Here, is a safe space

I will trigger warn, I am writing a bit about domestic violence.

I was extremely disturbed yesterday, after Heard’s interview with SG. “People” were calling her a psychopath. Because, she recognised how everyone falls under Depps spell, but that she also loved him still.

She did not disturb me. What disturbed me was people calling her a psychopath because of that.

It’s actually a very common thing, for an abuse victim to still care or love their abuser or harasser, even after they’ve left for themselves. Think also Meghan Markle. Think me, lol. I have cut communication with my Dad, still love him though. Times it is hard too though.

It is also known as Stockholm Syndrome

There is nothing wrong with you, you are not a psychopath for still caring or loving your abuser. This is why I was so infuriated, I’ve come off of Twitter for a while.

Why Do Some People Fall in Love With Abusive Partners? Medically reviewed by Lori Lawrenz, PsyD — Written by Kimberly Drake and Sandra Silva Casabianca on June 24, 2021

It’s what brings me to this blog post.

This blog is s safe space, my Discord, Instagram are all safe spaces. If you feel that I or anyone is making you upset with a blog topic, I swear I wont yell at them or you. I’m human, I make mistakes, but I don’t want to be continually putting you all in harms way.

Of course that’s not the same, as me being woke or a leftists. Deal with that yourself, lol

I was absolutely disturbed at all these people saying that Heard was a psychopath because she both was saying that she recognizes the hold he has over others, the toxic relationship, and that she still loves him anyway. She married the guy. That is completely normal.

What is not normal though, is a bunch of strangers, bragging how they watched the trial, and were completely fine with him texting things like that he wanted to have sex with a corpse, and a girls “pussy” is his and he owns it, he takes what he wants. And calling another stranger a psychopath, because she still loves the man she had married.

That’s not normal.

What these “fans” are doing on Twitter, FB, Insta, THAT’S not normal. Did you know, by the way, that Depp, who is in his 60’s, has never dated a woman OVER 30. Ryder, was a minor when she first dated him, and only 19 when they broke up.

He’s a total A-Grade wanker…

You ARE normal, he’s not and his little Deppford wives are not normal either.

Talking about Disturbed…

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5 thoughts on “Here, is a safe space

  1. Just on your post about Johnny Depp, you’re entitled to your opinion of course, and you may still believe that he abused Amber, but all evidence seems to be pointing to the contrary – that she lied from the start, that she abused her own sister in various ways (there was a letter to Whitney from her close friend that made mention of Johnny and Amber’s relationship, and insinuated that Whitney had been dealing with Amber’s lies and abuse for years). Also, I take those texts to Paul Bettany with a grain of salt. They were never meant for the public to hear, it was one guy venting to another about his relationship. All I know is that one ex after another of Johnny’s have come out in support of him, saying that he never laid a hand on them, including Vanessa Paradis, who had his children, Winona Ryder, Kate Moss and Jennifer Grey, who was briefly engaged to him. People don’t just become violent and controlling overnight. And Amber’s the one with the violent past, going on previous AVOs that have been taken out on her by her ex-girlfriend.

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    1. Please stop. Depp was venting to a “friend” about his girlfriend, that he went later on to marry. I don’t know about you, that’s gross. Personally, I would not take with a grain of salt, the man I LOVE talking about trying to kill me. That’s not normal, and you’re gross for suggesting it should be taken with a “grain of salt”. How many people do you honestly know talk like that about their partner, BEFORE they marry them? You also just happened to ignore the ex-girlfriends who spoke out against him. One of whom, actually went to court to talk about her relationship, Ellen Barkin. Jennifer Grey and Depp dated in the late 80’s, she has not “supported” him, she has said he doesn’t seem like the person she knew, in the late 80’s. I’m not surprised that Paradis started out in support of Depp, she is the mother of his children. I wonder how she feels NOW seeing him humiliate her and her children and calling her a French extortionist cunt. Let me guess, we should take that too with a grain of salt. Heard’s sister also spoke in support of her sister. Ryder was a MINOR when he dated her. In fact, Depp has NEVER dated a woman over the age of 30.
      True, that people just don’t become abusive over night, but when you actually look back at Depp’s life. He’s a narcissist manipulator. Think with your brain and not your genitals.
      Depp is also currently having to go BACK to court for allegedly assaulting his own security guard, Plus his violent behaviour over the years.

      Please, grow up. No one is saying that Heard didn’t do anything wrong, nor have they said that she’s an Angel. But people like YOU keep acting like Depp is some kind of hero, because he stood up to the “mean bully. When in, FACT, he is just as bad.

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      1. Good points, all. Admittedly, I haven’t followed the case as closely as you have but I also don’t follow Johnny’s career that closely – I’m over forty and don’t actually find him that interesting. However, what I’ve heard about her doesn’t make her an angel, either. I think they’re as bad as each other. But she has been caught out in lies and did damage his reputation, which is the main reason he took her to court for defamation. That’s all I have to say about this.

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    2. Speaking about Moss, he may have not laid an hand on her, but that doesn’t mean he wasn’t aggressive, then. 2. In 1994, Depp was arrested again on charges of criminal mischief when he destroyed a hotel room because he was having a fight with his girlfriend at the time, 20 year old Kate Moss. He had to pay almost $10,000 in damages, but again he got off. Depp claimed that Kate Moss was asleep when he did the $10k damage to room, while some reports say they were both arguing with each other.

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