because of the parents and students of his own actual class, but because of another parent and child not in his class.

Now, I don’t know how the French schooling system works, but I would assume that teachers like most modern day schools, would have had to have gone through some sort of screening process, to protect the children.

So there I am reading about it, and just thinking that that parent could have done SO much good! Especially when it comes to teaching children, about not judging books by their covers…kind of thing…