World Book Day!

Put it in your calendar people! August 9th is World Book Day!

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What are you all reading RIGHT NOW!!!

If you all follow me on the Goodreads…here…You’ll know that I’ve just finished the Beautiful by Renee Ahdieh 

If you like Phantom of the Opera and any Kerri Maniscalco…You will adore this one!

But what about you? What are you reading?

Just a reminder of my new Discord channel! I’ve had to update some security issues and restart from the beginning…But I would LOVE to know what you’re all reading right now. So if you want to talk about it here or there. I’m just trying to get a conversation going that isn’t political or just…you know your general horribleness.  Please, feel free, to head over and talk about books and writing!

International Book Friends Club.

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10 Years Ago Now

My grandfather passed away 10 years ago today. He was a good man, we think he held off to pass away until today. As the 7th is two of his grandsons birthday. Lately I have been feeling down…Not Eeyore down, but not Tigger happy either. I know this year has been really bad and especially the last couple of weeks, I cannot believe the TERFS. So I am spending this weekend OFF of Twitter.

I also really hate Winter…Have I mentioned that before?lol…This weekend has probably been the worst that we’ve had for Winter as well, which is weird…Because the weather had been getting better.

My whole family that lives in my state went to go and honor him today. I was feeling ill, and I feel a little weird about it. I thought what they want to do is really sweet idea. I don’t know if because I feel like loved ones never really leave you, spirit…Angels, whatever you want to call them. This year being what it has been, I don’t really want too…not celebrate…a death this year. I don’t think my family are celebrating his death, saying that though. They are honoring him. I guess I just want too not think about death anymore.

I think it’s also because I’m feeling down and I am not sure why. I just don’t want to keep feeling down.


No more TERFS…They are idiots.

I had one interesting night on Twitter. Where a whole bunch of TERFS, showed us for the idiots they are. Which then made me feel a little better, because for people who support someone whose famous for writing. They’ve clearly never read a thing in their lives. For people hating on others for not being “real”. A LOT of them have fake names and no picture of themselves. How do we know that they are even a woman!

Even though they are trying to control other people’s bodies, they think they’re the woman in this non-trans related incident. At least the guy was only trying to control what she’s wearing. TERFS want to control other people’s bodies…THEY ARE LITERALLY THE MAN IN THIS VIDEO, except worse.

Also, I was literally disgusted with this person for using a non-transrelated situation, as an excuse to hate on transpeople. One that has nothing to do with transpeople.

Like I said, have clearly never read anything before.

Notice, how a lot of TERFS, while hating on people for not being “real” and being fake. Hide behind fake names and fake pictures. So I ask them, why should I believe you are even a woman? Until you can prove it. Then I am not calling you one. I said to one, who seems to be a big Rowling fan, before the “I stand with that horrible woman” came about. I said, instead of her picture of a sheep (I mean, we all know what she is anyway). This one may be more appropriate.

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One of these people went on to say, that I was the one who brought up transpeople. Even though they had “transmen” literally within their first sentence. That I said they couldn’t talk about biology. So I pointed out to them, that I literally never said that they couldn’t talk about biology. I said they “shouldn’t” talk about biology, when the video HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH TRANSPEOPLE OR BIOLOGY.

I spent the whole of yesterday trying to explain to “parents”. How disowning your children, because they want to call you them a pronoun, is not what good parents do. It makes you not only a bigot, but a REALLY bad parent. If their children (when I saw child, their child is 20 years old) was a bad person, sure…But to disown your children over a pronoun? Then on top of that, other “parents” were saying she should mock her child!

I just couldn’t with that.

Also, the whole powerful and fully funded trans lobby is back apparently! I bet Elton John is the leader. I mean no TERF can name them, and apparently despite being the most powerful trans lobby with no name. The TERFS can’t find the stats to prove how few transpeople had been murdered, like that’s a good enough reason for people to not have rights? Who would have thought one of the smallest groups, would also have been murdered less…statistically. How…”human” of them.

Also, the leader of the almighty and powerful, fully funded trans lobby (you know, the ones that no TERF can never actually name). Is totally run by Grover…

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Ego vs Common Sense

Warning the video is nearly two hours…So grab that cup of tea…Get comfortable…It’ll be worth it!

