Meme’s

I wanted to start this post off with saying “Yay! I thought of something to write” and I’m writing it in a hurry so hopefully I don’t get my English all mixed up!

Also though, when did a meme become a “fact” or a representative of a whole community? There are some good meme’s out there, I also know though in my mind that a meme doesn’t represent a community as as whole. So I have HUGE issue with the meme that is pictured below.

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This meme tends to come up a lot when you see the fat vs skinny debate. I don’t know why people think this ONE meme represents an entire community, or that it’s some kind of evidence, because I know it’s not true. The majority of guys in my family, especially on my Dad’s side are all tall and skinny. My Dad’s nickname when he was younger was “Bones”. Now I get asked A LOT if my brother, cousins and Uncles are eating (generally by bigger people as well) BEHIND THEIR BACKS and through private messaging. So I know it DOES happen.

Also though and quiet frankly, someone SHOULD be talking to this guy. I don’t know why bragging how no one seems to care about your health is a good thing, or proves a point either? I would also be willingly to bet that people talk about it behind his back. He doesn’t mention as well though how everyone comments on how great he looks either.

As a society we are becoming bigger, it’s just a fact. Each person’s health will be different and it will depend on a lot of different factors. I’m not obese, but because of my families issues with high cholesterol. I do have high cholesterol, so I have to be aware of that all the time. So although I am not what people would call “obese” I know my body can become unhealthy very quickly. I do wonder though if people who do get so upset so quickly about their weight by strangers, might be feeling guilty? I always feel guilty when I eat bad food, because I know I probably shouldn’t.

It’s an interesting topic, I get called skinny by some and fat by others. Yet I never get upset about it. I don’t know why. I guess in some ways I know if I REALLY wanted to do something, I could. But it wont be because of someone else’s meme or opinion of me…Except for possibly my Doctors point of view,lol

*I still hope someone talks to this guy*

Best Theme Ever!

A couple of years ago…or should I this year? Nah, I can’t lie to you…A couple of years ago I celebrated my 30th party with a Moulin Rouge/Favourite Character theme party. It’s still my favourite birthday ever. Then all these feelings came up again over the last long weekend, last weekend. Mainly because I finally got to watch Moulin Rouge again, by myself and with no interruption…and now I want to have another Moulin Rouge party!

What is your favourite party ever? Was there a theme…Would you do it again?

Or what was your worse party ever? Feel comfortable…Please share!

 

I hate you, but I want you

Oh god…Can I just say how much I am starting to really dislike social media sites. There are just far too many people with opinions, and if you hit them with a fact, and it doesn’t suit their agenda they just will not listen. I’m not talking just politics, I’m talking about everything. Literally everything.

At the same time though, it’s the best way to keep in touch with people and those people you actually give two hoots about.

The other person

I am such an odd person, I feel like I have such a different view on life and how I view certain situations. I’m just going to have too say that I have been cheated on in pretty much every single relationship I’ve ever been in. I don’t understand it, what I don’t actually understand is why cheat when you can break up with me? I have never been married, I don’t have kids with any of these people, so why didn’t they just leave?

That’s not what my weird view of life is about though, I’m sure lots of people think that “Why didn’t they just leave”.

What I don’t do, I have never blamed the other person who cheated with my partner. I have had quiet a few of these ladies come to me after my break ups. Mainly, I think it’s because they thought when my ex and I had broken up, they were just going to jump into a relationship with my ex. When that didn’t happen, they thought coming to me would do something, I’m not exactly sure what. I was always thought it was an odd thing to do because why do these people think my ex’s respected me enough to listen to me, when they had cheated on me, and didn’t break up with me instead. That’s not respectful, they didn’t respect me, clearly. They’re not going to listen to me now.

I have always felt though, it’s not the “other persons” job to respect me and protect me and take care of my heart, that is 100% my partners job. Even if they actually know about me, it’s still not their job. They don’t know me, they may know of my existence, but they don’t KNOW me, they owe me absolutely nothing.

I’ve been tempted in the past and I don’t think a lot of people would have blamed me, and I’m like 99% sure the other person would have been up for it. I still didn’t do it though. I didn’t do it for me, I didn’t do it for my partner at the time. I realised something was wrong and I tried to fix it. My partner then continued to cheat on me, or tried too (that’s a whole other story for another day) and we broke up. I can look myself in the face/mirror though and be proud and happy with myself. It also gave me a huge amount of respect for the person I wanted to cheated with, since they didn’t do anything either. In all honestly as well, until I had met my current partner I always had a little “What if

The only time I would ever blame the “other person” is if they were a good friend or a family member, that’s it.

Squads

For those who don’t know what a Squad is, other than  a sport reference, the other kind of squad. A “Squad” can also be true for a celebrity as well. Generally meaning any kind of celebrity can have a “squad” that pretty much, any time the “chosen” celebrity gets attacked or something similar, they will usually jump in … They are generally really NAAAAAAAAAAAAAASTY!

They also have an issue if their celebrity is on a show like lip sync battles and someone may like both celebrities…Apparently that is a big “No No”. Below is a very good example of that:

Personal Note: I really LOVE Chrissy Teigen

I think squads are some of the most toxic people I have ever seen in my life. I recently got triggered by some who think there’s only one artist on the planet,ever, whose written about their personal situations in a song…I doubt their intelligence as a human being if they truly believe that.

I am so glad that I didn’t get into that kind of “issue”. I always had my favourites, but I wan’t naive either. They are human, they are going to make mistakes, they are not perfect. I used to like Tom Cruise, I had a huge crush on him, but over the years, he is just too crazy and the whole Scientology thing was a huge turn off. Even Orlando Bloom, I think he is such a gorgeous looking guy, but there’s always just been that little something that put me off, but I can’t put my finger on it…If that makes sense.

What about yourselves, are you part of a celebrity squad? Do you know anyone who is apart of a squad? Have you ever encountered a squad before?