Bride reveals common wedding mistake to avoid: ‘Don’t do it’
In this article, the Bride talks about how she showed off her dress to everyone…Except the expecting hubby. She said it’s the one regret she has. As the wedding became more real, she started to doubt her dress.
She continued, “People are bad liars and no matter how hard they try, if they don’t like your dress, when you show them that photo, it will show on their face, their true feelings will show. “So even if you truly love your dress and feel great in it, those little opinions will subconsciously start to taint your perspective of your own dress.”
As the title suggests, I am not married and am not engaged. Yet, I’ve been told what I can wear, what colour the dress needs to be, I can only wear white (yeah, that’s not going to happen) for the “religious” people. Don’t get me wrong, I’d look nice in a white dress. But a plain white dress?
… Like … I’m not marrying these Religious people … I would be marrying my partner, who also told me I HAD to wear white, because some people in his family are religious.
Like, sorry…My partner is an atheist, and I’m nearly 40 and not a virgin.
Fine, I wont wear a red wedding dress…But neither am I going to wear white … I’m thinking Lavender … Maybe green or yellow
I’ve been told who I can invite, who I cannot invite.
I’ve been told where I can and cannot have it.
I am already considering security.
I‘M NOT EVEN ENGAGED!
My ideas have changed over the years for the type of wedding I’d like. There’s a couple of things I know what I want.
I would like my bouquet to have Australian Native, some type English Rose and Edelweiss…My partner’s ancestry is from Germany.
But that’s it, haha…Like I keep changing my mind with everything else, lol.
Yeah, I think it’s a really good idea when it comes to a Wedding to keep as much as you can a secret. This could apply to other things as well, like … your child’s name. SO many people want to get involved in that one too!
Yeah…White? Keep dreaming! haha
2 thoughts on “Not getting married … yet … Some really good ideas though!”
Weddings have always been a big deal to those involved yet modernity seems to make it a big deal for anyone with an opinion regardless of involvement.
Maybe it is my aspergers at work but I just don’t get it as to why people feel the need to poke their noses into things like this when it has very little to do with them as they are the guests and not the main event.
Way back in the mists of time a white wedding dress meant virginal and pure and could only be worn by a woman who had those two things. Modernity simply dictates that a wedding dress be white. All the other stuff you pointed out is timeless and will probably never change.
Good on you for having the courage of your convictions.
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Just before I read this, I had just seen this little part of a show called “I’m a Mama’s show”…It was horrifying!