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I started to write this post, after signing into the YouTube and seeing all those beauty “influencer’s” in ANOTHER drama. I had watched the above video first and then that came up. All I could think of was what I had seen with Tolle and Brand and all I could think of was, what was the point again of this influencer’s? None of them are influencing in a positive way. Although not everyone is a Tolle, these “influencer’s” are nothing about ego, they’re not even trying.


Do you really want to be a woman?

As I see the comments come in from more and more TERF’s. It makes me wonder…Who wants to be a woman anyway? We are horrible!

It’s always woman who decide that because a man has a pretty face, he can’t possibly be a horrible person (ie Ted Bundy, Johnny Depp).

We are always, and usually the majority, to say “What was she wearing?” When someone was raped.

It’s usually woman who cry false rapes. Damaging women who were raped (ie Tara Reid).

I haven’t seen a man, yet, cracking a fit and throwing store property, damaging it. Because they don’t want to wear a mask.

It’s mainly been women (lesbian and cis) spreading misinformation about transpeople.

We get periods and then menopause.

Childbirth is HARD.

Women are looked at WAY more harshly, usually by other women, if we don’t want kids.

As much as I love that breast cancer has so much funding, why do we think having breasts are more important than say prostate cancer. We don’t have as nearly much funding for cervix cancer, which is much more deadly.

While men are much more likely to kill us, and I don’t want this to sound like I making that less. It is serious. Women though, they may not kill as much, they do scar more people for life. It’s kind of like pit-bulls vs chihuahuas. People fear pit-bulls, because they can kill or do far more damage to us. Chihuahuas, they are STILL VICIOUS! It’s just that they’re smaller, so we think of them less vicious. They may not be able to kill us, but they can still do damage that stays with you for life. You think JKRowling is doing, wont stay with people for life?

It’s not called “Mean Guys”.

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One Name…Part Two

A couple of weeks ago, I posted a blog post called “One Name” which was about how Trump just refuses to call Covid19…Covid19. This time, this is about white supremacy and transphobic people. Apart from the clearly different names, what is the difference? Both groups:

  • Spread misinformation.
  • Or just one side…Their side. ie the other side is bad.
  • They are both trying to wipe out vulnerable groups.
  • They’re both trying to wipe out vulnerable groups, not because those groups are horrible. But because THEY fear, what they do not understand.
  • They just LOVE to play “victim”.
  • They both accuse you of saying things you never actually said, and then keep repeating that.
  • When they talk about “protecting the children” They never talk about how to protect the children. It ALWAYS turns into about them.
  • The PROJECTION with these people!

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Human Choices, means we CAN work together!

The best choice that we are given in this life, as human, is too love or too hate.

Too love and to hate is OUR choice to make.

They may be the only two choices we really get too make in this lifetime. Too love and too hate. We can’t really control our bodies, we can’t really control getting that job we want and we definitely can’t control winning the lotto…But…love and hate, we CAN control that!

We can control how we treat others. We can choose to inform ourselves.

There is SO much us vs them, when it’s weird because we all want the same thing?

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I think this is what I get the LEAST about #TERF this whole “support women”. Trans Activist are, you are not. How about ALL women #worktogether to bring the Patriarchy to heal instead of attacking trans-women? Too stop violence against women? Why are they SO us vs them…We are ALL women!

The people fighting over whose better Kamala Harris or Elizabeth Warren…They are BOTH fantastic candidates for VP! We’re all on the same level here, at least I thought so? Lately I’ve been having to unfollow a LOT of “Get Rid of Trump” people. It’s way too toxic. We all want to get rid of Trump, right? Which means we need a GOOD VP, and both ladies are GOOD…They are so good in fact, I wish that were in the nomination for POTUS.

In Victoria, they are now in pretty much total lockdown…Because, human beings are stupid. The people who were against masks, thought that the virus isn’t real. Are now the one’s complaining why didn’t the mask work? BECAUSE YOU WEREN’T WEARING MASKS! YOU THOUGHT THE VIRUS WASN’T REAL, SO DID NO SOCIAL DISTANCING. These people decided to listen to “political” news reporters, instead of Health Officials and now they’re complaining about them.


