Don’t Blame the Moon

The moon is a HUGE part of Sahmain and Halloween. When the Sunset sets, that’s when ghouls and spirits come out. What a better time though to have a “Once in a Blue Moon” then on the 31st of October this year!

For the first time since World War II, people in all parts of the world will be able to see the Oct. 31 display. If you’re too busy watching horror movies, you’ll have to wait until 2039 for another global full moon.

Learn Religions – What is a Blue Moon

The moon itself is typically associated with women’s mysteries, intuition, and the divine aspects of the sacred feminine. Some modern magical traditions associate the Blue Moon with the growth of knowledge and wisdom within the phases of a woman’s life. Specifically, it is sometimes representative of the elder years, once a woman has passed far beyond the status of early cronehood; some groups refer to this as the Grandmother aspect of the Goddess.

Still other groups see this as a time—because of its rarity—of heightened clarity and connection to the Divine. Workings done during a Blue Moon can sometimes have a magical boost if you’re doing spirit communication, or working on developing your own psychic abilities.

Io Perry – Topic

To really enjoy this Blue Moon, you don’t need to feel like you HAVE to do some deep olde Latin Spell. One of the best things about the blue moon, is that it’s about YOUR divine power and embracing whatever that means to YOU. Whatever makes YOUR spirit feel stronger. That can be a olde Latin Moon Spell, a cleansing spell, a bath with the music up loud. That’s the thing with the Divine…There’s no point faking it! Your Spirit always knows!

However, if you do want to something a bit more special this year. Totally go for it! There are plenty you can do!

Real Life “Scares”

This post is going to be about real life scary people. I must warn you all, they wont all be murderers, but I will explain why I think they’re scary.

The Queen of Frights – JKTrolling

With all the SHIT she has put the trans and the LGBTQIA community through, she is now Queen of real life scary people. Mainly because of her plain “I literally DO NOT CARE” about others. I have never liked her, which means I don’t read her books. She is the Queen of Trolls, especially when she advertised a transphobic site. Full of pins that said things like “Sorry about your dick bro”. You have too be literally, deaf, dumb and blind to not see it.

I dub Rowling JKTrolling … Queen of the Frights and of the Trolls

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I dub the American Party of the GOP the Kings (and Queens) of Frights and of the Trolls. For far more than obvious reasons. Although to be honest, Poland is probably for a tie there.

While I’m at it…I dub 2020 the scariest year of this generation. SO GET OUT AND VOTE BLUE! Show ALL those “people” above, we wont take HATRED anymore!

These people and groups above is WHY I find it so hard to celebrate Halloween and Sahmain this year.

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I keep thinking how to introduce the next lot of scary real life. All that keeps going through my head is, the more “fun” real life scares?


Ghosts That Hunt Back TV


Movie Scenes That Terrified Actors In Real Life

Weekly Wisdom Wednesday #2

My great grand father has this on his grave head stone…My great grand father was also the one who was the reason, I was the only Year 12 to understand Shakespeare =D I truly believe that being true to yourself, is one of the hardest and most rewarding things you can do. I believe the greatest thing you’ll ever learn is how to love yourself.

Communicating with Cats: It’s All in the Eyes — FACE Foundation Blog

Ask any cat lover what a “slow blink” is, and chances are they’ll know it’s a sure sign that their cat is enjoying their company.  A recent study published in Scientific Reports analyzed this form of human-cat communication and found that both cats and humans appreciate bonding via the slow blink! The authors note that […]

Communicating with Cats: It’s All in the Eyes — FACE Foundation Blog

Read the Dictionary, eat and be merry!

So, World Food Day and Dictionary Day just happen to fall on the same day. Dictionary Day is held in honor of Noah Webster, the man who is considered to have fathered the American Dictionary, 1758

What I’ve decided to do, is rather silly…However, I feel like we need a little silliness. I am going to name a food after EVERY letter in the Dictionary…or alphabet.

A – Avocado

B – Banana

C – Cheese

D – Doughnuts

E – Eggs

F – Fish

G – Grape

H – Horse Radish

I – Ice-Cream

J – Jelly and/or Jam (depending where you live)

K – Kiwi Fruit


M – Mango

N – Nacho

O – Orange

P – Pasta

Q – Quiche

R – Roast

S – Salad

T – Taco

U – Udon ( a type of noodle)

V – Vegetables

W – Waffle

X – Xanthan Gum

Y – Yam

Z – Zucchini

Weekly Wisdom Wednesday

I have decided that every Wednesday I am going to post a sane, thoughtful and actually kind post. They will come from anyway. What I’m hoping to achieve with it. Is to give some kind of sanity to this world, that it is SORELY lacking. The first is going to be from my own mother. However, I’m going to rephrase it to a current topic.

My mum always says “How do you know someone’s staring at you, unless you’re staring at them”

I have been using this a lot lately with the transphobic crowd, as they been obsessing over other people’s bodies in the change room. I keep asking them how do you know what someone else’s body looks like, and why are you encouraging your children to stare? It’s a bit of a weird thing for them to complain about, even the times, I have gone into changing rooms. There has always been a couple of showers, changing areas, plenty of space to change privately … Even so, I have never once stared at someone else’s body in a change room, to make any judgements.

*Possibly getting the NBN today…POSSIBLY,lol…They tried to put in a couple of weeks ago, and something was wrong. So I wont be online much today. I don’t really know what’s going to happen.*

It’s okay

There has been a huge debate on whether or not it’s okay to read books, or listen to music, from someone who is clearly bigoted, or being used by bigots.

