Date Yourself!

It’s amazing when we are in a  relationship how much of an effort we are willingly to “date” someone, the getting ready, the saving money, making sure that we are going somewhere they like. One of the things that used to frustrate me about my past partners was they’d always want to play games with their friends and I’d get ditched all the time, when I wanted to go out and have fun. If we ever went to the movies, it was always with their friends and it would never be a movie that I wanted to see.

At a very rough time in my life, I had gone to visit a boyfriend at work, and it was at a shopping mall that I had not been too for a very long time. I had planned to have a little look around and then come back to have lunch with my partner. I ended up spending all day by myself, shopping, eating, drinking coffee and seeing a movie that I had wanted to see. It was the most fun day I had had for so many months. It was then that I made a resolution to myself which I have applied too, even more so, being single.

Once a month I take myself out on a “date”. I go to the movies, I go too exhibitions I want and I treat myself to a lunch or a special treat at a nice cafe/restaurant. It is something that I HIGHLY recommend all single people and people in relationships do too. It has also made me more brave to go to more places by myself rather than relying on someone to end up taking me.

So take a spa day by yourself and for yourself. Buy the bad food and watch that movie that makes you cry. Dress up in your favourite clothes and dance to your favourite music.

Take the time to make an effort to date yourself!

Dating Day!

6 thoughts on “Date Yourself!

  1. Absolutely love this post – and I’m a little jealous didn’t come up with this myself! 😉 But it’s a seriously great idea and something I’m going to make more of an effort to do. Awesome!

  2. I’ve been telling myself I should do this! I want to get more used to/ok with doing things myself and realizing I don’t need to be around people to enjoy things. I’m glad you are doing it!

    1. You should definitely do it! It feel really nervous at first, but then you look around and realise that lots of people are there by themselves as well!

      1. Plus who really notices the person by themselves or cares? And why should I care if I feel I look silly? I should really do this.

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