One of my triggers was set off a few days ago…and I am so over it! It all started when I saw this Twitter post by Emily Ratajkowski and you would think by now I would have learnt by now to NOT read the comments.


I could not control myself! I kind of lost it with one commenter and I swear this is what they posted:

“You’re a pathetic Kardashian wannabe, . Couldn’t pick a classier role model to follow? Feminism has nothing to do with being a slut.”

First of all, I cannot STAND women who do that to another women. What we wear has nothing to do with us being a slut or not, I also really just hate that word in general. It sure as hell does not mean someone is less of a feminist because of their clothing. However, calling another woman a “slut” for what she wears, is NOT feminism and gives the rest of us a bad name.

I don’t understand how someone can call themselves a feminist and in the same 140 characters, call another a woman a slut? I posted the apparent “offending” dress which a lot of people decided was inappropriate? I don’t think that it’s any shocking than anything else I’ve ever seen before.


Also from my own personal point of view, Feminism IS about “being a slut” Being a feminist to me, is about being equal to men, which includes women being able to sleep with whoever they want, wear whatever they want, WITHOUT being persecuted. Isn’t that kind of the point?


10 thoughts on “Wannabe

  1. I so agree with you, this is one of my pet peeves. First of all, people have worn more revealing than that. Second, she looks good in it so kudos to her and third, why be upset over what someone else wears? How does it affect you in any way. She’s not hurting anyone!

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  2. I think the dress is hideous no matter how beautiful the person. But the fact that it’s very revealing does NOT say anything about morals, but about confidence.

    Feminism is about women having the same rights and opportunities as men. When I was a kid girls couldn’t play most sports, couldn’t work certain jobs, etc. We still aren’t paid equally. Feminism is about choice. To work, to stay home if able, to have the same choices as men.

    Really great post.

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