I recently read an article on KennethJustice.com which really made me think about some things…I only wanna listen to what I want……REALLY???
I have been dealing with this problem over the last couple of months. As a few things have hit me about certain friendships. People who will tag you in those “Friends are like Family” type posts and your first thought “You are so full of it”…The type where you can literally write “I am not okay”, they ignore that (while tagging you in those “posts…Friends that are like Family) then you write how people suck and THAT one they seem to pay attention to and get all offended by?
Like Kenneth I have noticed a trend of people just not listening any-more other than when they want to prove someone wrong. Some people I only ever hear from when they want to tell me that I am doing something wrong…I admit, I tend to ignore these people. This is generally because you can’t just talk to someone and make bold comments on someone’s words, their thoughts and ideas if you are only ever talking to them when it suits you. Positive or Negative. In order to get a full novel of someone’s life, you have to have conservations with that person…Pleasant and Unpleasant.
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This is so true. I think people just want to appear like they are loving and have friends when in reality they don’t care about what happens to you at all.
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Yeah I totally agree! I’ve been feeling like that a lot more these days.
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Some people seem to be more focused on the idea of friendship than on the actual friendship … to compensate for their lack of depth, such people will often over-romanticize the concept of friendship.
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Oh wow, you know what? That sounds exactly what my friends sound like. They are obsessed with the whole idea of romance. It wouldn’t actually surprise me at all to find out that they romanticised their friendships as well!
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