This is literally my simplification of a certain authors comments recently, that have just lit another hate spark.

I say it okay to continue to read the books, watching the films, play the games. As long AS you continue to be public about your support for the trans community too. Stephen King is a really good example of this. Not only do Mumsnet know question whether or not they can read his books anymore. Because although he hasn’t said anything bad about Rowling, he still stand with trans people.

Now, personally, I would not recommend Rowlings book. I don’t care how well written it is, there are plenty of other books about the trans community, written by not only trans people, but good books about the trans community.

However, I have no problem with Harry Potter itself. Here’s where I’m coming from.

I’m saying this as someone who hasn’t read the books, but has seen the movies.

One, Rowling has not been cancelled by any stretch of the imagination, so I don’t actually “get” that. Two, from what I’ve seen about HP, every time a popular fan theory comes up, Rowling jumps and says “Yep, that’s totally what happened” Even when it’s not mentioned in the books or in the movies. She doesn’t just let people have their theories and imagine things. Thirdly, Harry Potter is the good example, of how Rowling jumps on and off bandwagons all the time.

  • Quidditch is a mixed sex/gender sport, and it looks pretty brutal.
  • Houses are not sorted by sex or gender, it’s all about personality. Despite MANY, MANY TERFS who keep insisting people would get upset if they were sorted into the “wrong sex/gender”. Sorting Hat, nothing to do with sex…at all..
  • Harry and Ron wander into a girls bathroom, they didn’t get a teacher, they went there themselves. No one says anything about that. Even though TERFS claim that all boys are men are nothing but raping, violent, migsnotic bastards.

So I came to the conclusion, that many, MANY…I stand with JKRowling people…Haven’t actually READ the HP books,lol…Yet, all the people who Rowling hurt…Have.

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The Fall of America

I see a lot of people say that surely American can’t fall so quickly, or that how could people who were left, fall so quickly to the right. It’s just not possible, people don’t turn that quickly…Too them I say…


People fall quickly all the time. I watched a television series a few months called End of Empire. The series was about some of the most well-known Conquerors:

Attila the Hun;

Timur (Tamerlane the Great);

Edgar, King of the English and


How their families managed to lose it all, mostly within only a year or two, after their deaths.

Human Beings are not well known for “Staying With It”. The divorce rate is over 50%, and with this year, that rate may increase … So yes, human beings are completely dumb, and moronic, lol.

World Mental Health Day

I don’t usually post on the weekends, but this is too much of a important day to not post something on! As someone who fights mental health, I’ve written a list of what works for myself. I will also write a little about what it’s like having my mental health issues. See, if others can relate. At the end of the day, each of us who have a mental health condition is literally in a fight with themselves.

I’m going to write what works for myself first, because I don’t want to write about what my mental health is like first, in case, it does trigger someone, before I’ve even got to write about what might work.

Writing this list, please note, that I still get anxiety attacks. This can help lessen my wooooooooooooo.

  1. My last drink before bed is always either water or a chamomile tea.
  2. One of the reasons I love my plushies, is because they’re great cuddlers. They’re great when no one else wants to cuddle!
  3. Being aware of how your body reacts to certain foods and drinks. For an example, I can only drink one cup of hot chocolate a day, and I really shouldn’t do that either. It’s so sugary, that the come down after a hour or so makes me go weird.
  4. I wish I had started to Garden earlier! It’s the best! On a good day, you get out there, listen to the birds, and make your garden a bit tired…While getting some exercise too.
  5. Computer games that I can get lost in for hours! One of the big problems with anxiety, is that sometimes you can get stuck. So getting lost in something fun for a while, helps. When I first developed big anxiety, I’d play the Sims for literal hours.
  6. Be honest. If you’re having a bad mental health day, be honest with yourself. You can’t fix what you wont acknowledge.
  7. Music, it has to be up to you with what music you choose to listen too. Personally, I will listen to ye olde celtic music and meditation music, especially when I can’t sleep.

World Health Organization – Global challenge for movement on mental health kicks off

So, now we get into the potentially triggering section of the post.

Ignoring my big one, because I’ve only felt like one other time, but because I knew what was happening. I managed to figure myself out. When I can feel that I’m off, it’s a extremely odd feeling. You know something is wrong with your brain, but yet you can’t do anything about it.

A lot of the time, I just sit there going…well…saying to myself “Stop be silly. There’s nothing to worry about.” Some days that can work all on it’s own, but if I’ve had a bad day, or for some reason my brain just feels “lazy”. I can’t stop it. When everything first happened, I had a hard time showering, so I use to sing one sentence in my head over and over “I shot the sheriff, but I did not shoot the deputy”. I was so frightened of having a anxiety attack, especially being wet and in the nude.

It’s a really annoying feeling, many times my Doctor and Therapist have asked me “What do I want to happen” and I always say to them “I just want to feel normal again”. You are literally fighting your brain to “behave” itself. It’s a really odd feeling.

One thing I have noticed though. When someone else is sick, or needs help, or take a few days ago, when we went looking for our cousins lost dog. Normally I can’t stand being in a car for long. Yet, I managed the other day to be in one for three hours with no problem. I wont mention times like that until I get back to the safety of home though, lol

I think it’s why I fight, not only do I understand the mental stress and strain that people MUST be under, but it’s also a positive distraction for myself. I look, fighting for trans people at the moment. We’ve all gone through so much this year, and the transphobia that Rowling is just throwing about, is just so unnecessary and cruel. How transphobics don’t “get it”…Well…I don’t get it…