As you probably have guessed (and from me blogging about it constantly) I have broken up with my last ‘beau’.
We were at that stage when we were both “Lets be friends” and everything was hunky dorey and we kept telling each other how much we missed each other…and then…One of us (i.e. him) decided to do something stupid and I found out about it (mainly because his friend posted it on his Facebook account). So now we’re at the “don’t speak to me ever again” point.
I’m not sure why this seems to happen to me, but my ex’s always tend to run straight to the person (their friend) who made my life the most horrible/miserable. So the first thing that happens is this person makes sure that I am aware of this. I have no idea why this seems to happen to me every single break up (and I am not exaggerating). On the plus side though it makes letting go THAT much easier. I honestly believe who you CHOOSE to be friends with, no matter how much you may “claim” not respect or like them. If you hang around people…Doesn’t that make YOU much worse than them? At least they are truly being the morons everyone believes them too be.
This is something that I have struggled with every single break up. I am sitting there defending them to my friends and family (when necessary) and yet my ex’s run to the people who hurt me the most, while claiming they have no respect for them? Pretty much (to me at least) proving what truly kind of person you are? If you choose to hang out with someone who uses a private medical condition as a weapon to hurt someone, makes up stories that you tell everyone else EXCEPT the person you are actually apparently mad at and passively aggressively cut out your so-called “life-long best friends” and that’s who choose to be with…You, my ex-friend, have everything coming to you.
Even as I am writing this my views are constantly changing…Now I am at “I don’t even care…I always remember how you chose them over me…Too have a deep and meaningful, you have to be deep and meaningful to begin with -.-“…
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3 thoughts on “Why? Goodbye my almost lover <3”
Hmm not sure what exactly was done, but you are better off. Everything happens for a reason, and if this guy was too stupid to remove the ‘stupid’ from his life…then he really was no better and you’re better off without him….even though it hurts…
Haha! Yeah I wrote this over a bad weekend,lol…My ex has some friends who don’t like me but wont tell me why. He went and finally told them about us breaking up and they were taking pictures of them smiling and blah,lol…So I felt pretty betrayed and I told him so and he just stopped speaking to me and I became very distressed about it. When he finally decided to talk to me, he was completely in the wrong with what I said,lol. It was like I had said something completely different,lol
Wow, sounds super childish. If he’s going to pick that kind of bull shit over you, then clearly he does not think much of you and that’s not right. Screw that guy.