Sometimes…

…I think I am weird because I don’t find abusive people “sexy”.

I used to have a friend who tell us to call her boyfriend “Sexy”, not only does this make me feel uncomfortable (because he’s my ex-bff’s boyfriend and I had a boyfriend myself) but I found it even MORE uncomfortable because he was/is abusing her.

I have noticed though a lot of women, find aggressive men sexy…I think of Chris Brown or someone like Ted Bundy…I don’t understand that. It drives me nuts when women say that Chris Brown learnt and became “better” after Rihanna and that Rihanna forgive him…Except he didn’t stop at Rihanna…Or women writing and wanting to marry a man who IS a serial killer…

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I do not understand this fascination that some people have with being obsessed with truly horrible people.

From what I’ve been reading, especially with the Bill Cosby convictions. I get for the African American community they feel under represented (ie Chris Brown, Billy Cosby) … They can definitely do better and their bad behaviour, doesn’t take away from the progress that has been made and what they contributed. Don’t punish the other actors in that show either. What people like Bill Cosby have done is on them, personally, not the African American community…Well maybe not Chris Brown so much…I think he’s just always been an entertainer. I will probably keep watching the Cosby show, despite everything. It is a good show and what the show represents, is positive too.

However, you come back to someone like Ted Bundy or, even Charles Manson…or my ex-bff’s boyfriend…They just make me shiver all over and never really contributed anything to society. So why the fascination?

3 thoughts on “Sometimes…

  1. I think some people are attracted to men like that because they have underlying issues to work out with themselves. Me personally, any sign of a super aggressive guy is a huge turn off to me.

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