I literally had to point out to a woman, who was glad that they weren’t going to fund a woman’s rape center. On the off chance a transwoman, might sneak through. What absolutely INFURIATED me. The screw women woman further down in the conversation. Stated that she didn’t even KNOW that transwomen have been going to rape centers for literal DECADES! And she STILL couldn’t figure out why we couldn’t support them making separate rape centers for transwomen separately, when, clearly, it was SO bad with trans-women in the rape center…SHE DIDN’T EVEN KNOW! She literally said “Now I know, I’m going to fight it”…WHY…Because it was working so badly, you literally DID NOT KNOW!

Another one of her likers said, why can’t you work with us, instead of against us.

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Why can’t THEY work with ALL women, and help bring the Patriarchy to heal and HELP to stop violence against women? Or just help to stop rape, altogether. How does separating women who have been raped from other women who have been raped, helpful? There is no way in hell if transwomen being in a rape centre, wasn’t working, that there would be total silence. They probably would have by now.

Why can’t Warren and Harris supporters work together to get rid of Trump AND Pence!

Where’d You Go…Kindness

Feels like this song relates a lot to Kindness and where did it go? I’m crying now,lol. I was also REALLY lazy over this past weekend with blogging. Just a lot going on.

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Where’d you go?
I miss you so
Seems like it’s been forever
That you’ve been gone
She said, “Some days I feel like shit”
Some days I wanna quit, and just be normal for a bit”
I don’t understand why you have to always be gone
I get along but the trips always feel so long
And, I find myself tryna stay by the phone
‘Cause your voice always helps me when I feel so alone
But I feel like an idiot, workin’ my day around the call
But when I pick up I don’t have much to say
So, I want you to know it’s a little fucked up
That I’m stuck here waitin’, at times debatin’
Tellin’ you that I’ve had it with you and your career
Me and the rest of the family here singing “Where’d you go?”
I miss you so
Seems like it’s been forever
That you’ve been gone
Where’d you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it’s been forever
That you’ve been gone
Please come back home.
You know the place where you used to live,
Used to barbeque up burgers and ribs,
Used to have a little party every Halloween with candy by the pile,
But now, you only stop by every once in a while,
Shit, I find myself just fillin’ my time,
Anything to keep the thought of you from my mind,
I’m doin’ fine, I plan to keep it that way,
You can call me if you find you have somethin’ to say,
And I’ll tell you, I want you to know it’s a little fucked up,
That I’m stuck here waitin’, at times debatin’,
Tellin’ you that I’ve had it with you and your career,
Me and the rest of the family here singing, “Where’d you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it’s been forever,
That you’ve been gone.
Where’d you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it’s been forever,
That you’ve been gone,
Please come back home
I want you to know it’s a little fucked up,
That I’m stuck here waitin’, no longer debatin’,
Tired of sittin’ and hatin’ and makin’ these excuses,
For while you’re not around, and feeling so useless,
It seems one thing has been true all along,
You don’t really know what you got ’til it’s gone,
I guess I’ve had it with you and your career,
When you come back I won’t be here and you’ll can sing it
Where’d you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it’s been forever,
That you’ve been gone
Where’d you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it’s been forever,
That you’ve been gone

Please come back home

I am ashamed…

Being white and a woman, right now…I am so sorry.

After seeing the most gender of people throwing a fit about masks, are women. Seeing most of the people hating on Transpeople lately are women. Who in HECK even wants to be a woman right now? I don’t want to be anymore…

It’s called “Mean Girls” not “Mean Boys” for a reason.

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Too me, depending which sex you are, isn’t just all about what sexual organ you or I have. It’s also, in the mind. Women, generally, are supposed to be the nurturers, the carers…We’re not supposed to be the ones, inflicting the same kind of harm that a lot of these “Gender Critical” women do, and who accuse men of doing what they themselves do.

I was assaulted by a man, but I learned to trust men again, because of men. So, I will be damned if I let women blame transwomen, for something, they have never done to these people. Life’s too short to hate on people who have never even done anything to you.